28. Mother-daughter opinion

As a daughter, Jinghui, at the beginning of the world, where did she know that her mother had so many twists and turns in her heart. I only felt that my mother couldn't hide her joy when she looked at her, and then she frowned, and it was uncertain.

I felt strange, so I asked, "Mother, what's wrong with you?" Uncomfortable?

"Alas! It's not that my mother is uncomfortable, but that I'm worried."

"What's the concern? Isn't our family doing well now? ”

"Alas! Jinghui, you don't know anything, my mother is sending you out of the cabinet."

"Mother, I don't want to get married, I want to stay with my mother all the time"

In that era, when the daughter grew up, although she had a lover in her heart, no matter how much she longed to get married, she couldn't show it in front of her parents.

Second, I am afraid that my parents will be sad, my parents have raised me for so many years, and I have raised them so hard with a handful of and urine, and I haven't repaid the kindness of parenting, so I can't wait to get married, and compare my heart to my heart, normal parents will be reluctant to be sad.

Therefore, in many marriages, the moment when they put on their wedding clothes and lift their feet and go out, the married person will be sad and cry heartbroken, often causing the mother to cry with her daughter.

The more sad the daughter cries, the more it means that the child is affectionate and righteous, the more the parents have face, and they also feel a little comfort in their hearts, feeling that they have not been raised in vain for so many years, and they have not worked in vain.

You must know that in that era, unlike modern times, most of the family conditions were average, and the husband's family who married in the past was also an ordinary person, so it was difficult to have many conditions and opportunities to return to his mother's family.

There is also poor traffic conditions, and it is very inconvenient to go back to my mother's house on weekdays; Even if it is close to his mother's house, he can't go back too closely, and he must take care of the face of his husband's family and the thoughts of his brothers in his mother's family.

Some brothers see that you always go back, eat and take, even if you don't say it for the sake of face, the sister-in-law and sister-in-law will inevitably talk a lot, which is the result of material scarcity and literacy limitations.

Modern times are different, the family conditions are okay, there are few brothers and sisters in the family, even only children, the daughter is in power when she marries, and the parents live with the married daughter's family, which is not a new thing, and it has become the mainstream.

Therefore, Jinghui said that she wanted to live with her mother all the time, although it seemed unreasonable, but it was reasonable, one was the above-mentioned politeness; The second one is indeed that her parents are very good to her.

There are comparisons between the neighbors, the parents have loved Jinghui since she was a child, and she was really raised as a son, even better than the treatment of her son, but the two younger brothers often say that their parents are partial.

Even if the parents are average to themselves, but people can be ruthless, no matter how much the parents beat and scold, they are still parents, blood is thicker than water, this kind of parenting is incomparable to other relatives.

The third is that everyone is a little afraid of the unknown family in the future, not to mention a daughter's family, leaving the home where she has lived for more than ten years, and coming alone to an unfamiliar family, it is difficult to move step by step, and it is normal to be afraid.

But as a mother, just like raising animals, when you raise them, you naturally have to let them go out and fly alone, and the child has the future world and life of the child, and it is impossible to stay with the parents for the rest of her life.

Therefore, Jinghui's mother smiled comfortably and scolded:

"Silly child, how can there be a daughter who will not marry in her life, that is not an old girl"

"I'm just an old girl, and I won't leave you and my father"

"Silly boy, don't talk about this", "Let's get down to business, tell me, what kind of husband do you want?" Mother to help you choose"

Jinghui suddenly blushed, her head was lowered in shame, she pulled the corners of her clothes, and she couldn't open her mouth for a long time.

Encourage her to say: "It's okay, there are no outsiders here, just say, if there is anything, your parents can make decisions for you"

Seeing her mother's kind look and gentle words, Jinghui plucked up her courage and said:

"Really? I said, will you say yes? ”

"When do you think I didn't accede to your request? Mother loves you the most."

"That's... Oh well, I think... I want to marry Pan Shengda", Jinghui mustered up her courage and finally said what she had wanted to say for many days, and secretly sighed.

"What? Which Pan Shengda? Who is Pan Shengda? ”

Jinghui's mother thought that her ear was wrong, did she hear it wrong? Pan Shengda? After several rounds of searching for the name Pan Shengda in her mind, it is worthy of her ability to do business and never forget, and finally remembered some fragmentary information. Confirm to Jinghui:

"This one is named Pan Shengda, is it the son of Pan Shuisheng in Shuinan?"

"Yes, it's him," Jinghui looked at her mother expectantly.

"No, absolutely not," Jinghui's mother shook her head and said; Jinghui knew that her mother would disagree, but she didn't expect her mother to be so resolute.

"Why?"

"Why? I'd like to ask you, why? You've been at home all day, how do you know him? How could it be... How did you fall in love with him? ”

"I saw it at the Dragon Boat Festival Dragon Boat Race, and I met when I played with Xiu'e later, he was very good, and he was very good to me, really, mother, you just promise me"

This almost made Jinghui's mother faint, it was really a mother who couldn't help her when her children were older, and she dared to do such a big thing behind her parents' back, the sinister world was boundless.

Looking at this daughter who was new to the world, I felt that Bacheng was deceived by that guy named Pan Shengda; No, it's not eighty percent, it's ten out of ten who have been deceived.

"I'll tell you, Jinghui, you quickly broke off with that Pan Shengda, this guy must have lied to you", "I've seen a lot of this kind of person, I don't work hard, I want to make a fortune through these improper methods, when I meet me, don't even think about it, hum!" ”

"Oh mother, no, it's not like this, Shengda is not like that", Jinghui was in a hurry, and said that Shengda didn't say anything about Pan.

"Look at it, look at it, it's all so close, say Shengda", "I'll tell you, if you don't listen to your mother now, you will regret it for the rest of your life in the future, don't look for this kind of person, my mother has seen people, and you eat more salt than you."

"Mother, you haven't seen him, you can't just conclude that he is the person you think he is."

"Hey, you dare to talk back to me for him, you have hard wings, and you want to fly away, okay, you fly away, let me tell you, I resolutely disagree with this matter, you can do it yourself."

Jinghui's mother stood up angrily, pointed at her daughter and said a lot of almost roaring, turned around and opened the door and left, so angry that she didn't go to the store anymore, and walked back to her bedroom quickly.

Jinghui's mother, who was sitting on the bed, was still panting with anger, and Jinghui's father had already heard his wife's roar, followed in, closed the door and secretly said, "What's wrong?" Quarreled with your daughter? ”