Chapter 1067: Hard to give up
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"Yes, I guessed that Zhu Jianwen's mother may not have told her mother's family, but after I verified Ji Gang's mother's identity at that time, I didn't say anything......" Chu Xia turned her head to look at Wan Yuqiong, "Aunt Wan can actually check the relationship between Ji Gang's mother and Zhu Jianwen's mother through guò."
If Zhu Jianwen's mother doesn't say that she thinks she doesn't want outsiders to know about this kind of thing, then we can ignore the past, and if you don't say it because you are worried that your mother's family will have other thoughts, then your worries can also be established. ”
Wan Yuqiong's eyes lit up: "Xia, you have a good idea, what is the character of people, when getting along with relatives, it is actually the most real, I will start from this aspect to verify." ”
"Hehe...... "Chu Xia smiled embarrassedly, "If Sister Yanyan knows that I gave you this idea, she will definitely be very angry with me, and if she ignores me because of this, you can help me." ”
Knowing that Chu Xia was deliberately teasing herself, Wan Yuqiong still replied seriously, saying that she would definitely help Chu Xia clarify this matter.
"Marriage is really a complicated thing, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read......" Chu Xia sighed, shook her head again, and the helpless little appearance caused the fat aunt to laugh, "Xia, you found such a good mother-in-law, where did you get this feeling?" ”
"I'm not feeling myself, I'm talking about an objective fact, when my father didn't recognize his ancestors and returned to his ancestors. Aren't the grandparents in Dalin Village quite difficult?
Then after recognizing Yi and returning to the sect, it is difficult for the children on the grandfather's side to be truly single-minded, for their own interests. It is inevitable that you will do something to take advantage of others.
As for my mother-in-law's side, the former third aunt and her daughter, the sister-in-law's mother's family, and now the third aunt's mother's family, don't they all have their own troubles?
So, I just think, Aunt Wan is checking. But if Ji Gang is a good one, because of this, he can't be with Sister Yanyan. It's also a little unfair. ”
"Don't worry, after chatting for half an afternoon, I have also figured it out, and I will no longer stop Yanyan like before. Actually. People's troubles are all found by themselves, when Yanyan and Ji Gang were together at the beginning, if I talked to the big guys, maybe I wouldn't have so many worries.
But at that time, I thought it was a shame for her to find such a person, and it would be even more embarrassing if everyone knew about it, until Ji Gang came to the door later and couldn't hide it. I will no longer hide it from everyone.
But my attitude is clear to everyone, so. As long as I don't mention it, I can't talk to me about it at all, and as a result, the more I drag it out, the more irritated I become.
If it weren't for Qian Yan's iron heart, I wouldn't want to see the Ji family......" After a pause, Wan Yuqiong shook her head and said, "Yanyan's temperament is really with me, when I was young, I took a fancy to Qian Aimin, but I couldn't listen to anyone's persuasion, so I thought he was good."
Now it's my daughter's turn, it's really the same attitude as I was at the beginning, the more I say that Ji Gang is not good, the more she wants to pull the other party over for me to see more, and the result is that I have to face it.
As for me, I don't dare to be tough with that child, if I really force the child out of a bad way, I will feel guilty for the rest of my life, so in my heart, it is really like seeing the sky and frying.
Now I really say all my thoughts, and after listening to everyone's persuasion, I am much more comfortable, although I can't accept it calmly, but at least I can accept it hard.
Xia, after you and Yanyan released their suspicions, she is quite willing to be with you and is willing to listen to you, then you can help your aunt persuade her, it doesn't matter with Ji Gang, her eyes widen and recognize, if it's worth it, you will be together, if it is not worth it, there is no need to be together for the sake of face. ”
"Okay, I'll bring you that." Hatsu agreed.
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After the afternoon class, in the early summer, he walked back with Luo Xiaoqiong, and when he arrived at the school gate, he saw Qian Yanzheng standing there looking at them.
"You sent your future brother-in-law's family home at noon before you came back?" Hatsu asked with a smile and quipped.
"Yes, my mother's attitude, people are not stupid, I naturally want to go over to comfort and comfort, but ......" sighed, Qian Yan looked at a few people helplessly, "I really don't know how to face my mother now, no, I didn't dare to go back after I came back, I have been waiting for you here." ”
"Actually, Aunt Wan's attitude has been a little relaxed, in the afternoon she was at our house, chatting with my mother, my grandmother and others for an afternoon, saying that she had already wanted to open a lot.
What she is actually worried about is that you are now so insistent because of her opposition, so that you can only see the advantages of your future brother-in-law, and you can't see the shortcomings of the other party.
I think you should think about it, whether you are really said by Aunt Wan, if so, then pay attention in the future, if not, it would be better.
However, no matter what, you should have a good chat with Aunt Wan, let her know what you think, and don't let her always worry about worrying.
I believe you know what happened to Aunt Wan and Uncle Wan at the beginning, she was also bitten by a snake once, and she was afraid of the well rope for ten years, although my analogy is a little unkind, but the reason is such a reason, right? ”
"Yes......" Qian Yan sighed, "My mother was hurt by my father, and my father is indeed an unqualified husband, an unqualified father, and she doesn't want me to follow in her footsteps."
However, Ji Gang and my dad are really not the same kind of people, my dad has always been above the top, and my dad's family was in good condition before, so he developed the character of a son-in-law at all.
Ji Gang is different, he is the only male in the family, although there is an older sister above, but he has always supported the affairs of the family, so I believe that as long as the two of us have a good time, it will definitely not be bad in the future. ”
"By the way, there is something I haven't told you yet, the cousin of the future brother-in-law is Zhu Jianwen, that is, Zhou Mikang's twin brother, coincidentally, right?"
"No wonder......," Qian Yan looked abrupt, "I've always wondered, why did you ask Ji Gang those words for no reason, it turns out that you verified this, by the way, how did you guess?" ”
"When you see Zhu Jianwen's mother, you will know how I guessed, the two sisters are like carved out of a mold......" Chu Xia spread his hands, "If it weren't for my mother and they told me Ji Gang's name earlier, I really thought that the person you liked was Zhu Jianwen." ”
Qian Yan laughed happily: "Look, this shows that Ji Gang and I are really very fateful." ”
Chu Xia looked at her seriously: "Can you tell us why you are so persistent with Ji Gang?" ”
"Fate......" As she spoke, the corners of Qian Yan's lips smiled, "You also know what I was like before, to be honest, what I thought at that time was that I must find someone with a good family background, so that I can be a high-ranking person in the future."
However, after my father's incident, I gradually began to reflect on my outlook on life, what am I living for? Actually, I'm really not a person with lofty ideals, I just want to be happy and my family can be happy.
Money and power are really not things that can be forced, and most of the people who are on the side of these two things will be a little arrogant and arrogant, and I think that with my conditions, it will be difficult for those people to die for me.
Really, I'm not arrogant, let's talk about the marriages of a few of you, they are all perfect, but there are prerequisites, your beauty and intelligence in early summer are not comparable to ordinary girls, so you can make the best among people like Master Zhou never abandon you.
Xiaoqiong, you have a cheerful and lively personality, and Zhao Qiliang is a childhood sweetheart, and the conditions of the two are also comparable, so it is normal for the two to be happy and happy.
As for Doudou, your family background is better than that of Director Zhou, but he himself has the ability and follows the right person, for him, it is perfect to find a wife like you.
And I, in terms of appearance, can only be regarded as average, in terms of family background, the Qian family is already like that, even if I live with my grandfather, I can't take my grandfather's resources for granted, and, as far as grandpa's character is concerned, if I really do that, he can immediately kick me out of the door.
My personality is not particularly likable, so if I want the other person to pay attention to me and take care of me like a baby, I should find a boy who is with me and doesn't make me feel high.
I was in the same office as Ji Gang, and I didn't have any ideas at first, in fact, he was very popular in the factory, and there was always a girl to bring him for lunch.
At first, I also made fun of him like others, but then I found out that he never touched the food brought by those people, even if he nibbled on his own head and did not touch a single chopstick.
Moreover, he eats with us openly, and I don't feel embarrassed that he is in poor condition, I like such a man who is not inferior.
Gradually, the two of us got closer and closer, and later, I took the initiative to find out the relationship, of course, I didn't say the real background of my grandfather, but just told me about the situation at my grandfather's house.
He felt very sorry for me, so he always helped me do what he could, and the girls who had been interested in him would deliberately laugh at him, but he still did what he had to do.
Some people, the longer you are with others, the farther away you will be, and some people, the longer you are with others, the closer you will feel, Ji Gang is such a person.
After I decided that I wanted to be with him, I told my mom and my grandfather about his deposit, which my grandfather meant not to interfere with me, but let me see it with my own eyes wide open.
My mother directly objected, there was no way, I decided to take Ji Gang home first, regardless of whether my mother agreed or not, and forced her to accept it, but I didn't expect that my approach made her even more repulsive.
The Ji family came over, it was Ji Gang's meaning, he wanted his mother and grandfather to see what their family was like, I liked his bravery, this is the reason why I insisted on choosing him! (To be continued......)