Chapter 1186: Bond (15)

Hedgehog Love: The Bond (Varu Alan)

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When love is transformed into things like emotion, attachment, trust, intimacy, sweetness, or jealousy, sadness, alienation, resentment, pain, and so on, the rational component increases.

It is sweet to enter into marriage in love, but it is likely to be difficult to get along because of personality discord. It is not impossible to talk about marriage after fully understanding each other, but many times it is not so satisfying.

For example, the question of how much savings do you need to marry is really vulgar to say. 1 million is actually not much, and a one-bedroom apartment can only be bought outside the fourth ring road.

I said: I don't need that much money. The money in a person's life is destined when he is born, and it is not good for you to get it early now, and if you spend it all, you will die, maybe you think it is funny.

It's not possible, and many people think it's ridiculous. What do you say, "Why do other billionaires live well, why do people have so much money in their lives, I don't want too much, right?"

But if you look at the lives of billionaires, how much money does he spend on himself? The money he donates, the people who use it in exchange for life. Anyone can not believe it, but when you spend money given by others, when you reach out for money, when you borrow money and are ready not to pay it back, you should think about how many years of life you can use in exchange, and be prepared to bear the disaster that will fall from heaven one day in the future.

So those who donate can be said to be noble or greedy. Kindness and generosity are noble, and accumulating virtue and longevity is also greedy, right?

There is a rich woman named Guo Meimei on the Internet, which has triggered a crisis of trust in the Red Cross, and many people have left messages saying that they will not donate to the Red Cross in the future, but will donate to the hands of the really poor.

I also saw a person apologizing to Wang Shi in his blog, and he scolded him for donating too little during the Wenchuan earthquake.

I remember that at that time, I was very unhappy to read the sneering articles every day because of the updated donation rankings, but I didn't dare to say it explicitly, so on May 25, I posted a blog post with a euphemistic expression of "Ancients": "Wealth and Wisdom: What I Think of when I Look at the List of Disaster Relief Donations". The full text is as follows:

[The ancients said: The rich should give more, and the wise should not show off. Original text: The rich and noble should be generous, but the anti-taboo carving is the form of the rich and the poor! How can we enjoy it? The smart person should hide it, and the anti-ostentatious person is smart and stupid and stupid! How to be undefeated?

It means: The rich and noble should be lenient and benevolent, if they treat others with suspicion and meanness, then they will be like a poor family, how can they enjoy wealth and nobility for a long time?

Looking at the list of earthquake relief donations released by the media these days, they are all either rich or noble, or wise, all of them are generous and benevolent, and compassion is the reason why they get rich, and I hope that they will be more rich and wise!

The ancients also said: The rich are worried, and the noble are dangerous. Original text: Those who hide more are thick and die, so they know that the rich are not as good as the poor; (Caigen Tan)

This means that when the rich have amassed too much wealth, they will be destroyed, so that the rich are not as carefree as the poor, and that those of high status will fall from the heights if they climb too fast. From this, it is better to be in a noble place than to be in a low place, and you can always be stable.

Wealth and danger are more dangerous, so we mortals don't point fingers, make up rankings, and accuse others of picking on the door or something.