Chapter 830: Statement
Wuji still only smiled slightly when he heard this, and didn't say much.
Wuji said: "It's too normal that the relationship between this Lao Tzu and his son is not good, they all say that they are not enemies and not father and son, they are talking about this problem, this problem has been a problem since ancient times."
"Not to mention that this is a new era, in the old society where filial piety was very important in the past, it is normal for the relationship between Lao Tzu and his son to be bad, and many historical celebrities still have this problem, which is not a serious problem, but a common phenomenon."
The dialect said: "That person often said that the daughter was the father's little padded jacket, and it seems that I am." ‘’
Wuji glanced at Fang Yan and said, "Well, even if you're half a daughter, maybe you think you feel like a little padded jacket, but in fact, I treat you as a son in the free-range."
The dialect said: "How can there be such a thing, let's talk about the things at that time, it feels like it's going to end."
Wuji said: "At that time, your fourth uncle said that it was inappropriate for your cousin to say these things at that point in time and environment, but what he got was naturally your cousin's denial, and your cousin had a plan."
"Your cousin said it directly, saying that he knew that these should be problems between his father and son, and the most suitable place should be at home, but he thinks it is quite appropriate now, because this still needs the witness of the leaders and teachers."
As he spoke, he expressed himself to the already boring leader and teacher on the side, who couldn't help but feel a little puzzled when he heard that he had to witness this matter, but at the same time, he cheered up and responded.
"Your cousin said that he will be in school for a long time after this, and he may have a lot of ideas that will be implemented, so if the school side feels a little dissatisfied or surprised because of some of his behaviors, then the school side should find me to solve the relevant matters after understanding my situation, instead of continuing to contact you directly."
"At that time, your fourth uncle felt that there was a problem when he heard it, so he asked your cousin directly, and asked him what he meant? Because if the school really solves everything with him, then it seems that he has really become an outsider. ”
The dialect asked, "Is there anything wrong with that?"
Wuji said: "The problem is that there is no problem, it can be regarded as an instinctive question, in fact, there is no problem at all to treat your cousin as an adult, but everything is changing too fast, and your fourth uncle has not reacted yet, because he is always a father."
"Not to mention whether the relationship between their father and son is good or not, his identity as a father is still there, you say that you suddenly don't care about your own children's affairs, no one can react, but if you want to treat your cousin as an adult, there will be no problem at all."
"It's like a lot of things after that, including your cousin going to the family business, and then your cousin has great plans in the business, you see if your fourth uncle has worried about it, and he doesn't bother at all."
Fang Yan nodded and said, "Understood, and then it's done?"
Wuji said: "Almost, the school side had doubts at that time, but your cousin reassured them, saying that they just need to understand these things, because this is always something in their family, and all they can give at this time is advice, but no matter what kind of advice these suggestions are, this should not change much for him who has obviously made a lot of determination to do this."
Fang Yan said: "That's really confident, this school can't be changed, he is so sure that the fourth uncle will agree?"
Wuji said: "This is your cousin's attitude of pinching your fourth uncle, in fact, your fourth uncle will not object to this kind of thing, why, because your fourth uncle also fully understands and understands these things."
"I said before, in fact, your cousin and your fourth uncle are the same kind of people, when your fourth uncle was young, he was also the same as your cousin, your fourth uncle has had relevant experiences, and he understands better than anyone what kind of psychology and determination your cousin has in doing this."
"He also reflected that your cousin didn't suddenly sound a childish request, it should be a decision made after a long period of consideration, and the reason why he chose such a practical statement is because he thinks it's a good time, not to say that there is any point in expressing his position at this time, that's all."
"At the same time, he also understands that since your cousin said so, then in fact, he can't change anything if he agrees or not, because if you want to change this matter, you have to change your cousin's mind, he himself recalled his views and attitudes towards some things at his age, and it was a useless attitude when the king of heaven came."
"And to oppose this kind of thing, it has no effect and meaning, but it will make your cousin go further away from the family in disguise, so at that critical time, it was your fourth uncle who calmly dissuaded the fourth aunt who wanted to speak at that time."
"But there is still a final attitude to this matter, your fourth uncle just nodded, told your cousin that he understood, and then asked your cousin, saying that before he applied for independence, whether he needed any help from the family, this is a part of the family's mind, and there is nothing else."
"Your cousin is also decisive, and he directly said that he doesn't need it at all, he has a decision, and he will naturally have his own arrangements."
The dialect said, "And then such a thing is such a thing?"
Wuji sighed: "Things sound like this, very simple and sparse, because the central event at that time was actually not a key thing, and if it was not clear, it would not be clear, and then they dispersed."
"Your fourth uncle also found a school leader who was present at the time, this leader watched the whole process of their father and son's nonsense, and also expressed his helplessness about the situation of their father and son, but he still felt that your fourth uncle seemed to be a little too early to let go."
"Because the child will always grow up, he cannot be by his parents' side all his life, and this parent cannot be able to take care of them all his life, so there will always be a process of letting go between the parents and the child."
Fang Yan said: "The people who co-authored this school are also understanding people, but also, whether it is a leader or a teacher, they are always individuals and ordinary people."
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