"Two ladies, Xiaoshenglai!" Before he walked into the new house, Zhao Chaogang's frivolous words reached Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's ears, and then the sound of opening the door came, and Zhao Chaogang walked into the new house.

Obviously, today's wedding made Zhao Chaogang very excited in his heart, otherwise, where would Zhao Chaogang be so out of shape.

"Really, even if no one is here in the new house now, but you should pay attention to whether it is good or not, your son is still here! I don't want my son to be spoiled by you. If my son is ruined by you in the future, see how I clean you up. ”

As soon as Zhao Chaogang entered the door, Li Liping began to talk about him, Li Liping attaches great importance to the child in her belly, and now Zhao Chaogang's status in her mind has dropped to the second place, and the first place is the child in her belly.

Therefore, even if it is a little frivolous, Li Liping doesn't want her son to hear it, so as not to have a bad impact on him.

"Ah?!Yes, yes, my son is still here, can't he hear his frivolous words, he should be beaten!"

After Zhao Chaogang finished speaking, he pretended to hit his face lightly a few times, obviously Zhao Chaogang also valued the child in Li Liping's belly, and wanted to give him the best environment.

"Pingping, Jingjing, today you married me at the same time, wronged you. If it weren't for my greed, you could have had a better marriage, Pingping, Jingjing, I will treat you well in the future. ”

Zhao Chaogang stepped forward and grabbed Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's hands at the same time. looked at them very sincerely, and made his first vow after marriage, a vow for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's future life. This made Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's hearts very warm.

"Chaogang, we are not wronged, we are very happy to be able to marry you. Although your love was shared by Jingjing and I at the same time, we didn't feel any grievances.

Because, Chaogang, you are so good to me and Jingjing. We are also very harmonious together, so we are not wronged in our hearts. We are actually very happy. Jingjing, don't you say?"

When Li Liping said these words, her eyes were also full of sincerity, obviously these words were also Li Liping's sincere words.

Honestly. was able to marry Zhao Chaogang. Li Liping is already very happy in her heart. Zhao Chaogang's current status as a cultivator really puts a lot of pressure on Li Liping, which makes Li Liping feel ashamed, but now Zhao Chaogang has married two women at once, which is much less pressure in her heart for Li Liping.

"Well, Sister Pingping is right. Chaogang, in fact, the two of us can marry you. We already feel very happy. You must know that Chao Gang is the only cultivator on the earth, according to the tradition of the cultivation world, Chao Gang you married these two ordinary women as wives, you are already very out of status.

Besides, I married you Chaogang with Sister Pingping, and Chaogang didn't force us, but we agreed to it ourselves, so, Chaogang, don't apologize anymore, say something very extraordinary, we are very willing to marry you, and we are very happy in our hearts. Chaogang, I love you!"

Liu Jingjing said very emotionally, and directly leaned her head lightly on Zhao Chaogang's shoulder, seeing Liu Jingjing's movements, Li Liping on the side was also very gentle to lean her head on Zhao Chaogang's shoulder.

And Zhao Chaogang at this time, he also stretched out his hands and hugged Li Liping and Liu Jingjing tightly in his arms, his eyes were full of tenderness and Li Liping, Liu Jingjing looked at each other, he wanted to pass on his love to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing, and the new house was instantly full of warm .......

Ten minutes may have passed, maybe half an hour, or directly an hour, anyway, until now Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing are still hugging each other, they don't want to break this warm atmosphere, but soon, a hungry cry of "Gurr......" interrupted this warm atmosphere, which is the sound of Li Liping's hungry stomach.

Li Liping is pregnant now, I believe everyone knows very well, pregnant women are very hungry, because in her belly, there is a small baby, so, although Li Liping does not want to break this warm atmosphere, but her stomach began to protest, and the original warm atmosphere in the new house was broken.

"Hee-hee......" Liu Jingjing laughed softly after hearing the hungry screams from Li Liping's stomach, of course, this laughter did not contain any teasing ingredients in it, this laughter was just a very simple laughter.

"Chaogang, I'm hungry now, from the beginning of the wedding to the present, I haven't actually eaten very well, I'm always blocking the wine for Sister Pingping and you, so, Chaogang, you still go and get something to eat now, Sister Pingping and I want to eat now." Especially Sister Pingping's belly, there are still children, and she is even more hungry, Sister Pingping, don't you say?"

Liu Jingjing smiled, but she still stood up in time to relieve Li Liping, since everyone will live in the same room and the same man from now on, then it is a matter of course to take care of each other, Liu Jingjing quickly put herself in the right position.

"Hehe, I'm really negligent, okay, I'm going to prepare some food, can I not my Pingping, Jingjing, and my son are hungry, Pingping, Jingjing, you wait here, I'll be back soon." Zhao Chaogang went out in a hurry, he didn't want his wife and children to be hungry on the night of the wedding, which was too unlucky.

"Jingjing, thank you for relieving me just now, otherwise it would have been a little embarrassing just now!" Zhao Chaogang just went out, Li Liping thanked Liu Jingjing, if it wasn't for Liu Jingjing to break the siege just now, Li Liping would really feel very embarrassed.

"Sister Pingping, what do you say. We're a family now, so there's no need to be so polite. Besides, where will there be any embarrassment in the family. Sister Pingping, can't you say such an extraneous thing again. ”

"Hehe, it's mine, no, I will never make the same mistake again in the future. Jingjing, you're right, from today onwards, we are a real family, and we should work together to take care of this family in the future. If only we were together. Be humble to each other and don't treat each other as real family members, which will only cause problems in this family. Jingjing, from now on, let us work together to build this family!

"Hmm. Sister Pingping. Jingjing knows, for the happiness of this family, Jingjing will do her best!"

Liu Jingjing nodded her head very hard, her eyes were full of sincerity, obviously, what Liu Jingjing said just now was her true words.

Li Liping and Liu Jingjing have really opened their hearts to each other from this moment. From now on, they are indeed working together to build the warmth of this home. Let this home from now on, full of warm .......

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"Well, it's really delicious, the things made by Chaogang are the best!" Liu Jingjing was eating the food made by Zhao Chaogang in a big gulp, and at the same time kept praising the taste of the things made by Zhao Chaogang.

"Well, indeed, Jingjing is right, the things made by Chaogang taste really good, well, delicious ......!"

Half an hour ago, Liu Jingjing and Li Liping opened their hearts to each other, so when Liu Jingjing and Li Liping were eating, they felt that today's meal tasted particularly good, so that Zhao Chaogang on the side tasted the food in front of him very suspiciously, but he found that the taste of this meal was still the same and had not changed much!

This made Zhao Chaogang very puzzled by Pingping and Jingjing's current reaction, and in the end, after Zhao Chaogang couldn't figure it out, he could only think of this as Pingping and Jingjing because they got married today and were happy in their hearts, so they would have such an expression.

It took a full ten minutes for Li Liping and Liu Jingjing to stop the chopsticks in their hands, and at this time, the food on the table was almost wiped out, it seems that Li Liping and Liu Jingjing are indeed very hungry, otherwise, where would they have such a good appetite.

Even Zhao Chaogang, who was not very hungry on the side, couldn't help but eat some after seeing Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's greedy eating appearances, which shows that good appetites can be contagious to each other.

"Pingping, Jingjing, from today we will live together, maybe we will have this, that contradiction, after all, everyone's thoughts are different, but what I want to tell you is that even if we have a big contradiction in the process of getting along, I also hope that when the time comes, we can sit down calmly and solve this contradiction.

Don't make loud noises or even fights because of this, in this case, the final result of our family will only be ruined.

I solemnly promise you here that in the future, when dealing with family affairs, I will definitely deal with problems on the basis of fairness and justice, and will never favor anyone.

In doing this, I actually hope that the home can be full of warmth, and home is the harbor of our soul, so we need to do our best to maintain this spiritual harbor. Pingping, Jingjing, don't you say?"

After cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks on the dining table, Zhao Chaogang pulled Li Liping directly, Liu Jingjing sat down, and Kaicheng said it.

In the future, three people live under one roof, Pingping and Jingjing each have different ideas, and when the time comes, there will definitely be conflicts between Pingping and Jingjing, and at that time, quarrels or something are inevitable.

Therefore, now that Zhao Chaogang has directly brought up the topic, the two sides have made an announcement to talk about each other, so that it will be better for everyone's life together in the future. Zhao Chaogang did this, in fact, for the good of this family.

It's a pity that Zhao Chaogang's actions were in vain, because Li Liping and Liu Jingjing had already opened their hearts to each other.

"Hee-hee...... , Chao Gang, don't worry, Sister Pingping and I have already said to each other that we will clear each other in the future, and we will make the greatest efforts together for the warmth of this home, and we will build this home well, Chao Gang. We have that confidence!"

"Well, Chaogang, don't worry. The affairs of the family, you will hand it over to me and Jingjing in the future, we will run this family well, and we will not let Chaogang disappoint you and make you embarrassed!"

Li Liping stretched out her hands, held Zhao Chaogang's right hand, and shook it very hard. To show that they are definitely not joking with those words just now.

"Huh. In this case, I will rest assured!" Zhao Chaogang showed a happy smile on his face, and then he directly took Li Liping and Liu Jingjing into his arms, and said very gently: "Pingping." Lush. You guys are my darling, I love you!"

"Chaogang, I love you too......!"

"Chaogang, I love you too......!"

Li Liping and Liu Jingjing replied in unison, and the new house was once again full of warm ...... of love!

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The time soon came to the third day, and at this time, it was time to go back, Zhao Chaogang. Li Liping and Liu Jingjing got up early in the morning and began to prepare gifts for returning to the door.

Today's return door. Zhao Chaogang first went to Li Liping's house with Li Liping, and then went to Liu Jingjing's house with Liu Jingjing, Li Liping is the eldest sister, so when he returned to the door, Zhao Chaogang went to Li Liping's house first.

Liu Jingjing didn't say anything about Zhao Chaogang's arrangement, she put her position very right, since she is now her sister, she has to abide by some things that her sister should abide by.

On the night of the wedding, since she and Sister Pingping have opened their hearts to each other, there are some things that have to be sacrificed. For this family, for the sake of Chaogang, such a sacrifice, Liu Jingjing paid willingly!

Of course, Liu Jingjing's sacrifice was not paid in vain, after seeing Liu Jingjing so humble and sensible, Li Liping directly discussed with Zhao Chaogang, and let Zhao Chaogang spend the night in Liu Jingjing's house tonight to make up for Liu Jingjing's 'sacrifice'.

This is the so-called gain, you have to pay!

Huimen is also known as Guining, a traditional marriage custom of the Han nationality. It refers to the first time that a woman returns to her parents' home to visit relatives after marriage. The newlyweds return to their parents-in-law's house after the third day of their wedding, and for the bride, they return to their parents' home after becoming a first-time wife.

Han folk customs, after a woman gets married, the first time she goes back to her parents' house to visit relatives is called back to the door, and the person who walks with her son-in-law is called a double return door.

The second fold of Yuan Anonymous's "Fighting Wits Across the River": "When I return to the door for the moon, I will see my mother and have something to say." The 108th episode of "Dream of Red Mansions": "One day, Shi Xiangyun returned from marriage and came to Jia's mother to ask for peace."

Huimen is also known as "Guining", that is, "returning to your mother's home". Han marriage customs. It is also the first time for the newlyweds to go back to their parents' home in the real sense, and the couple are both pairs to pay homage to the woman's parents, which is naturally an indispensable etiquette.

At this time, when the groom sees his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he should change his words to father and mother, and make the whole wedding official, that is, let the bride's parents see the happy marriage of the two.

Of course, the new son-in-law at this time still has to offer the parents-in-law "return gift" and "return money", and bring different gifts according to different places.

Some bring a rooster to take the meaning of "auspicious wishes", and some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and other things, and when they arrive at the woman's house, they have to stay for a few days before returning.

And more common is to serve oranges, apples, bananas, wine, etc., the style is not fixed, but do not return to the door for a single, must be a double number, which means that the husband and wife become a pair, a hundred years together, and the singular number is unlucky.

After the first Spring Festival, the groom will also go with his wife to bring gifts to his father-in-law and mother-in-law on the second day of the first lunar month.

On the 3rd, 6th, 7th, 9th, 10th day or full moon after the wedding, the son-in-law returns to his parents' home with the bride with gifts to visit his wife's parents and relatives. The ceremony of becoming a son-in-law since the beginning of the marriage has been completed, and it is the intention of going home to visit his parents after marriage.

In later generations, the names were different, the Song Dynasty called "Baimen", the Qing Dynasty called "Shuanghuimen" in the north, the south called "Huiqin", some areas in Hebei called "Call Aunt", and Hangzhou called "Huilang".

In modern times, it is usually on the third day after marriage, also known as "three dynasties return to the door". The newlyweds either return on the same day, or stay for a few days, and if they do, they do not share the same room.

When she returned to the door, the daughter and her son-in-law went back to the daughter's house to recognize their relatives. The time of returning to the door varies from place to place, in ancient times, it was the third day, the sixth day of marriage, or the seventh, eighth, and ninth days of marriage, and there were also full moon people who returned to the door to save relatives. In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a custom of returning to the door, and the descendants have followed it to this day.

Because the "return door" is a piece of the newlyweds, it is called the "double return door", taking the auspicious meaning of pairs.

When returning to the door, the old custom stipulates that the bride walks in front, and when returning to the man's house, the groom walks in front, because this return is the first time the daughter returns to her mother's house after getting married, and some are also called "going to the first trip".

After the "double return door", it is generally not allowed to stay overnight at the Yue's house, and must return to the man's house on the same day, because in the old days there was a custom that the newlyweds did not vacate within a month.

Traditional wedding customs, three days after marriage, the bride will go back to her parents' home with the groom, also known as "returning to the door", which is an indispensable etiquette.

The old man of the bride's family attaches great importance to returning to the door in three days, so the groom must be prepared in advance in terms of thinking and gifts, and strive to leave a pleasant and good impression on his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Buy gifts that the bride and the elderly like, there are generally four gifts, tobacco, alcohol, candy, health products, etc.

Returning to the door is the last ceremony of the marriage, there are daughters who do not forget the gift of parenting, and sons-in-law thank their parents-in-law and newlyweds for their love and beauty. The daughter-in-law's family set up a banquet to entertain the new son-in-law, which is the homecoming banquet.

Of course, there are also some taboos to be aware of when returning home: if the groom and the bride go back to their parents' home together, then there are different taboos about their stay at their parents' home. In both the Han and Manchu ethnic groups, it is customary for newlyweds to go back to their parents' homes and avoid having sex together.

The Manchus allowed the aunt to live in Xikang, and other guests were not allowed to live in Xikang, but the girl and the aunt were not allowed to live together. It is said that the newlyweds having sex with their mother's family will cause the decline of their mother's family. This is also the idea that sex is unclean and blasphemous.

Han people often think that women always suffer in matters between men and women. For this reason, there is always a little bit of a depressed feeling in the psychological aspect of the female family. Besides, if the mother's family and the mother-in-law's family do not belong to the same bloodline, how can they provide a place for the mother-in-law's family to pass on the ancestry? If she is really pregnant in her mother's family, won't she bring her mother's "human power" and "wealth" to her mother-in-law's family?

Therefore, it is absolutely forbidden for a young couple to have sex in their parents' house, which is the ideological concept under this custom.

However, in the same Han nationality, there are also many places where it is not taboo for newlyweds to share a bed in their parents' home. Sometimes, these two distinct customs coexist within the same county, for example, in Linxian County, Henan Province.

The significance of the customs of returning to the door: according to the customs of marriage in our country, after three days of marriage, the bride will go back to her parents' house with the groom, also known as "returning to the door", which is an indispensable etiquette.

The old man of the bride's family attaches great importance to returning to the door in three days, so the groom must be prepared in advance in terms of thinking and gifts, and strive to leave a pleasant and good impression on his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Gifts are prepared in advance, buy gifts that the bride and the elderly like, and there are generally four gifts. The return door usually leaves at 9 or 10 o'clock in the morning. The bride and groom should be groomed and dressed as if they were at a wedding, and maintain the beautiful and handsome image at the wedding

When returning to the mother's house, the bride and groom first greet the elderly. At this time, the groom should change his words, call his parents-in-law father and mother like the bride, call him natural and cordial, and treat relatives, friends and neighbors with cordial enthusiasm and courtesy.

During the meal, the bride accompanies the groom and toasts to his parents, relatives and friends and neighbors one by one, thanking everyone for their blessings to her newlywed. After the meal, do not rush home, but talk with your parents for a while and listen to their teachings before saying goodbye and going home. They should also take the initiative to invite two elderly people and their siblings to their homes, as well as relatives, friends, and neighbors.

In general, for our Chinese, it is an indispensable procedure when we get married, and it is also a good inheritance for our Chinese for our marriage, which is definitely worth inheriting and carrying forward......!

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