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"It seems that you really like Ji Gang, otherwise you wouldn't have talked to us so much...... "Chu Xia hugged Qian Yan's shoulders affectionately, "Go back and have a good talk with Aunt Wan, this time, she will listen to you." ”

"I hope so......" Qian Yan sighed helplessly, "Grandpa also persuaded my mother before, but every time he said it was good, he turned back and fell back, and I was really defeated." ”

"It shouldn't be this time, we didn't know at that time, Aunt Wan had no one else to relieve stress except for talking to grandpa, now it's different, my mother, my grandma, fat aunt, everyone uses their own personal experience to persuade her, even if Aunt Wan still can't fully accept it in her heart, but she is already trying to make herself fully acceptable.

Also, she asked me to sue you, if you really like Ji Gang, she won't stop her, but I hope you can see Ji Gang as a person and the true character of his family.

And Ji Gang's aunt, will it have an impact on your life in the future, if so, she hopes that you will talk to Ji Gang about this now, as a precaution.

Aunt Wan asked me to tell you this, it should be that the Lord is worried that if she tells you in person, she will not be able to help but increase her tone, which will cause your rebellious psychology......" sighed, and looked at her seriously in early summer. "You have to understand her good intentions."

"I understand...... "Qian Yan smiled embarrassedly, "It seems that I also made the most common mistake among relatives." Lack of the most basic trust. ”

Yun Doudou, who had not spoken, sighed: "It's like this, because I always live with my relatives and feel that I know each other very well, but it is easy to be suspicious."

And with outsiders, there will be more patience, and it will naturally be easier to accept the persuasion of outsiders, whether it is you. It's still Aunt Wan, or each of us, in fact, we often make this kind of mistake. No way, it's human nature. ”

Qian Yan smiled and said: "Doudou has such feelings, it seems that there have been many conflicts with Aunt Lan before." ”

"You're really right, my marriage with Zhou Hanliang. My mom was adamantly against it at the time. At first, it was because of Zhou Hanliang's family background, but then I finally accepted it, but because he was going on a mission, he wanted us to get married in a few years, and after I made a decision, my mother locked me up, but later. She said yes anyway.

It's not that she really figured it out and agreed, it's just. She is still reluctant to let me be sad, even if she doesn't figure it out herself, she will make compromises, her opposition is not for Zhou Hanliang's opinion, it is just for my future.

Most parents are like this, in the face of their children's marriage, they can rationally consider a lot of issues, but when we are in a relationship, how can we listen?

In other words, if we can really listen to it, it means that we still don't love deeply enough, but no matter what, we must admit that our parents are the ones who love us the most.

Even if you have a significant other, even if you love your other half deeply, you must admit this, because when you get along with your other half, you will unconsciously be more tolerant and less demanding.

But when facing our parents, we often feel that they should be good to us, and as long as there is a little bit of disappointment, we will be disappointed and angry.

Think about it from another perspective, why do we treat our parents like that? Why should they be asked to give their lives for us? We will be parents ourselves, and if our children do this to us in the future, how will we feel in our hearts?

Of course, I don't say that I have to rely on my parents for everything, because they only think about us, and we have to think about ourselves and the other half, so there must be conflicts.

But as long as we understand where the contradiction is, we will have less resentment and more understanding of them, and when they see our happiness, they will naturally change their original ideas.

Sister Yanyan, what I said is my own personal experience, I believe that parents who love their children are the same, I hope it can be of some use to you. ”

"Thank you......" Qian Yan looked at her with a grateful face, "I know how to do it, I shouldn't run away anymore, no matter what my mother's attitude towards me is, I must let her understand that I love Ji Gang, but I love her the same." ”

"Hehe...... Luo Xiaoqiong laughed a few times and looked at her ruffianly, "Listen to what you mean, you love Ji Gang more than Aunt Wan, otherwise, you should say that you love Ji Gang but love Aunt Wan more." ”

Qian Yan looked at her helplessly: "You are called a thorn, these are two different feelings, how can they be compared together?" ”

"The difference between family affection and love is that love can make people moths to the fire, but family affection will only warm your heart, so ah, treat your relatives well."

"When did I stop treating my loved ones well?" Qian Yan looked at Luo Xiaoqiong weakly, "You really don't have a backache when you stand and talk, you and Zhao Qiliang have been recognized by your parents from the beginning, how can you understand our suffering?" ”

"You say this because you don't know the truth about me and Zhao Qiliang together...... Luo Xiaoqiong spread her hands, "If I hadn't taken the initiative to chase him, he wouldn't have been good with me, it's for this reason that I said that love can make people moths to the fire, what a reserved person I am, but in the face of love, I still made such a disregard for a qiē move, alas, just think about it, it's a dwarf......

Qian Yan said casually: "Ji Gang and I also took the initiative. ”

"Isn't that the end of it?" Luo Xiaoqiong spread her hands, "We are all women who work hard for love, only this guy ......" She stretched out her hand to poke at Chu Xia, "I have been rational from the beginning......" She suddenly paused, looked at the front in a daze and couldn't speak.

"What's wrong?" Qian Yan looked at her line of sight as she asked, and then poked Chu Xia excitedly, "Your teacher, your teacher......"

Jundoudou was also excited, and unconsciously inquired around.

Chu Xia shook his head funny: "Please see it clearly, it's Zhu Jianwen, not Zhou Mikang, look at their expressions, when did you see Zhou Mikang wearing this kind of clothes?" ”

Although the man standing far away looks exactly the same as Zhou Mikang, he is wearing a Zhongshan suit, with an elegant temperament, and Zhou Mikang's coldness are two extremes at all.

In fact, Zhu Jianwen was very similar to Zhou Mikang when he got up, but now, he smiled at a few people from afar, but he was 108,000 miles away from Zhou Mikang.

Everyone will understand at this time, in fact, if it is ordinary, they can also recognize it, but at this time, it is just hot, and it happens to mention the division commander's tube, so they invariably default to the other party as the division commander's tube.

"Second brother, are you waiting for us?" It was close, and in early summer, he took the initiative to greet Zhu Jianwen.

"yes, you didn't meet your mom and grandma on campus?" Zhu Jianwen looked back as he spoke, "They came back in the afternoon, and just now I asked them to come to you with them, but I was afraid that I would go through the two forks, so I asked me to wait here, and they went in to find it, and they really missed out with you." ”

In the early summer, he wondered: "The south, the north, the south and the north are at home, my mother and grandma should think more about them, why did they come here to find me?" ”

"I don't know about this." Zhu Jianwen smiled embarrassedly, "They asked me to come with me, and I came over." ”

"This feeling is too weird......" Luo Xiaoqiong scratched her head tangledly, "Obviously, she looks exactly the same as the teacher, but the tone and expression are completely different, and the more I look at it, the more I feel insanity." ”

Jundoudou nodded in agreement: "I'm also a little, after all, I'm too familiar with the teacher......" turned to look at Chu Xia, "What about you, how do you feel when you look at him?" ”

"At first, I thought it was weird, but after more times, I got used to it, just like looking at Brother Xikang, I believe Zhou Mikang will be surprised when he comes back......" Chu Xia's eyes were full of anticipation, "If only I knew when he would come back, I could find the eldest brother in advance, and I would definitely scare him half to death!" ”

"Yes, yes, let the second brother wear the same clothes as the teacher......" Luo Xiaoqiong laughed to herself, "Do you think that the teacher will have the feeling that he is taking care of the mirror by himself?" ”

Yun Doudou smiled: "I don't know if it's like taking care of the mirror, but I believe that the master will definitely be frightened, thinking that he is not there, someone pretended to be him and snatched his daughter-in-law away." ”

Seeing the discomfort on Zhu Jianwen's face, Chu Xia glared at the two of them dissatisfied: "You have to have a degree of joking, how embarrassing are you for the second brother?" ”

Luo Xiaoqiong hurriedly apologized: "Second brother, I'm sorry, we didn't mean it, we just imagined that scene and felt very happy, if you don't like to listen to it, just scold us a few words, we will definitely not go to our hearts." ”

Zhu Jianwen smiled helplessly: "You said this, you will definitely not go to your heart, so if I scold you for this little thing, wouldn't it be too unmanly?" ”

"Look, look at ......" Luo Xiaoqiong smacked her lips and looked at Chu Xia, "This is different, if the teacher is the elder, he must have glanced at us lightly, and he is reluctant to jump out of half a word, seeing how kind the second brother is, by the way, second brother, are you and the prospective second sister-in-law okay closely?" ”

With a slight pause, Zhu Jianwen smiled and nodded: "It's okay......" glanced behind him and breathed a sigh of relief, "Brother and sister, grandma and mom are here." ”

In the early summer, she hurriedly turned around, and saw Lin Yanqiu and Mrs. Zhou trotting all the way over, and she panicked: "Grandma, Mom, what's the urgency to come to me in such a hurry?" (To be continued......)