Chapter 877: My son-in-law is super pitiful (15)
Qiao Mu didn't intend to let go of this problem at this time, but said in a very serious tone:
"You're deliberately avoiding my question!
To take care of the child, you only need to pay attention to the child's movements, pay attention to the child's milk and diaper change, whether it is changing diapers or doing other things, a person can do a good job, after all, the child is not heavy, it is easy to get it.
But what if I have Alzheimer's?
If I'm dementia, then I'm a kid who weighs more than 100 pounds and doesn't know anything.
I may get lost, I may have incontinence, and I may need to wear adult diapers as well.
After eating, you may say that you haven't eaten.
If you haven't eaten it, you may say that you have eaten it.
Do you think, are you taking care of Alzheimer's disease and need to wear adult diapers, is it easy for me to take care of more than 100 pounds, or is it easy to take care of a child with a total of only a dozen pounds, you can't even take care of the child now, how can I believe that you can take care of me? ”
"Mom, don't you make trouble, okay?
There is no Alzheimer's heredity in our family, even if you don't want to help me, don't use this method of cursing yourself to test whether I'm okay, even if you really have Alzheimer's, then I will definitely not ignore you, and when the time comes, I will take care of you with Dijia for the rest of your life until death, this is going down.
I'm not kidding you.
This girl I gave birth to is simply annoying, as long as I open my eyes and find that no one is around her, she will cry and make trouble, I originally wanted to take one or two casual jobs to re-familiarize myself with the work process, and it is also convenient to resume work, but, she made such a fuss, I didn't have the time to sleep every day.
Not to mention going to pick up the job.
I really can't hold on like this.
Mom, if you don't want to see the news of a pregnant woman who collapsed after giving birth and committed suicide with her child in the news one day, come back quickly.
Even if it's me begging you! ”
Liu Xiaoyun really rarely bowed his head, but Qiao Mu really didn't like her words:
"Are you threatening me or are you relying on me?
Where's your mother-in-law? And what about your husband?
The two of them don't help at all? ”
"A few days ago, my father-in-law's condition recurred, and now he is still in the hospital, it is said that the situation is not very good, and my mother-in-law has no time to care about this side.
In order to earn more money for milk powder, Dijia now takes on some private work in addition to normal work every day, gets up at six o'clock in the morning and starts to do private work, then goes to work at nine o'clock, and comes back from work at nine o'clock in the evening to continue to do private work, so that he can only sleep at a little more than twelve o'clock, and he can only sleep six hours a day, he is already very tired.
There is no way to take care of the children.
If someone helps me take the pressure off, I won't ask you for help, Mom, come back quickly.
I really can't live without you. ”
"It's just me idle, right?
Forget it, I really owe you in my last life, you can insist on it, and I will go back in two days.
Do you want to eat any Hainan specialties?
I'll go back and bring you some. ”
Qiao Mu is also helpless, in the end, she is her own daughter, she can't really see death and not save her, so she can only go back to help the lining, this gang is really hard to say.
It is estimated that I will have to help the child go to kindergarten.
But it can't be helped.
For the sake of the children.
Most parents are like this, as long as they can, they will be willing to help their children unconditionally, and although there are parents who suck their children's blood or look on coldly, they are a minority after all.
"Mom, don't bring anything, as long as you can come back, it's the best gift for me.
You must come back soon.
I can't hold out for long. ”
Liu Xiaoyun told a few more words, then reluctantly hung up the phone, and then continued to take care of the daughter of the wrongdoer, since the birth of this daughter, except for the first month when her mother helped take care of her, she gave birth a little safer, and then she did not give birth for a day.
It was really crying during the day and crying at night.
I also cry when I pee, and I cry when I poop.
You may cry even if you have nothing to do.
It's just a peerless magic boy.
She sometimes wonders if the one she gave birth to was different from that of other people.
Obviously, the children I saw in other relatives and neighbors before were quite cute, even if they cried occasionally, they just hugged and coaxed, which is like her family, it's just a demon who destroys people's sleep, and then she can't, and she doesn't dare to care.
After Qiao Mu on the other side hung up the phone, he tossed and turned for a while, and then finally fell asleep again, and then the next day he told his old friends that he went to the street to buy some things that babies might use, as well as local specialties in Hainan, and booked a ticket that night, ready to go back early to see the situation.
Although Qiao Mu didn't stop since he came out of the airport, he didn't get home until more than six o'clock the next night, and then put down his things and washed up, and then went out again to go to her son-in-law's house, Wei Dijia's house.
Before he reached the door of his house, Qiao Mu had already heard the child's cry, and the original dissatisfaction and depression in his heart instantly turned into distress, his footsteps increased a lot, and he quickly knocked on the door.
As soon as the door opened, Liu Xiaoyun was almost moved to cry when he saw the arbor carrying a large bag outside the house:
"Mom, you're finally back!
Give me something, you can help me coax this child, it's really terrible, I have to cry for half an hour every night, and I don't know what I want to do, obviously the diapers are clean.
I don't know how many times I've asked upstairs and downstairs.
I don't know if you thought I was abusing her......"
As soon as Liu Xiaoyun saw Qiao Mu, it was like seeing a savior, and hurriedly reached out to hand the child to Qiao Mu, and at the same time used his other hand to pick up the things in Qiao Mu's hand, not wanting to hold the child more for a moment.
Then, not long after the child was picked up by Qiao Mu, Liu Xiaoyun's crying, which Liu Xiaoyun had been unable to stop, stopped instantly.
There was even laughter.
It is precisely because of this that Liu Xiaoyun's mouth can't help but freeze when he is talking, feeling incredible.
She coaxed, sang, and shook again, but it didn't work for her mother to hug her?
Isn't this bullying?
Qiao Mu ignored her daughter, but thoughtfully took her granddaughter into her arms in the same way she had been held before, and walked into the house:
"This child is still very nostalgic, I haven't seen her for several months, I didn't expect to recognize me, I remember that every time I used to come to this point, I seemed to have to hold her to listen to the news broadcast for a while, you go and rest first, I will hold the child to watch the news broadcast for a while."
Just now, when the child stopped crying and smiled, Qiao Mu felt that he couldn't help but chuckle in his heart, it was much softer, the child was sometimes very sensitive, and he had a clear perception of good and bad.
At first, she cried, probably because Qiao Mu had just left, and she was not used to it, so she would cry.
The fledgling effect, people will also have it.
Later, even if he gets used to it, the child may cry uneasily because of the mother's impatience or even a bad mood.
Liu Xiaoyun's temper has never been very good, she can bear it when she treats her children, and if she doesn't do anything to the child, it can be regarded as restraint, so it shouldn't be very strange for the child to be scared by her, and crying.
It's because I figured this out.
Qiao Mu decided to stay.
Even if it is for the sake of her granddaughter, she has to stay, otherwise if she continues like this, it is very likely to have an impact on her granddaughter's personality.
Don't think that your child is still young, and what you do to your child will not affect your child's future.
When you look back, you will forget it when you grow up.
In fact, some memories do fade over time, but because of the physiological reactions and hidden effects left by those memories.
But it will accompany the child for a lifetime.