27. Mother's conundrum
Although Jinghui's mother has experienced a sharp eye, she will not say what she shouldn't say, and she won't say it when she is killed; When you see people talk about people, you see dogs talk about dogs.
After all, many of these businesses are either rich or expensive, and they can't afford to offend any of them, otherwise, they will close their stores in minutes.
That's it, I usually eat a lot of secretly, and I have to pretend that it doesn't matter on the surface, but I have experienced a lot of hot and cold in this world, and my heart is naturally much colder and harder.
On the surface, if you are harmonious, you can not suffer a loss at the bottom, and even if you can't avoid a loss, you have to make up for it from somewhere else.
Fortunately, Jinghui's father is a generous and benevolent old man, and he is very good to his wife.
This Mr. Yu doesn't care, he was scolded for a few words and laughed and passed, this kind of high-profile not only will not damage a man's face, but will make people feel that he has a man's big heart.
Of course, when there are outsiders, Jinghui's mother tries her best to save face for her husband, and whatever her husband says is what she says, and she doesn't have to resist (if you want to resist, you have to wait until you go home).
The husband is noble, and the wife is honorable; The male protagonist is outside, and the female protagonist is inside; Many women don't know, and they think that they have the skills to control their husbands, and outside, they show off everywhere how obedient their men are, and they don't give face to their husbands at every turn; In fact, if a woman doesn't give face to a man, it means that she doesn't give herself face.
Others will think that if you are really good, your husband must also be good, your husband is so bad in your mouth, then it is worthy of such a bad wife as you. Between husband and wife, one prosper and one loses. A shrewd person like Jinghui's mother naturally knows this truth.
In this way, I have passed all these years in harmony, although I am sometimes tired, but I am also safe and sound, but recently there is an annoying thing, always annoying Jinghui's mother, that is the lifelong event of my daughter Jinghui.
Think about it, such a shrewd mother who is skilled in the world, and she is even more concerned about the major events of her baby daughter's future life, although there are not many children of the government, businessmen and nobles, and well-educated people, etc., but it is difficult to enter the mother's eyes at present.
The stubbornness of the children of this official government is uncomfortable, if he can always be powerful, it is good to say, and it is a good fortune for his son to be a second ancestor until the end of his life.
But this officialdom is like a battlefield, either today or tomorrow, it is easy to say that the official position has fallen, and there are many heads lost, if the daughter marries into such a family, it will be very unlucky.
At that time, he will be implicated and may be imprisoned. Even if there is no these, but let the daughter live with a person who has nothing to do all day long, walks birds and fights dogs all day long, it is not a thing, once there is a change in the family, this kind of gentleman can't take care of his own life, and begging him to support the family, how is it possible.
And in such a family, the mother-in-law is the official wife, which is used to being arrogant, the daughter marries in, the Houmen is as deep as the sea, and she is not wronged to death, I am such a daughter, I don't expect her to marry to show that her parents are very noble, just want her to live a happy life in the future.
The bad things of businessmen and nobles, Jinghui's mother knows even more that she has been in business for so many years, don't you know that the richer people are, the more stingy they are, and the more they look down on people who are even slightly less rich than themselves.
Even if they are picky on outsiders, these rich families are also very picky about insiders, and they have a lot of money, and they can't wait for the good of the world to belong to themselves, and it is difficult to accept the slightest bad one. If a daughter marries in such a family, what is the difference between being a nanny?
If her daughter Jinghui had been doing business with her, she would be better and able to deal with such a family; But Jinghui, a child, has never been interested in business, but is fascinated by those books, and has not received any training in human affairs, how can he be the opponent of that kind of rich family, and he must have been treated obediently in the past.
As for the well-educated people, most of them are sour and rotten people, who have no power to tie the chicken, and they can't earn their own money, but they can't look at the world at every turn to guide the country, and they are proud with an empty stomach; Let her daughter go hungry with such a person every day, as a mother, it is very uncomfortable.
If Jinghui is like herself and can make money to support her husband, then it will be no problem; His husband, Mr. Yu, is not a scholar yet, but he is not bad, he opened a private school, and the money he earned is actually enough to support his family; But not everyone can open a school.
As for the offspring of the countryside and poor families, Jinghui's mother was not included in the ranks of prospective sons-in-law at all, don't even think about it, how is it possible, how can my daughter marry into such a family, no, absolutely not.
On the other hand, Jinghui, because of Jinghui's family's business, she was originally very famous in the upper class society in this county, and she herself is beautiful, and she can read and write, so she is a good material for being a daughter-in-law.
Don't look down on an inconspicuous small county town, it is also a place where dragons and snakes are mixed, and there are a lot of capable people, among these elites, which one of them is not poisonous?
Those rich ladies are all princesses who are sick, and they have more than one family; The young lady of the rich family, who grew up in the pile of money, is not a snob, that is very rare, this kind of snobbery is the most terrible, you can be when you are in power, you can run faster than you when you lose power, and maybe they will kick you, and the thinness is the most snobbish.
As for the poor girls in the countryside, the conditions are limited, they haven't read any books, they haven't seen the world, they have become wives, they can't take them out, and they lose face.
The best ones are like Jinghui, who come from a solid family, who is knowledgeable, courteous, gentle and virtuous; There are not so many problems, I can enter the kitchen, get out of the hall, and sit in the study; This is the best person to live in high society.
Therefore, there is an endless stream of people who come to propose marriage, and Jinghui's mother is open-minded in the city, so she naturally knows who is the next generation, but these descendants are either problematic with this, or there is something wrong with that, or they can't look at it.
can make Jinghui's mother worried, you must know that the current social atmosphere seems to be a bit decent, these powerful people will not come openly for the time being, but it is not sure which powerful family will come one day, which is hard to say.
Although Jinghui's mother is polite to anyone who proposes marriage, trying her best to save face and trying not to break this seemingly balanced situation, as a mother, she also hopes to meet a suitable offspring as soon as possible and marry her daughter as soon as possible.
If you are not afraid of many thieves, you are afraid of thieves; Maybe this red face will become a disaster; So Jinghui's mother is like biting a hot potato, she can't swallow it, she can't vomit it, she is sad to death.