Chapter 167: Happiness Walks Through (8)
Chapter 167: Happiness Walks Through (8)
(8) The loneliness of love
Even though I kept crying about my lost memories of my youth, time would not turn back, and she was still accurate to the point of cruelty, minute by minute. When I was preparing for the college entrance examination, my dear, you just walked out of the kindergarten door.
The river of time will not change for us, and in order to keep up with this river I must work tirelessly to overcome many obstacles, just to meet you one day.
As long as your voice is as warm and cheerful as it is now, I am ready to follow you all the time.
I'm still updating, I'm afraid you'll be disappointed. You still sent a message to the magic space, I don't know what to do. Maybe you didn't take it seriously before, but looking back, we've all become unrecognizable.
The personalities that we used to attract to each other have been completely changed by each other. We're not what we used to be, and we're not what we thought we were. It's just that he is unwilling, after all, he has paid his true feelings.
Looking at you, getting married, having children, living an ordinary life, thirty years later, we will grow into the same person, just like I said at the beginning.
You don't always believe in fate, but mine is one you can't change. You can only change yourself. If you have suffered so much, you should be blessed, and you will make your wife very happy. I won't shed tears if you're happy.
Because of loneliness, they fell in love. With love, there is no longer loneliness. Trying to escape from love, they are even more lonely. Love and loneliness go hand in hand. If Adam was not lonely, how could God have created Eve to make them love each other. Because of their love, they are even more afraid of each other's departure. Because separation is a matter of time, and eventually they will be even more lonely.
Loneliness attracts them to love. Is there a difference between right and wrong in love? If love is not wrong, then the ultimate loneliness is doomed, right? Will you love because of loneliness? Will you stick to loneliness because you are waiting for fate?
It is said that the love that unites two lonely hearts because of fate is called true love. Loneliness is every moment, fate is unconscious, and true love is a lifetime.
If you don't know who you are, don't know where your destiny is, and don't know if the loneliness you stick to can wait for a lifetime of love, then surrender and let fate go away with the wind, leaving only the loneliness of love to accompany an ordinary life.
Many people live their lives like this, surrender to the world, find someone who loves them to marry, and lie to themselves and say: being loved is happier than being loved.
Many people believe that if you have wealth and prestige, you will be happy. In fact, there are many people who are rich but miserable as hell, and there are many reports of suicide, madness, or drug death.
What is more reliable is what the ancients said - the night of candles in the cave room, when the title of the gold list is inscribed. Do you think it's a double harvest of love and career, happy enough, right? Unexpectedly, the marriage of the parents' orders and the words of the matchmaker has nothing to do with love!
In the new society, love is free, but people seem to equate love with cohabitation, and once the love affair is exposed, they have to enter into marriage under the pressure of public opinion. There is no happiness in such a marriage.
By the time you really know what you need, what love is, and what happiness is, you will no longer have the right and energy to pursue it.
Therefore, we surrender our love and happiness to our faith, some believe in Buddhism, some believe in Jesus, some believe in Allah, ask the true God of our faith, to drive away the false sin in our lives, those thoughts of darkness and death, to wash away the selfishness in our hearts, those selfish desires that have lost our conscience, loss of kindness and public morality, and to remove the defiled sin of our actions, the joy of shameful indulgence.
Love is a process, and happiness is the end of love.
Love is a job, and happiness is the reward of love.
Love is a feeling, and happiness is the source of love.
Love is a career, and happiness is the pinnacle of love.
When we finally understand the true meaning of love, the heart that has gone through all the vicissitudes of life can no longer feel happy.