It stands to reason that when a child speaks to his father like this, in fact, these contents may be those so-called bold words for him, and the posture he should put on should also be the attitude of not being afraid of everything.

Wuji said: "Your cousin was very calm at that time, giving people the feeling that everything was under his control, which your fourth uncle said later, of course, when he said it, he must have looked happy and relieved."

The dialect asked, "Is that actually him in control of everything?" That is to say, everything is in this plan. ”

Wuji said: "Then I don't know, your cousin gives people the impression that is like that, he is capable, as far as I know, he has a very steady performance in everything he does, and at the same time, some decisions and plans are also very rational, and he can always reap the results that exceed everyone's expectations."

"Then there is your father, I didn't have a long contact with him, but in that short time, I have never seen him discouraged or unhappy or angry, in short, he will always be the one with a very slight smile, as if he is like this in any situation, giving people a very powerful feeling."

Fang Yan said: "I know, just like those very powerful and confident male protagonists in some TV series, I must visit my cousin when I have the opportunity."

Wuji was slightly speechless, and he could only smile helplessly at the performance of the dialect.

With a slight turn, Wuji continued: "At that time, your cousin's words were not finished, after he finished saying that your fourth uncle might be towards him, he continued to say I, if I tell you, anything I will do in school in the future, before I can't completely handle it myself, don't come to get involved, I don't know if you can accept it."

"Or to put it another way, your son feels that he has grown up and has the ability to face things independently, I have my thinking and my way of dealing with things, and you can also take it as a test for me, because in fact, when such a thing really happens, your participation does not necessarily help things, such as this time."

"This is a targeted thing, the meaning of which you can understand is that he will handle his own affairs in the future, so that your fourth uncle and fourth aunt can try not to interfere as much as possible, this is actually very easy to understand, when the child grows up, they want their own space, but it is different with your cousin."

"Other children reach that age because of a desire to grow up and therefore have certain psychology, but your cousin is that he wants to control the world he is facing alone, this is not to say how strong his desire to control is, your cousin's desire to control is not strong, he just doesn't want his ability to be hindered unnecessarily."

The dialect wondered, "Pursuit of perfection?"

Wuji pondered for a moment and said: "Actually, after so many years, I can't find a good adjective to describe him, he has no shortcomings, I must say that if there is, when he faces some things, some ideas are too carefully considered, and they are too perfect."

"When the thought and preparation of a thing is too detailed, the advantage is very obvious, that is, it will increase the success rate of the matter, so that the final result of the matter is closer to your expectations."

"The disadvantage is as obvious as the advantage, that is, the requirements for the arrangement are too high, and there can be no mistake in the middle, because the overly detailed arrangement and plan are interlocking in the inside, and there is no room for reversal."

"It's the same as speaking, the fine kind is equivalent to the kind that says to death, and there is no room for maneuver, that is to say, if something goes wrong during the period, then the result may be irreparable."

The dialect says, "That's the pursuit of perfection."

Wuji felt that this adjective was inappropriate, but after thinking about it carefully, he couldn't find a more satisfactory adjective, so he just took a puff of cigarette and sighed.

Wuji said: "At that time, your cousin said that, and your fourth uncle didn't have any overreaction, but he looked at your cousin by himself, and finally turned his head and sighed with your fourth aunt, saying that the child has grown up."

"But after your fourth uncle finished speaking, he looked at your cousin and said that it is not impossible for you to tell me this, and it is not impossible for you to want your own space, as parents, we all believe in the ability of our children, but there is a little ......"

"Your fourth uncle said and glanced at the leaders and teachers of the school on the side, and then continued, one thing is that you have to learn to pick the time and occasion to say some things."

Fang Yan said: "In other words, the fourth uncle thinks that his cousin should not tell him this at that time."

Wuji said: "That's right, after all, it's a matter of your own family, that is, a matter of children and parents, these should be regarded as some problems in the family, which is indeed a bit inappropriate to say in front of school leaders and teachers at school."

"But in fact, this inappropriateness is just that they can't speak, this is equivalent to having to stand in a person talking, and they can't interject, but they still have to listen, but this is actually nothing."

"Because who is not a child yet, who is not a parent? The leaders and teachers present at that time were parents and children, in fact, they didn't feel too embarrassed when they faced this scene. ”

"At least in my opinion, your fourth uncle's performance was a little out of shape at that time, and I don't know if he was because he suddenly heard your cousin say this, and then he thought about it or observed it for a while, and found that your cousin did grow up in a trance, and he also admitted that your cousin grew up."

"And then all of a sudden, he couldn't find a better word to respond or what, this is understandable, for your fourth uncle, the child suddenly grew up is indeed a bit hasty, because before they had your cousin in the family, your fourth uncle was very busy and busy, and after having your cousin, he was also very busy and busy, and he was only a little idle later."

Fang Yan said when he heard this: "This sounds a little difficult for the fourth uncle, but I feel that my cousin said so much that he doesn't seem to be completely thinking about the fourth uncle, I think Dad, you explain it, but you don't help your cousin about the fourth uncle's problem, is it possible that their relationship has been bad?" But I still don't think that's right. ”

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