In a person's life, marriage is the most memorable thing, and it can also be said to be the most joyful time in life.

Because, marriage is a new beginning of a person's life, which means that your life has found your other half, and giving you a new beginning in life is the most auspicious beginning, isn't it better, so when you get married, don't ignore some taboos of marriage, because this is another new beginning in your life.

There are many taboos in the process of marriage, and there are actually many taboos that need to be paid attention to in the marriage discussion stage.

Marriage negotiation refers to the specific negotiation activities made to the person who can choose to marry within the scope of the choice of spouse and in the manner permitted by folk customs, and it serves the betrothal of a man and a woman. There are some taboo rules that need to be followed during the marriage negotiation phase.

Do not find a matchmaker to talk to the matchmaker to avoid disasters and tragedies. It is generally believed that the matchmaker should avoid publicizing things before they are done, and try to avoid people's eyes and ears at the beginning, otherwise not only can the marriage not be said, but also be scolded.

Before the media said it, distant relatives and neighbors knew about it, which would ruin the woman's reputation. If it is not said in the end, the woman will think that she has lost her "honor", which will lead to disaster or tragedy.

In real life, when young men and women fall in love, whether they know each other or are introduced by others, they are very secretive and secret at the beginning, and only gradually make it public after a certain period of time, which is also the reason.

This is the development and evolution of this folk taboo custom for thousands of years.

After the marriage negotiation stage, the next step is the Nacai stage. And there are some taboos in the Nacai stage.

Do not use dead animals when collecting lottery. In layman's terms, Nacai refers to the man's family inviting a matchmaker to the woman's house to propose marriage. In ancient times, live geese were often used as gifts for relatives, and now, many places also have chickens, geese and other poultry as gifts. But it doesn't matter if it's geese or other poultry. As a bride price, you must use the living, and do not use the dead.

Because marriage is a great joy in life, it is too unlucky to associate it with death.

The age of marriage and the taboo of the zodiac. In terms of the age of marriage, all dynasties have their own regulations, and each ethnic group also has its own taboos.

Some men and women who are not suitable for marriage will suffer after marriage if they are still unable to marry. In order to avoid these disasters, there are many taboos in the age of marriage.

For example, a Daur woman should not marry at the age when her mother gave birth to herself. It is forbidden to marry at the even age of sixteen, eighteen, or twentie, but not for men.

In the taboo customs of marriage age, the age difference between men and women should not be too large, and marriage should not be too early or too late.

The zodiac is the zodiac sign of the person. A person does not matter what year he was born. There will be a corresponding animal as a genus phase.

When getting married, there is a saying that the folk avoid women and tigers, and the popular belief that women are tigers are avoided is about to come directly from the people's psychology of "fear of tigers".

There is an ancient proverb that "women belong to sheep and guard empty houses", which is a popular folk saying that "the eyes are white and the five husbands guard the house". Because the eyes of the sheep are considered to be "white", the woman who belongs to the sheep will be unlucky and become the object of taboo in the marriage of men.

After the Nacai stage is over, it is the engagement stage. And when it comes to getting engaged, there are quite a few taboos that need to be paid attention to.

Betrothal is commonly known as betrothal. The engagement to determine the relationship between a man and a woman to be married is an important matter before marriage.

The first item of engagement is Najib. The so-called najib is a kind of etiquette to inform the woman of the marriage news obtained through guò divination after asking the name, which is the main ritual of the engagement stage, commonly known as "sending the appointment", "passing the determination", "fixing" and so on.

There are many taboos in "fixed employment", in order to ward off evil spirits and eliminate disasters. For example, the deposit must be even, avoid singular, and the gift should also be in pairs, and the odd number should be avoided.

The second item of engagement is the levy. The bride price is also known as "Na Yuan", "Big Appointment", "Too Big Gift", etc., the man and the woman have reached a marriage agreement, and the male family will officially send the bride price (commonly known as the "bride price") to the woman's family, which is the etiquette of the levy.

There are also many taboos in the etiquette of Nazheng to avoid unfortunate things from happening. For example, the number of dowry gifts should not be singular, and the woman's shoes should not be given, which contains the psychology of avoiding the woman from slipping away when she wears shoes.

After the marriage is set, it officially enters the marriage stage, first of all, you have to choose the time of marriage, that is, you have entered the invitation stage, and at this stage, you need to think more taboos.

The invitation period is one of the "six rites", which in the old days meant that the man's family chose a marriage date, and the woman's family was informed of the gift, asking for her consent. The choice of the marriage date has some taboos because of the good fortune and avoiding evil.

According to the "National Customs of China", in the old days in Nanjing, "if the male family wants to marry, the male and female characters will be sent to the star family Suji, so that there will be no offense, no punishment and good day, and the whole red Cambodia will record when the newcomer bathes, where the water will pour, when the newcomer will get on the sedan chair, when he will join the family, and who will avoid the taboo, which is called the day of sending."

In terms of marriage date, there are taboo rules for the year, month, and day.

The first is contraindicated in certain years. People have a choice about the year in which the marriage is arranged, and some years must be avoided in order to ward off evil spirits.

In many areas of the Han nationality, it is taboo to get married in the year when there is no spring, believing that this year is a "widow year", and "getting married in a widow year does not raise cubs".

For the year when there are two spring days should be avoided, it is very different from place to place, some places think that this year is good to get married, take the meaning of "double spring double happiness", and some places think that this year is not good to get married, because "double spring is happy".

The Dehong Dai people have the custom of avoiding "fierce and joyful", and they should avoid holding happy events because of filial piety in the year after the death of their immediate family members.

This is followed by contraindications for certain months. The Han, Wa and some other ethnic minorities avoid marrying in May, July, and September, saying that these months are "evil months" and that there are many ghosts. Due to the haunting of evil spirits, it is not easy to succeed in marrying during this period.

Again it is taboo on certain days. The Han nationality and many ethnic minorities have the custom of avoiding single-day marriage, reflecting the folk belief that "good things come in pairs".

In some places of the Han nationality, it is especially taboo to marry on July 7, reflecting the psychology of people who want to be accompanied by husband and wife. And don't be separated for a long time like the Cowherd and Weaver Girl, and only meet on the seventh day of July.

Marriage, Nacai. After the four stages of engagement and invitation, it has really entered the marriage stage, and there are many taboos in the marriage stage, and there are 22 articles to pay attention to:

1. Raw flowers are easy to wither, so the marriage is secret, only even the flowers and pomegranates can't be forbidden. Because the red petals of the former open from the center of the leaf. It can be a metaphor for a leap woman marrying and waiting for her husband, while the latter means having many sons and grandchildren.

2. The bride's clothes should not have pockets. so as not to take away the fortune of the mother's family.

3. After the bed is settled and on the eve of the wedding, the bridegroom-to-be should not sleep alone in the new bed, but find an underage boy to sleep in the new bed with the groom. Otherwise, it is commonly known as "sleepy empty shop." Immortal. also died" is considered a bad omen.

4. On the day of the wedding, when the bride goes out, the sister-in-law must avoid it and cannot send it off.

5. On the day of marriage, when the bride leaves her mother's house, everyone should cry as fast as possible. Don't cry, don't send" If you don't cry, it's taboo.

6. Three days after the wedding, the newlyweds return to the door. You must rush back to your husband's house before sunset on the same day, and you cannot stay overnight. In case there is a special reason that they cannot go home, the husband and wife should also sleep separately, so as not to cause the blood in the bride's honeymoon to collide with the mother's family and make the mother's family unlucky.

7. On the way to get married, if the sedan chair and the sedan chair meet, it is called "Xi Chongxi", which will bring ominousness. The solution is that it is necessary to set off firecrackers with each other, or the matchmakers on both sides exchange the prepared flowers, which is called flower exchange.

8. Pregnant women and those with filial piety are not allowed to witness the newlyweds going out or passing through the door, let alone touching the newlyweds' clothes and all the items in the new house.

9. When the groom goes to the woman's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave the bride's house or cry with joy in the overexcitement, which is also very common and not a problem (or even a good thing, leaving the "water" prosperous woman's house). But when you go to the man's house, you can't shed tears.

10. The bride should not wear "old shoes" on the auspicious day of the wedding. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be new. If you are afraid that the new shoes are hard and uncomfortable, it is advisable to wear high-quality soft leather, which may be loose and thickly padded, and should not wear high heels.

11. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, it will be a shame.

12. When the bride enters the man's house, she should not step on the threshold and should step over.

13. If the bride and groom get married, that is, the groom's brother, the bride and groom must wear it under the crotch of the unmarried brother to show that they are "offended" before they can go out. If it is the sister who is "climbed", because some people will feel that it will be "underdeveloped" to wear it under the female skirt, they will send a skirt to the unmarried sister instead, commonly known as the "aunt's skirt". Unmarried siblings should not witness the bride and groom going out or passing through the door, and should temporarily avoid moving to a higher place, such as going to the next floor.

14. When the bride walks into the man's house, the two should not look at the bride entering the door towards the door, but should avoid it a little to prevent conflict.

15. The marriage couplet should be hung up before the "top" (i.e. on the eve of the marriage) at the latest, and can be removed after one month after the marriage. Men and women have different couplets, and you need to distinguish them clearly when purchasing.

16. If a woman remarries, she should not wear a skirt or a red dress, but should choose pink, orange, gold or silver instead. In addition, there is no need to "go up", because "up" means "adulthood", and he is already "adult" when he marries for the first time. There is no need to bring suckling pig when "returning to the door of the second dynasty".

17. The second marriage of the man does not need to "go up", if the reason is the death of the ex-wife, the first thing the second wife does after passing the door is to serve tea in front of the spiritual seat of the ex-wife, and then offer tea to Aunt Weng.

18. On the night of the bride's wedding, she will find a bride's unmarried sister to sleep on her bed that night, and place fruits and red envelopes on the bed, wishing the bride a vigorous and vigorous life.

19. Do not get married in the sixth month of the lunar calendar, which means a half-moon wife.

20. When making a bed, put the bed in an upright position, and avoid facing the sharp corners of the table, wardrobe or any object.

21. On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who participate in the engagement must not fan the fan, otherwise there will be a sense of disconnection.

22. After the wedding banquet is completed, both parties cannot say goodbye, otherwise they will have the intention of remarrying.

These 22 marriage taboos seem to be a lot, and it is a bit cumbersome to follow the above taboos, but after all, marriage is a big event in your life, and if you prepare perfectly, the omen will be better. It's all good for you and your wife, isn't it!

Zhao Chaogang has done a good job of these marriage taboos. Of course, even if Zhao Chaogang is very sloppy, Zhao Qiang and his wife will help Zhao Chaogang do these things well, and people in the countryside pay more attention to some taboos that need to be paid attention to when getting married. In the countryside, when doing happy events. It's a good sign.

At five o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang went to the ancestral tablet to burn a stick of incense, and told his ancestors about his marriage today. Ask the ancestors to bless their wedding today and live a more prosperous life in the future.

After worshipping his ancestors, Zhao Chaogang began to prepare to go to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's house to marry them. The work was actually prepared yesterday. has also rehearsed a few times, so Zhao Chaogang is very comfortable preparing now.

At seven o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang got into the wedding car in a crown dress, and the use of highly polluting vehicles such as cars is not allowed in the secret realm of martial arts, so the wedding car prepared by Zhao Chaogang is not a car, but a very luxurious and beautiful carriage.

The material from which the carriage was made. They are all spiritual materials, and the wood used for the main body of the carriage is a spiritual material called the Xiangli Sacred Wood.

The medicinal effect of the fragrant tree is very extraordinary. It can also be regarded as a top-notch spiritual material in the cultivation world, with the effect of expelling and resisting demons, and more importantly, it is the function of the camphor divine wood that can condense its own foundation and improve the cultivation qualifications of cultivators.

As we all know, if you want to build a building, the most important thing is to lay the foundation when building the building, and you have to lay a very solid foundation, otherwise, no matter how beautiful and tall the building you build, it will be a tofu scum project.

Once it encounters danger, or time, the building will have a big problem, or even collapse completely, so when building a house, whether in ancient times or in modern times, it is very important to build the foundation of the house.

Especially in modern society, when building high-rise buildings, in order to make the foundations of these high-rise buildings very solid and solid, the builder will specially dispatch some engineering vehicles to lay the foundation.

Even when building a house, you have to pay so much attention to the foundation, so when a cultivator is cultivating, the foundation is equally important.

However, when many cultivators first started to cultivate, they would be confused by the powerful power, so in the early stage of his cultivation, he wanted to improve his cultivation by unscrupulous means, and it was a common thing to take pills to increase his cultivation speed.

However, taking a large amount of pills to improve one's cultivation in this way is actually an endless disaster for a cultivator.

When the realm of a cultivator is very low, such as below the Yuan Infant Stage, such dangers are not obvious, but once the cultivator reaches the Yuan Infant Stage, these dangers become more and more obvious.

A cultivator will find that no matter how much he cultivates, his cultivation will not increase anymore, and even if there is an increase, the increase is simply like a snail, and even when cultivating, it is extremely easy to go mad.

At this time, this cultivator will find that his cultivation has grown so slowly, or he can't grow at all, or he is very easy to fall into demons, in fact, because he didn't pay attention to the importance of the foundation when he was cultivating in the early stage, so that his cultivation foundation was very scummy.

It's like a three-story foundation that can only be built on top of a dozen or dozens of floors, and the result is predictable.

Therefore, the camphor divine wood will become one of the top spiritual materials in the cultivation world, all because it can condense the effect of the cultivator's own foundation, as long as there is a camphor divine wood, even if the foundation of the cultivator is very scummy, but he can use the fragrant camphor divine wood to lay a solid foundation, so as to continue to move forward on the road of cultivation.

It is also for this reason that in the cultivation world, the Xiangqi Divine Wood is used to create magic weapons to exorcise demons, temper their own foundations, or improve the cultivation qualifications of cultivators, especially those cultivators whose strength is above the Yuan Infant Stage, and they are even more yearning for the magic weapons refined by the Xiangzhang Divine Wood.

As long as there is a magic weapon made of the camphor divine wood or the camphor divine wood, this piece of cultivation realm will flow like a river of blood, this is a real river of blood, not just a river of blood of a descriptive nature.

A cultivator's foundation is not stable, and when he is cultivating, he is more vulnerable to the invasion of inner demons or other demons, especially when he breaks through the realm, the possibility of being taken away by extraterritorial heavenly demons is even greater.

Of course, generally under the Yuan Infant Period, this situation is still not so obvious, but after the Yuan Infant Period, the shortcomings of the cultivator's unstable foundation will become more and more obvious, and if you are not careful, you will die, so once there is a camphor divine tree that can expel the demons and condense yourself, the madness of those cultivators in the Yuan Infant Stage can be imagined.

Once the cultivators of the Yuan Infant Stage begin to exert their power, there will be battlefields within a few hundred kilometers of the surrounding area, and at the same time, those creatures within these hundreds of kilometers, the creatures of the Nine Layers and the Nine, will be killed by the aftermath of the battle of these Yuan Infant Stage cultivators. Hundreds of kilometers of nine layers of nine creatures died, isn't such a scene a river of blood!

Therefore, as long as there is a trace of the camphor divine tree, those high-level cultivators, especially those who use the medicinal power of the pill to forcibly improve their cultivation, so as to guide their own unstable foundation, will yearn for the camphor divine wood, and these cultivators will swear to fight for the camphor divine wood.

The camphor sacred wood is indeed very precious, but for Zhao Chaogang, it is nothing, Zhao Chaogang, who has a small world, has as many camphor sacred trees as he wants, and at most it takes a little time to cultivate.

Therefore, Zhao Chaogang has enough camphor sacred wood to make the wedding car used for his marriage, and only a magical spiritual wood like the camphor divine wood is worthy of Zhao Chaogang's identity as the master of the small world.

For such a big event as getting married, Zhao Chaogang, the lord of a small world, of course has to come up with the best things.

As for whether someone will discover the miraculous effect of the camphor sacred wood, so as to start the idea of these camphor sacred trees, Zhao Chaogang doesn't care at all.

In the entire jade area, the only cultivator is only Zhao Chaogang, and Zhao Chaogang still has countless puppets on his body, so if others want to fight the idea of the camphor divine tree, it is not looking for death!

It's a pity that Zhao Chaogang still took it for granted, and he forgot this sentence: Once there is a proper profit, the capitalist will be bold. If it has 50 percent profits, it will take risks; for the sake of 100 percent profits, it will dare to trample on the laws of the world; and with 300 percent profits, it will dare to commit any crime and even risk being hanged.

When faced with a profit of more than 300 percent, many people will risk hanging to earn this 300 percent profit, and the profit represented by the camphor Shenmu is not just a 300 percent profit, this is a profit of 3,000 percent, 30,000, or even 300 million.

In the face of such huge profits, even immortals may be tempted, so what kind of problems will arise in the future, it is conceivable. (To be continued......)

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