Li Ji raised his eyelids, "Little Gillian, it's you, well, it's not better, it's not bad, you know the trade-off." ”

Gillian bit her lip shyly, this uncle is very special, not only in the realm of exercises, in fact, Gillian is limited to her eyesight and knowledge, and she can't see why, what she can accept is the senior's informal attitude towards people, so that these small repairs don't have much pressure,

There are also senior monks in the Dao Palace, all of whom are old-fashioned and serious, and have strict precepts, which makes people daunting, but they are far less cordial than this uncle.

"It's me, my mother is here...... Well, entertaining here, Gillian thought that this was a place to attract people to gamble, so she came in a hurry, but she didn't expect her mother to be very happy here, thank you seniors for providing such a place......"

Li Ji smiled: "What you actually want to ask is, why does a dignified Upper Realm monk open a sparrow pavilion here that is not up to grade and has a lower chin, right?"

Gillian blushed, "Actually, in fact, Gillian just wants to know, after the foundation is built, is it idle to go up and repair? Why do I see those gentlemen in the Dao Palace, one by one, they can't wait to break up the time and knead it to be useless?"

Li Jihan said with a smile: "That's because they haven't gotten rid of the constraints of time, and when they go further, maybe there will be more time......"

The two chatted a few words without a match, Gillian was very sensible, didn't dare to bother too much, and left.

When the sparrow pavilion swept the entire Chonghua world, Li Ji's sparrow ancestor was also indifferent, there are no patents here, and no one gave him a franchise fee, no matter decoration, service, innovation, hardware software can not be compared with professionals, he doesn't care, just keep his old restaurant, old rules, slowly, except for some neighbors, the real gambler will not come, which is what he is pursuing.

Gillian came over from time to time, not all to chat with Li Ji, but also to see her mother; Qi practice Xiao Xiu, always full of illusions about the future, but she didn't know that the mysterious predecessor in her eyes was an exotic, unable to help her on the way, Li Ji never thought of helping her, he always thought that the matter of cultivating the truth is best solved by cultivating the truth, and any pulling out the seedlings to help is not beneficial to the future of a monk, you think you are sending her to heaven, but in fact it is sending her to hell.

"Why are you restless?" found the little girl's abnormality, Li Ji asked casually.

"Uncle, although I don't know your age, I think it's taller than those old-fashioned people in the Dao Palace, but I don't know you, uncle, have you ever been married?"

Li Ji leaned on the rattan chair, "Of course! A person who has never been married is incomplete, even if it is a bad marriage." ”

Gillian was a little unconvinced, "But you're here now! Doing nothing all day, watching a group of old men and old ladies play sparrows, is it more important to look at these than to be with your relatives?"

Of course, Li Ji won't tell her that he is not simply watching people fight sparrows here, but taking quiet in the middle of the noise, clarifying his heart, and she doesn't understand it.

"If the heart is together, it may not be that people must be together, and when people are together, they may not be together;

Gillian squirmed, but still said the troubles that had plagued her for a long time,

"Uncle, do you think I should accept this marriage? Or do you stick to my practice and wait until I have achieved something to think about it?"

Li Ji smiled, "First of all, one is that there is no contradiction between cultivation and marriage, it does not mean that you can't practice anymore if you become a parent, or you can't find your own emotional sustenance when you practice!"

Spiritual practice is a long process, and if you are lucky enough to go further, you will find that the past, what you have experienced, will become the foundation of your progress, including marriage!

Therefore, when many monks enter the foundation building and cross the golden pill, in order to perfect their state of mind, they deliberately look for something that they have never experienced in the red dust. Consciously pursuing something is far better than following your heart when you are young, and since it is a matter of time or time, why should you deliberately avoid it now?"

Gillian realized, "What do you mean, a complete life is very helpful for the monk's future path, even if it is marriage?"

Li Ji nodded, "Of course, to experience more that you have not experienced is the self-improvement of human beings, and the effect it produces is something that you can't see or touch now, but it will affect your mood changes in the future, and even the shackles of cultivation."

Maybe you can't go that far, and everything you do is meaningless, but shouldn't our monks' plan be for the sake of the Great Dao of Immortality? Since we have a long-term vision, we must have a long-term plan; there are many monks who blindly deviate in the early stage of their cultivation, who are good at asceticism, who are good at solitary cultivation, and who want to destroy the stimulation of human nature to achieve their goals, and this kind of behavior will bring him the most important obstacle in the future, and he will have to perfect himself through long-term experience in the red dust, and he will have to make up for his mistakes, but it may not be useful!"

Looking at Gillian who was contemplating, Li Ji continued:

"So, don't make the problem so complicated, don't think about what impact it will have on your cultivation if you get married, and who can say these things in the future? If you don't get married, will you definitely be able to build the foundation of the Dao? If you become a parent, will you definitely fail?

You just need to think, is this person worth entrusting your life?

If you miss him, will you regret it in the future?

If you build a foundation and he doesn't, will you still see him as a husband?

If he builds the foundation and you don't, will he never leave you and treat you as his wife?

If you have a clear judgment on these issues, then just do it, so why bother thinking about it?"

Gillian's face changed, obviously there was a fierce ideological struggle in his heart, but Li Ji took a leisurely sip of old wine, the marriage counselor was not very suitable for him, his own life was a mess, but well, a master always had the appearance of a master, saying something specious, always correct, and a theory that could be applied everywhere, this is the basic skill of the great power of cultivation - flickering.

In fact, there is no big reason to talk about everything in the world, just like yin and yang, you are talking about it, and you are talking about it!

The key is to see where you are sitting, is it positive or negative? is it your husband's family, or is it your mother's family? is it the Chonghua realm, or is it the Linglong realm?

The monk can use it horizontally and vertically with one mouth!

Gillian's face gradually became firm, obviously she had made up her mind, she only had one question left,

"Uncle, my senior brother is a good person, but his family is powerful in Chaotian City, and there are several Jindan ancestors in the clan, I am afraid that they will oppress people and force me to marry and teach children after marriage, and I don't want to embarrass my senior brother and divide the family because of this, what should I do?"