Chapter 1293: Father or Stepfather (20)
"San'er, do you mean to say, let's learn from Xu Yaping's mother and son?" An Jianfang listened to his brother's analysis, and his face was very ugly.
She didn't want it.
Why did she want to learn from Xu Yaping and Chang Qinghua?
Also, when she stammered with her father like this, she was admitting defeat to her father.
An Dafu is her father, he should be good to them, but he would rather favor a stepson, but he is so ruthless to their biological children, it is his fault first.
Now, my father has no remorse, but he wants her to turn around and stammer with her father, she doesn't do it!
"Oh, sister, why are you so desperate?"
"In the past, we talked about backbone, but what did we get?"
"It's a good building, we haven't lived in a day! Dad makes so much money in a month, we don't spend a penny!"
"We are Dad's biological children and a serious An family. As a result, the benefits of settling down are all for Chang Qinghua, a person with a foreign surname!"
An Jianjun explained a lot, but his sister still couldn't turn around, and he was so anxious that there were beads of sweat on his head.
An Jianjun crossed his fingers and told them all about the losses suffered by their three brothers and sisters.
An Jianfang seemed to listen, but she was still a little unhappy, "But, but that's not necessary-" Go and talk to your father."
"I can't say it's a stammer. ”
An Jianjun knew An Jianfang's heart knot, in fact, even he had resentment in his heart, but who made their lives miserable, his mother didn't get early, and he put such a superb father.
My father has no warmth for them, and they can only play tricks with my father.
It's not that they are not filial, but that their own father does not give them the opportunity to be filial!
An Jianjun worked hard to build his own psychology, and then continued to say to his brothers and sisters, "As children, we should be filial to our parents. Therefore, it is also appropriate to say a few nice words and make Dad happy. ”
Over the years, An Jianjun has looked at it coldly, and he can be regarded as understanding.
Why did their brother and sister lose to Xu Yaping?
On the one hand, Xu Yaping is insidious, and they are too immature and emotional.
On the other hand, it is Xu Yaping who occupies the reason.
Yes, regardless of whether Xu Yaping is acting or not, people's words and deeds are in line with the rules.
The three brothers and sisters of the An family may think that Xu Yaping kicked them out of the house.
In fact, the first person to say that he wanted to leave the An family was not Xu Yaping, but An Jianguo.
There is also friction between them and Chang Qinghua, which is more due to inferiority. has low self-esteem or something, and there may also be Xu Yaping's perennial brainwashing and suppression, but the reason is that they themselves are not angry.
There was also a matter of work, and they also heard the rumors, and they didn't even confirm it, so they ran to Anjia to ask the teacher for their guilt.
An Jianjun carefully pondered the words and deeds of their three siblings over the years, and found that they did have a problem.
They may feel that they are not wrong, but what they do is everywhere they are talked about.
I don't have a good reputation, but I don't get any benefits!
is Xu Yaping, who is a family, has money and a house in her hands, and has taken enough of all the benefits, but she has also won the reputation of a "good stepmother".
“...... The younger brother is right. ”
Xu spied on why his father was interested in the "truth" against him (jealous that he was more favored by his grandfather), and Xu was finally willing to teach him cooking skills hand-in-hand, making him feel the long-lost father's love, An Jianguo really didn't reject his father so much.
He hesitated for a moment and said slowly, "In the past, we did do something wrong. At that time, we were young and no one taught us, so if we were wrong, we would be wrong. But now we're all adults, if we're as willful as we were when we were kids—"
In the past three years, An Jianguo has completely felt the bad influence of the "bad reputation".
Hearing that their father and son turned against each other, outsiders will not delve into how much you have been wronged as a son, but will only say that you are a son but angry with your father, which is unfilial.
Because everyone will say: No matter what, your father gave you life, and for this sake, you can't help but be filial.
Bearing the notoriety of unfilial piety, his colleagues dare not have a deep friendship with him, even the Han family, who grew up watching him, is unwilling to marry his daughter to him!
After suffering a loss and feeling the difficulties of society, An Jianguo did not dare to go on a rampage like in the past.
It just so happened that his father released his kindness, and An Jianguo simply came down the slope to get off the donkey.
Besides, the third brother is right, they are the children of their father, why should they give everything in the An family to the enemy?!
Isn't it just to say a few good words, or not to talk back when he is scolded, he endures it!
Hearing the eldest brother say the same, An Jianfang was no longer angry in his heart, so he had to nod.
"Okay, I—I'll listen to you!"
An Jianjun saw that the second sister was reluctant, worried that she would still be unable to help it in the future, and carefully advised, "Sister, in the future, if Dad says anything, let's just listen." Didn't grandpa also say that the reprimands of the elders will be encouraged if there is no change. ”
"It's good that you treat our dad as our grandpa. ”
"In addition, whether it is Dad or Xu Yaping, if they give us something, or money, let's not refuse with a cold face, but accept it happily!"
Hmph, An Jianjun can see that Xu Yaping is a person who likes to play with her mouth.
It is said to be fanciful, but in fact it is very stingy.
That is, they were stupid in the past, and deliberately opposed Xu Yaping for the sake of the so-called "backbone".
So that she did not lose anything, but also gained a good reputation.
In the future, they can't be so stupid, their reputation must be restored, and they must take things.
"Also, our dad is old, there are some things and things that he may not think of for a while. As children, we should take the initiative to mention it!"
Anyway, they are juniors, and it is not a shame to be coquettish and soft with their elders.
And they are An Dafu's biological flesh and blood, and it is only natural for them to open their mouths to ask for things with their father.
When I was a child, they were too stupid, stupid and just waiting, but it was Chang Qinghua, who pretended to guard An Dafu, with a small mouth, and was embarrassed to say anything disgusting.
Why is my father eccentric to Chang Qinghua?
In addition to Xu Yaping's pillow style, it also has an extremely important relationship with Chang Qinghua's intelligence, sensibility, and ability to do things!
"Take the initiative to mention it?" An Jianfang was a little dumbfounded.
What does the younger brother mean to let her take the initiative to ask her father for money and things?
"That's right, think about today's two hundred yuan-" An Jianjun raised the five big solidarities in his hand and said with some pride.
It's been so many years since they went to their grandfather's house, and their father has never given them money.
is in the An family, they think they are humiliated and ask their father for money, but their father is not so generous, every time they scold, and they will talk back when they feel wronged, plus Xu Yaping's mother and son stir up...... In the end, there will be a lot of trouble, and the relationship between their father and son will become more and more indifferent.