Because of Zhou Shaoyu's chaotic incursion, the Ban family's life is much better now. Without worrying about his livelihood, Ban Gu is more concerned about writing Hanshu, but the speed is still not fast.

The reason is simple, it is only 58 A.D., 105 years before Cai Lun invented Cai Hou paper and dedicated it to Emperor Han He. Nowadays, when writing articles and the like, they all use silk and bamboo slips.

Silk is naturally silk fabric, although this thing is conducive to writing, but the price is not cheap, after all, in ancient times, silk can be directly used as money, and even in the troubled times the collapse of the monetary system, silk silk can still be universal.

Although because of Zhou Shaoyu's relationship, the conditions of the Ban family are much better, but it is okay to use this thing occasionally, and it is still unaffordable to buy it on a large scale. It is mainly based on the use of bamboo slips.

But even if it's just a bamboo slip, the price is not very cheap. Most of the time, Ban Chao went up the mountain to cut down the bamboo and bring it back, and then made it himself, which alone took a lot of time.

Everyone knows the great impact of paper on cultural communication, in this era when paper appears on the market but is not conducive to writing at all, it is conceivable how precious the collection of books is, so Zhou Shaoyu used a large number of ancient books and even solitary books to brush the goodwill of the class, even if it is just borrowing, the effect is very good.

However, there is a good saying, it is better to travel thousands of miles than to read thousands of books, and it is definitely difficult for Ban Zhao in history to have the opportunity to go far away, so the most suitable way to change her personality is to travel.

Speaking of this, we have to marvel at the power of those literati in ancient times.

The ancients were in a hurry, and in most cases they could only rely on themselves to drive the 11th on foot, and the country is so big, it is thousands of miles at every turn, take the powerful Sima Qian, who wrote historical records, for example, this guy went to Yueyang when he was young, and followed the emperor to Pingliang and Kongtong, and then he was ordered to go to Bashu, the farthest, and even to Kunming.

Another example is a big bull like Li Bai, looking at his poems, you know how many places you have been to, Shu Road is difficult, and it is difficult to go to the sky. You see, doesn't this mean that you have been to Bashu?

Zhou Shaoyu thinks that he is not so promising, so he can insist on walking, but since he wants to take Banzhao, he can't let his sister work hard, this is to go out to play and broaden his horizons, not to come out to suffer, if he really walks such a long way, the white and tender little feet have to be gone.

Ban Zhao is very interested in traveling and studying abroad. If it weren't for Zhou Shaoyu's proposal and strong request, with Ban Zhao's temperament, it would probably have been staying in the house all the time. But now that his husband is happy, Ban Zhao has no reason to refuse.

After several discussions, Luoyang doesn't have to go, anyway, he grew up there, Ban Zhao is also familiar with Luoyang, so there is no need to go again.

In the end, it was decided to go west, pass through Chang'an, go out of Sili, enter Liangzhou, and take a look at the scenery outside the Saiwai.

On the day of the trip, everyone saw them off, and everyone else was fine, but Cao Xiaogu's resentful gaze really made Zhou Shaoyu embarrassed, this Nizi wanted to go with her as soon as she learned about it, and she had a certain idea of being an independent woman, so she was naturally extremely interested in this kind of thing, but she was forcibly suppressed by the Cao family. Originally, the little girl who was not in time for the end of the day, what kind of door did she go out, and besides, the small couple of people together, what are you doing with a righteous sister in it.

Seeing Zhou Shaoyu driving the carriage farther and farther, Cao Xiaogu didn't know what to think, suddenly stomped her foot, and began to feel pain with a wow, wiped her little tears and ran home, locked herself in the house for a long time and didn't come out.

On the other hand, Zhou Shaoyu began his own persuasion business.

There is no saddle in these years, so that for horseback riding, most people will not, or even do not accept it at all, of course, this is inseparable from the high price of horses, just buying a horse is not cheap, and the follow-up breeding is also a lot of expenses. In addition, according to the current division, the professions that require horseback riding are obscene and not elegant at all.

And Zhou Shaoyu has limited time, and if he wants to take a look back and forth in the Western Regions within six months, he can only make a fuss about the way he is in a hurry. Horse-drawn carriages are faster than walking, but they are much worse than riding horses. Then it is natural to teach Ban Zhao to ride a horse.

If it is really according to the inherent concept of the moment, people with status, except for military generals, basically will not choose to ride a horse, unless there is one situation, that is, to flee for their lives. Otherwise, either a carriage, or a sedan chair, or a donkey!

Forget about riding a donkey, Zhou Shaoyu doesn't have that hobby, although the ancient literati seem to be very fond of it, and even have a lot of afterwords, such as riding a donkey and reading a record book and looking at it.

"This world is still not peaceful, connecting the road, in the wilderness, it is inevitable to encounter mountain bandits who rob the road......" Zhou Shaoyu used his life to fool, and after several persuasions, he finally asked Ban Zhao to agree to this matter.

And for the saddle that Zhou Shaoyu took out that he had never seen before, he didn't have much feeling, Ban Zhao was indeed talented, but his knowledge was still shallow, and he hadn't even seen much of a horse, how could he see at a glance the importance of this thing for horse riding. At most, it was curious why, every time he approached town, he would dismount and walk, and take off the saddle and hide it.

Riding a horse represents speed, and speed represents stimulation to a certain extent, so what does stimulation represent?

For example, in later societies, there were many amusement parks for various thrilling games, the most famous of which was roller coasters. For the vast majority of people, this thing is absolutely exciting enough, even if it's not exciting, there is always a jumping machine or something, there is always one that can make you scream.

Ban Zhao has always been the most self-disciplined, and his behavior has his own set of rules, can you imagine the scene of this Nizi screaming?

Of course, it's just a horse, and screaming is not allowed, but at the beginning of the ride, you have to whisper and exclaim, and you can't be nervous. Not to mention that the two rode together, Zhou Shaoyu sat behind her and hugged her affectionately, so close contact in broad daylight, the addition of the two was enough to break a lot of Ban Zhao's original temperament and challenge her rules of self-restraint.

It's always grinding little by little, Zhou Shaoyu doesn't want to really become a girl who talks about rules everywhere in the future, rules are important, but your own family, there is no need to be so particular.

Stop-and-go, the first day didn't catch up much at all, until Ban Zhao was almost not distracted, for novices who are not familiar with the tricks of horseback riding, the more nervous, that is, the tense body, the more difficult it is to ride a horse, and by the time Zhou Shaoyu set up a tent to prepare food, Ban Zhao's spirit was already in a state of sorrow.

Originally, according to Ban Zhao's meaning, cooking or something would naturally be handled by her, but now she couldn't even stand up and couldn't stop trembling, how else could she cook? Therefore, it is inevitable to feel guilty and uneasy, which is different from her rules.

Zhou Shaoyu chuckled in his heart, still the same sentence, grinding slowly.

All the way to the west, riding a lot of horses, there is always a time to get used to it thoroughly and then get acquainted, but when Ban Zhao planned to restore a certain principle problem, he was in a poor physical condition because of the water and soil, and stayed in place for more than ten days, not to mention, when he was the weakest, he even had to let Zhou Shaoyu feed, but because of this, the relationship between the two was obviously much closer.

For Ban Zhao, no matter how she looked at Zhou Shaoyu at the beginning, since she was married, she had already decided that from the beginning to the end, her husband would be her husband, and her husband and children would be her obligation. But in terms of feelings, it is somewhat blank, although it has increased with getting along, but it is always slow, and it was not until this incident happened that it completely sprouted.

Later marriages are generally about freedom, and in most cases, they fall in love first, then get married, and then generally oppose the matter of marrying first, but in fact, they cannot be completely denied.

Don't talk about ancient times, in the early years of the founding of the People's Republic of China, most couples were not introduced by the organization to get married, and if you really want to say how bad the result is, there are not many. And then look at the divorce rate of people after the overall social atmosphere changed......

Marriage is different from love, it is a life of mutual support for firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it is inevitable that there will be stumbles in life. said that the personality is incompatible, this is just a disguise, if no one is willing to sacrifice a loss to make changes, how can it be so easy to find the most suitable other half in this world.

Of course, getting married first also depends on the overall environment, if the cost of divorce is too low, and there is no need to consider too many other factors, then the probability of getting married first and then finally getting divorced is bound to be not low.

In ancient times, many couples had never even seen each other before they got married, and they didn't know what they looked like. And the overall environment is by no means something that can be divorced casually.

In such a situation, even if the first impression is not satisfied, the two can only choose to adapt to each other. Taking this as the premise, coupled with the marriage relationship that has become an established fact, has become an inescapable bond between the two, and naturally leaves a mark in the hearts of the two, in any case, the other party is also their husband and wife.

Combining the above factors, in the unconscious situation, it has already had an impact on the psychology, which further affects the action, prompting the two to gradually understand and become familiar with each other and then run in, but if it is not the existence of the completely opposite nature, generally speaking, at least it is not a problem to find an ordinary and stable life, if everything goes well, get married first and then fall in love, sometimes it is more beautiful.

It is also based on this that Zhou Shaoyu felt that after the Ban Zhao route was consciously unsuccessful, he decisively gave up completely, specializing in his brother Ban Gu's line, getting married first, and then cultivating feelings.

However, this set will definitely not work in the later generations, and it is really too simple to divorce. As long as it does not involve complex property disputes, just a divorce agreement that is less than a page, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau, but a few yuan of handling fees, and in just a few minutes, a divorce certificate will be freshly released.

It is this set of conditions that can be made, and the first thing is that various external factors make it impossible to divorce at will.

The above, Rao is Ban Zhao had an extremely bad impression of Zhou Shaoyu at the beginning, but once he got married, he would get twice the result with half the effort if he got a good impression, who let him already be someone else's husband? What about other than acceptance? At such times, as long as the performance is a little better, people's hearts will be more warm, not to mention that Zhou Shaoyu's performance is even better.

And as long as the feelings arrive, it becomes logical to unconsciously make changes for the other party.

Well, Zhou Shaoyu, the old fritter, has more and more experience in hooking up with girls. In fact, don't look at him now that there are many sisters, but there must be changes in himself, if it is a single template, of course, it is impossible to satisfy all the girls, so that there are different girls, and they will naturally have the result of corresponding changes.

For example, when treating Li Qingzhao, the respect is higher than that of other women. Another example is the treatment of Xiao Meiniang, the relationship between the two is born in a wordless tacit understanding, the two are often plain and warm together, without too much dialogue, they can feel very good, and Zhou Shaoyu rarely talks about it. Or in the face of Li Xiuning, she always tries her best to amuse her, and then looks at her faint expressionless face, whether it is a smile or a simple twitch of the corners of her mouth, then she is very happy for success.

The combination of men and women will inevitably have a certain impact on each other, so that the other party will change little by little in terms of thoughts, words and deeds, etc., if not, then I can't live it, either, you don't have enough feelings, or, too self.

Yes, Zhou Shaoyu's method of influencing Ban Zhao with this is definitely feasible, but on the contrary, Zhou Shaoyu will not change.

Ban Zhao is an extremely intelligent woman, even if she has an opinion, she will not put it forward directly. According to the ancient thinking, a man's self-esteem is the most important, and the wife should be headed by the husband, if the number is counted face to face, not only is it inconsistent with the woman's way of acting, but it is more likely to make the man irritable, which leads to a stiff relationship and leads to incompatibility.

Often the most common means is to tell myself first through letters, which generally means that I am married, I have to meet my husband, I am grateful, thinking about the past, I feel very lucky, with such a mood, my husband and children ......, first express the feelings of husband and wife, tell my feelings, and affirm my husband's number and my own satisfaction. Then start to give examples of people in advance, talk about who and who did in the past, what mistakes or encounters in the past, and how to deal with the final achievements.

Pointing out the fault directly? Nothing! Otherwise, how can it be called euphemism?

This trick is common to women in ancient times! Don't talk about others, let's just say Zhou Shaoyu's own sister-in-law, in the original history, Xiao Meiniang used it on Yang Guang. Even Li Qingzhao, the first talented woman in the ages, is the same, Zhao Mingcheng wants to take a concubine, Li Qingzhao sent a letter to the past, and Zhao Mingcheng was honest.

Men, just like a rebellious baby, you have to go with the flow, otherwise the more direct you are, the tougher the way, the more people will have to be hard with you. But if you want to take the gentle and euphemistic route, the man will feel guilty and uneasy, and then make changes.

Anyway, unconsciously, Zhou Shaoyu's daily style is no longer so casual and casual, and his demeanor is even more elegant. After the incident, I suddenly realized that Zhou Shaoyu was also very happy, who affected whom?