【Commentary 138】Chapter 8 Name and Etiquette

Chang Sihao and Qin Juexiang entered the river by waterway, the river is not better than other places, the morning and evening are more and more cold, have to buy winter clothes along the way, to the boundary of Demei Mountain, it is already the winter season, the morning is thin snow, look at the Meishan lost from a distance, a piece of white, green eyebrows turned into white eyebrows,

Came to the old mansion of the Tang Gate, only to see that this gatehouse seems to have undergone a renovation, although the vine has not been removed, the old desolate atmosphere has been wiped out, more or less popular, Chang Sihao knew that the Tang Gate did not like to deal with the government, so he asked Qin Juexiang to leave the accompanying officers outside to taste the new, Mo Ruzhi to manage, and took him up to knock on the door,

The old family Tang opened the door unconvinced, recognized Chang Sihao, was so happy that he turned his feet upside down, and was busy entering the inner house, not much effort, Tang Moxian took it out, wrapped his head in white cloth, and lost a big circle of fat face and fat body, when he saw Chang Sihao, he enthusiastically pulled up his hand, and saw Qin Juexiang again, leaned back, looked at his face carefully, and said: "Hey, hey, this,."

Qin Juexiang said: "It's the little nephew, I really don't dare to admit it, you are the second brother-in-law." ”

Tang Moxian said: "It's not me, ouch, like, it's really like thia, alas, isn't this a mold with your father, alas, how old is this blink of an eye, alas, I can't catch it, I can't catch it." ”

Qin Juexiang knew that it was the two aunts sent by his father Qin Mo who came to the door [Xianmo: Sisters marry brothers, or marry collectively], so they are familiar with these two brothers-in-law, and when they think of their father, they don't feel good in their hearts, Chang Sihao hurriedly asked Qin Ziyin if he was here, but when Tang Moxian heard this, his face sank suddenly, and said, "You baby, it's too unspeakable." "[Xianmo: Just holding hands enthusiastically, this will sink the face, it is the original intimacy in the heart, but they are pretending to be angry, the two brothers-in-law of Tangmen have been bored at home for a long time, and they can't pretend to be pretended, they really want to make Xiao Chang afraid, and they should shake their cold faces as soon as they go out,]

Chang Sihao raised his voice: "What." ”

"Hmph. Tang Mo snorted angrily: "The child born in June is almost half a year old now, and you are a father who doesn't know Xinxi, but you don't even know a face, what kind of thing is it." ”

Qin Juexiang hurriedly said, "My eldest sister is here." Tang Moxian said: "This place is messy, can you let her live, let her go to Jiuli Feihua Village to grow old." When Qin Chang and the others heard this, they put their minds at ease, Qin Juexiang looked at it, Chang Sihao accompanied him, coaxed his brother-in-law to come in, and entered the hall, Qin Meiyun was waiting inside, Qin Juexiang shouted: "Second aunt." "Ran over and threw himself into her arms,

Hearing this call, Qin Meiyun's eyes straightened, and tears rolled down, and when she wanted to find this person again, she found that the person was already in her arms, so she hurriedly hugged him, hugged him and stroked him with a hooked face, and cried in her mouth: "My brother." [Xianmo: Seeing the child crying as an adult, it is common to see it, when Qin Mo died, the two sisters did not catch up, and the mourning must not have gone, the family did not even go out, Tangmen can be described as a martial arts homestead,]

Tang Moxian said: "I know that Lawazi is crying, it's very cold from afar, fast, to the fire, to the fire." Pulling Chang Sihao to the brazier and talking about goodbye, Qin Juexiang knew that Chang Sihao was not easy to open this mouth, so he was busy telling him about the things in Beijing, saying that the eldest brother had a lot of things, and the capital was unstable, so he couldn't blame him all, and asked the third aunt, The third brother-in-law, Qin Meiyun told one by one, it turned out that after the death of Mrs. Tang, after the funeral, the Tang family was ready to keep filial piety here for three years, and they were supposed to keep filial piety, and they didn't have to pay attention to what food and clothing were used, so the big things didn't move here, Qin Ziyin came before, and Qin Caiyang and Tang Gen's mother and son accompanied them to live in Jiuli Feihua Village, seeing that it was cold, Tang Moen went back to the village to move some winter supplies, Tang Xiaoxi and Tang Xiaonan really wanted Qin Ziyin, and they also followed, but they didn't come back. Xianmo: This paragraph is interesting, generally speaking, the first time I return to the village, I should let Xiaoxi, The little man accompanied Qin Ziyin, but let Tang Gen's mother and son go back, let the girl freeze in the deserted house, and let the boy go back to the village to warm up, this is the patriarchal style of the Tang Gate, Tang Tai's grandmother dotes on her grandson, and when she guards the spirit, the great-grandson is not there, the world's favor is spoiled by this result, is it interesting to pet, can Xiaoxi Xiaonan feel comfortable in his heart, saying that he wants Qin Ziyin, it is nothing more than a reason, what common language can a postpartum woman with amnesia have and them, Tang Men is actually very chaotic, but the two family members don't know how to observe it at all, Tang Gen's mother gave birth to a male baby, but lost her husband, this can be comfortable, who do you hate, of course, it is Mrs. Tang, give her a watch, What are you kidding, so sister-in-law, you accompany the mother and I go home, this interesting thing is that these words that seem to be nothing on the surface, through the mouth of the fat man Tang said unconsciously, as if you come and I are really no big deal, think about it and everyone has no filial piety, even if you don't say that you want the old lady to die, at least don't worry about it, this kind of family is far more realistic than the Qin family, what is the reason, the Tang Gate is secluded, too far away from the martial arts, and has almost become a big family without the atmosphere of the rivers and lakes, so the Tang Gate is really empty, because everyone's hearts are not here, 】

When Qin Juexiang heard that, he hurriedly tidied up his clothes and went to the back garden to worship Grandma Tang, and the family chattered, speaking of the dark, and asked Qin Ziyin why he didn't send a personal notice since he arrived safely, Tang Moxian said: "Why didn't you send it, the people sent to Beijing haven't come back." When the two of them heard it, they knew that they had made a mistake [Xianmo: Three groups of people walked into a triangle],

When I was about to have dinner, there was a commotion outside the door, and when I came out, there was a big car and a small car, it turned out that Tang Moen had returned, and I saw that there was an East Factory officer outside, and there was a misunderstanding, and it was explained, Qin Juexiang greeted him, and asked the eldest sister how it was, Tang Moen said: "Okay, the baby is good, and she is fat again." Then he blamed Chang Sihao: "Your baby is not in tune, and you don't know how to give a name to a child, Xiao Yin, this child is also Ning, I have to wait for my father to give it, and now the children will climb old, everyone is still 'little nephew', 'big brother' screaming, Tang Gen is a bastard, when teasing the child, he said 'little no one wants', but it turned out to be called Kai Lao, this up and down teasing children, are all called 'little no one wants', and it makes people listen to it for a while, funny, pitiful, what's the matter. [Xianmo: It's all homely and short, not touching the atmosphere of the rivers and lakes, interesting,]

Chang Sihao's heart was sour and anxious, and he couldn't tell whether it was boring or awkward [Xianmo: I can accept this child in thought and action, after all, there is still discomfort, if I don't care at all, I will really become a fake saint,], Qin Juexiang understood, and played the round again and again, and it was not a way for the Tang brothers to see Gu Yanxin and these people standing in the snow outside, so they wanted to let them in, Qin Juexiang said: "No need, I still have something to arrange." Let them go in first, and when they got to the outside of the courtyard, they called Gu Weixin and instructed: "Uncle Gu, you take people back to Meishan City to live first, and I'll go over when this side is over." Gu Weixin nodded, and took someone to leave, Qin Jue suddenly called again, looked back at Chang Sihao and they had all entered the hall, and pulled him closer again: "There is still something to trouble you, after you get to Meishan County, you go to find a jewelry shop......" The voice was lowered and explained [Xianmo: It's strange again, it's not him who stops], Gu Yanxin said strangely: "Why use the word Qin." Qin Juexiang glanced at him, and Gu Weixin didn't care,

Qin and Chang lived in the old house for a night, and the next day they were ready to pick up people in the village, and the Tang family knew that Chang Sihao was familiar with the road, so they did not send someone to follow, the two of them went to Meishan County first, and took Gu Weixin and others, and went to the riverside on the bamboo row.

Chang Sihao didn't smile all the way, and from time to time he touched the antidote bottle in his arms, and he couldn't lose it, but he shouldn't give it to Yin'er.

Before this illness, she and herself can't be said to have feelings, and that kind of thing happened in the house, which hit her quite hard, if she takes the antidote, these will inevitably come to mind, and the pain will inevitably follow, which is a good thing or a bad thing for her, when she was in Beijing, she didn't get along with her for a long time, but she was in harmony and had attachment to each other, but these were all built on an illusion.

It can be seen that Qin Ziyin has always felt that there is some kind of missing part in her life, and she has always wanted to find the missing part, if she and Jue Xiang want to hide it from her for the rest of her life, she can hide it, but is this really good for her, for a person who has been hurt, is it the truth that is important, or happiness is important, and the happiness of not knowing is still happiness? Xianmo: In fact, the focus of this paragraph is not in amnesia, but in the question of whether a man can really accept a woman's past and whether a woman can let go of her past, and further, it is to raise the question of whether human beings can really let go of the past and really look forward, in fact, the answer is very simple, no one really lives in the present, let alone in the future, we all live in the past, without memory, we are not what we are, we have no ourselves, and people have no present at all, the starry sky at night is the light of millions of years ago, the real star has long died, a car drives by, and when the image is transmitted to the brain, even if it is only one ten-thousandth of a secondWhen people feel the car, the car is no longer in the original position, even if it is parked there, it is also an aging car of one ten-thousandth of a second, the same can be proven, we see ourselves in the mirror, we are not the current self at all times, are refracted by light, delayed a little bit of themselves, what we see, is always the past, people can never avoid the past, only face up, and accept, Xiao Chang can now face up to the struggle, It's acceptable, but he's still worried about the other party, the world is unspeakable, really few people can see it, who understands the mood of those women who have been **, who has never experienced it, never say you understand, in fact** It's only temporary, getting married and finding that my husband is getting stranger and stranger, the more I understand and the stranger, the more I don't match the lover in my heart, and I have to try to make myself love him like a relative, this kind of torture may be more and deeper in reality, some things are not there to face and accept, and it must be so, pain is naturally with you, instead of pain, it is better to treat all this as an illusion, Xiaochang wants to give others a truth, but the truth is not necessarily beautiful, rather than being truly unfortunate, it is better to live in a dream, this is why women would rather be deceived and live in love, because love is too beautiful, can make the world go awayThe most poignant sentence in the book is "Who knows my heart." At this moment, who knows my heart, who knows your heart, maybe one day in the future, someone who sees this text will stand up and say, "I understand." "I think this is also the reason why the author and all those who like to write books want to write books, people who are alive, they want to find people who can really read and understand themselves,]

The bamboo row reached the upper reaches, directly into the bitter bamboo forest, the servants of the Tang Gate happily took into the village, heard that Chang Sihao had arrived, Li Shuangji strode out first, and laughed when he met: "Master Hou, I can look forward to you." Qin Juexiang frowned, thinking that this second fool didn't have any rules, I don't know why the eldest brother liked him a lot, followed by Tang Xiaoxi, Tang Xiaonan and Tang Gen also came out, Li Shuangji led Gu Yanxin and others to the side room to receive them, Chang Sihao and Qin Juexiang went into the inner room to meet the third aunt and Tang Gen's mother, everyone talked intimately for a while, Qin Caiyang knew that Chang Sihao was worried about his wife, and specially urged them to see the children [Xianmo: The big family has rules, and only when there are rules can you see human feelings, and if there are no rules, human feelings will be weak] , the two of them were rude, and went to Qin Ziyin's house with their cousin to see her.

Qin Ziyin lived in the courtyard where Qin Menghuan lived when he was there, the small courtyard was not big, three rooms, it was very quiet, Tang Xiaonan stepped in front, picked up the outer curtain and shouted with a smile: "Little no one wants, look, I want you to come today." Tang Xiaoxi hurriedly whispered to her: "Look at you, what kind of girl is a bit like a girl, [Xianmo: My sister's name is Xiaoxi, my sister should be called Xiaoxia or something, called Xiaonan, you can see that Tang Men looks forward to the boy's heart, parents don't look down on girls, what do you pay attention to being a girl, you are so stupid that you don't know it,]"

Qin Ziyin had already heard the movement, but she rushed to her aunt's house to see her husband, and had already packed up her makeup in the room, and when she heard the little man's shout, her face turned red, and she was embarrassed to come out, sat back on the edge of the bed, and twisted her face,

Chang Sihao entered the outhouse, lifted the curtain and came to the Dongli room, and when he raised his eyes, he saw Qin Ziyin sitting there, leaving only one and a half side faces, Feng Eryuan stood on the ground, holding the child in his arms and saying happily.

Qin Juexiang also came in and said with a smile: "Eldest sister, is it good, yo yo, is this my eldest nephew [Xian Mo: Qin Juexiang has always called Xiao Chang the eldest brother, and the degree of proximity is even more than that of the eldest sister, so if you admit that this baby is Xiao Chang's son, you should call it nephew, it is normal in common sense, in fact, the other layer is that he only admits that this is born to his sister, and does not admit that he is the son of the eldest brother,], come on, let the uncle hug him. In the past, he took the child into Feng Eryuan's arms, and said with a smile while upside down: "Little no one wants it, do you know me, do you want to be a father, do you want to be an uncle, why did you see me, you turned your face away, [Xianmo: Borrow words to tease the eldest sister, bad seed,]"

When Qin Ziyin heard this, he fell into tears, and cried: "He is a little no one wants, I am an old man no one wants, you are my own brother, spare people to throw us mother and son, you still have to make fun of it." "The body fell to the bed and cried whining, [Xianmo: The Yin'er after the illness is all a woman's true temperament, which is more heartfelt than the posture of the children of the sassy rivers and lakes,]

Everyone looked at this frame, they all knew that they were not easy to persuade, Tang Xiaoxi snorted, Feng Eryuan, Qin Juexiang understood, they all withdrew, went to the opposite room to sit, separated by two layers of curtains, and listened to the house Qin Zi whining and crying, Chang Sihao's footsteps turned slippery, after a while, I heard Chang Sihao whisper in a low voice, followed by the empty sound of his chest being beaten, Tang Xiaonan heard it so really, his little mouth couldn't stop it, "pounce" Laughing out loud, Tang Xiaoxi secretly stabbed her sister-in-law, signaling her not to be too rude, and talked to Qin Juexiang about homely things.

After chatting for a while, I only heard Chang Sihao beckoning everyone to meet, and everyone entered the east house, only to see Qin Ziyin's sitting posture turned back, his head lowered, his makeup had been re-mended, his eyes and face were still red, Tang Xiaonan smiled: "Look, look, I said, I should have removed the mole from the corner of your eye a long time ago, otherwise it would cost a lot of rouge for this trip." ”

One sentence made everyone laugh, Chang Sihao took over the "little no one wants", feeling heavy, looking at this child's eyebrows, the flesh is quite cute, there are two places that look like Qin Ziyin, after all, it is a boy, on the big outline, there is a little bit of Qin Yi's shadow [Xianmo: The boy follows his mother, the girl follows his father, and this child should follow his grandfather], when he sees himself, he doesn't cry, he talks and blinks, and his little eyes are long, like willow leaves,

Tang Xiaonan looked at the child, looked at Qin Juexiang, and said with a smile: "Look, this old Qin family is just like the old Qin family, you look at this child's eyes, how similar they are to his uncle." ”

Qin Juexiang sneered: "That's, that's, boys follow their mothers, girls follow their fathers." He put his hands behind his neck and took out a gold chain, and there was a small gold lock on the head of the chain, which he put around the child's neck, and said with a smile: "Uncle didn't bring anything, and this is a meeting gift." ”

Chang Sihao said: "Hey, absolutely loud, why haven't I seen you wear this thing before." Qin Juexiang smiled and said: "I used to wear it close to my body, where can you see you." Chang Sihao picked up this golden lock to see, the handiwork is very new, not like something that has been worn for a long time, turned it over, the lock back is engraved with a "Qin" word, if it is a new gift he deliberately typed, this should be engraved with a regular word, it can be seen that it is indeed worn for a long time, and there is no need to tell this lie, so I don't ask, [Xianmo: Xiao Tangshan took a bath and didn't see it, at this time there was such a hanging, I didn't expect it, it can be known that Xiao Chang is really careless, and he always doesn't pay attention to the details, and he must see through the small party,]

Qin Ziyin said: "Xianggong, this child is the birthday of June 16, how many days have passed since the hundred days now, and there is no name, just waiting for you." ”

Chang Sihao scratched his head: "I have a good name for this bit of writing." Qin Ziyin asked for the child from his arms, and said: "Okay, this child may not be yours [Xianmo: A sentence of no intention, but piercing people's hearts, what a strong heart to listen to, but what a strong heart can hear this, but what a mature man, change to a person who has not experienced the world, and he will go out with a rake early,], of course you don't want to give it, then he will call Xiao no one to ask for it, and in the future, you will call me Xiao no one wants his mother, and the absolute sound is that Xiao no one wants his uncle, Xiao Xi is ......" Before he finished speaking, Tang Xiaonan had already laughed, and said in a loud voice: " Don't don't, brother-in-law, if you want me to say that you have to get up quickly, otherwise, our family will die just by talking around. ”

Everyone was happy when they heard it, Chang Sihao knew that he couldn't get rid of it, scratched his ears and cheeks, and couldn't think of a name for a long time, so he had to look at Qin Juexiang: "Jue Xiang, you have read more books than me, you can give it up, it's better than me to make a bad sound, let the child take it for a lifetime." ”

The Tang family sisters saw that Chang Sihao was indeed unsuccessful, and they all agreed that they said yes, Qin Juexiang stretched out a little finger and scratched his chin, his eyes rolled up, and said: "If you want to name it, how can I have enough literary ink, but my mother and uncle are big, so I can barely make it difficult, I see that this child is born strong, and I want him to live a long life, then, how about this name is called the word 'longevity'." [Xianmo: The crooked heart and eyes were settled as early as when I bought the gold chain]

Tang Xiaonan smiled: "Changshou, Changshou, this name is not bad." Tang Xiaoxi also said: "Yes, longevity and longevity are healthy and long-lived, and it is very auspicious." Tang Gen said: "Don't be long and thin when you grow up." Tang Xiaonan played him with a brain crash: "The dog can't spit out ivory in his mouth, [Xianmo: I agree with this, he can't spit it out, and he can't spit it out in his mouth,]"

After a lively time, everyone left Chang Sihao and his wife to speak, hugged Xiao Changshou and came out to Qin Caiyang's house to report the joy of getting a name [Xianmo: I don't know how to toss it when I have a child, the first child is so normal, and the two who have never given birth to a child are also blindly coaxing,], Tang Gen pulled down Qin Juexiang's clothes, deliberately slowed down and fell behind, squinted his eyes and asked: "Brother Juexiang, I look at your expression, don't you seem to be so happy." ”

Qin Juexiang smiled: "What's the matter, aren't I very happy." ”

Tang Gen snorted, turned away with a fat face, and looked at the withered bamboo outside the courtyard: "There are a lot of strange things in your Qin family, Xiao Mansion is the mortal enemy of you and me, new hatred and old hatred, frost and ice, why did your sister go to his house to give birth." [Xianmo: A sentence asked about the root, worthy of the name Tang Gen,]