Chapter 480: An Unexpected Journey of Life

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The mother said: It's nothing to have another one, but if it doesn't work, I'll have a caesarean section. However, most of the time the monk regarded you as a 30-year-old person, so he said that Guanyin Bodhisattva would bless you for 18 years.

However, the monk also said that there was a mistake in choosing 18 years ago. You have helped many people in the past 18 years, but there is no one to be grateful, no one has helped you no matter what you do, only people who make bad things. So in the future, you have to be mysterious, don't tell people, and have a better chance of success.

Think about it carefully, at that time, when the title was evaluated, colleagues asked for the title of reporter, and at that time, the press card was still relatively popular. The boss mobilized me to get the title of editor. Assistant editor one year later, promoted to editor four years later, could this be a mistake in decision, shouldn't you make a wedding dress for others?

Or was it the choice to abandon honesty and silence in the Organizing Department's poll on my boss's promotion?

In fact, there are too many opportunities for people to go on a fork in the road because of accidents, and although the scenery along the way is different, the final destination is still the same -- death! Either die contentedly or die with lingering fears. I choose to help others unconditionally, maybe everyone will think of me as a fool who is easy to bully, but in the end, I will calmly watch the stars dim after they shine, and my candle-like fire of life is like the only light in the boundless night.

No matter how the world changes, I will still take the "Five Constants" of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith as my code of conduct, and teach my son by words and deeds: It is very interesting for the ancients to make words. The benevolent one, the second person. It refers to being able to get along well with another person. The righteous, the herringbone is out, add a little. It refers to helping others when they are in trouble. The salute is also shown to others. If you bend down yourself, others will be taller, so it is polite to respect others. The wise man "knows" the Tao and the "day" of the usual things. If you think through the things in your daily life, you are called wisdom. Those who believe, people also speak. The ancients were innocent and simple, and there were not so many flowery intestines, so what people said was true and credible. Now, even my mother's words have to be carefully pondered.

When I saw my mother when I was five years old, I couldn't understand what she said, so what others thought was the most wrong thing I did was actually a choice I made without regrets. But after 10 years of wholeheartedly educating my son, the theme of his essay is: There are no rules for my mother's life.

The content is: In fact, it cannot be said that there are no guidelines, but that her guidelines are incorrect. For example: sleeping until she wakes up naturally, counting money until her hands cramp - too vulgar, not noble; her yard words are a bunch of nonsense and forget to sleep and eat, it is better to yard bricks......

So his last piece of advice to me was: put down the keyboard and become a Buddha on the spot

Facts have proved that even if the son takes benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith as the code of conduct, he will not think that it is the result of his mother's storytelling and indoctrination since childhood, but will think that it is learned and pondered by himself. The housework that a mother does can be done by an illiterate person, so there is no difference between a mother and an ignorant person.

Originally, I wanted my child to inherit my wisdom and his father's physique, but the opposite happened.