Chapter 31: Family Matters (1)

Chapter 3: The Hidden Danger of Reality [Varu Alan (Mongolian)]

(1) There are two elders in the family

As the saying goes: there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure. Since yesterday, I have two treasures in my family.

My in-laws came from my hometown in Gansu.

Of course, the second elder was a peacemaker invited by Mr. Pei, saying that I was seriously ill and asked them to help take care of me, and by the way to watch the Olympic games.

My in-laws' impression of Beijing is diametrically opposed, my mother-in-law says that everything is better than my hometown, and my father-in-law says that everything is not as delicious as my hometown.

Mother-in-law refers to things like snacks, ice cream, yogurt, etc., which happen to be something that my father-in-law never touches.

Father-in-law refers to three meals such as meat and staple food, and there is no fragrance produced in his own field.

My in-laws have four children, each of whom has a family in four places, and they are not worried about running back and forth all year round, especially which family has something to do, and often sets off overnight. Since 1999, when he said that he would settle in Beijing, he has run away countless times.

Now, the grandchildren are all older, and my son is their youngest grandson, and he will be in junior high school this year. So, this time, I watched the Olympics with peace of mind.

The biggest characteristic of this person is that I am easy-going, it can also be said that there are no principles and no rules, and I see everything pleasing to the eye. I don't think there's anything wrong with others, and I certainly don't know what's wrong with myself.

My mom said she wanted a daughter-in-law like me.

I am the eldest daughter at home, and I am the only one who has quarreled with my mother, and I am the bridge between my mother and my father and my younger siblings. I dared to quarrel with my mother because I knew that she would not hold a grudge. And my sisters are smart and know how to please their mom. The two younger brothers will not talk back to their mother even if they are not convinced. But there are some things that I am afraid to tell my mother and ask me to pass on the words.

I'm never afraid of what the words will do to me, and I don't care if my mother gets angry at me at the time. I was often scolded, but my mother also met the requirements of my younger siblings, although my mother thought I was troublesome, and my younger siblings also thought that they deserved it and did not appreciate me, but even if I was at ease, my ears were pure.

For my mother-in-law, I tried my best to flatter her, and I would never say a word against her old man's thoughts. So, I dare say that my mother-in-law spoke to me not only from words and deeds, but also from her heart.

Because I know that I can't choose my mother, and my fate before marriage can't be changed. The happiness of starting a family is determined by another mother, that is, the mother-in-law. No matter what kind of mother-in-law she is, she must love her son.

Therefore, as long as you stand on the same front as your mother-in-law, you can manage your husband and children obediently.

Although I really don't like my husband now, because my parents-in-law are here, I can't call me "Mr. Bei" anymore, but I have to call my husband. Fortunately, as usual, when the farm is busy or something happens, they leave, and we don't have to perform for a long time.