I sent a message to Dieyan during dinner in the afternoon.,But this message didn't come back.,Okay, in fact, I'm admitting that I'm a little worried.,After all, a girl is outside.,There may indeed be some small problems.。

So I think it's okay to care about it.,It should be something within a reasonable range.,There shouldn't be any big problems.,I think this thing should be a very normal thing.,What's wrong with the care between friends?

Well, I know that I still have some weakness in my own heart, and generally when I feel a deficiency in my heart, I need to emphasize the correctness of this matter, and I need to make this thing a little higher, in other words, to make this kind of thing seem like a very normal thing.

In fact, we children or young people like us like to find some reasons when doing something, and they all say that when chasing girls, such as when playing with girls, we always want to find a special reason, and this special reason means that I don't do this to chase girls.

In other words, we're shy.

I think this may be a cultural reason, then I don't think this culture is about high or low, but according to what I know about foreign countries, I find that they really don't have so many high-sounding reasons when they chase some girls.

I don't know why it's like this, but to be honest, I still feel that people have a physiological impulse, and they like to keep this physiological impulse hidden.

I can often see some of them when they are in a relationship very leaky, that is to say, it is very strong on the outside, and this intensity is not to say adults.

And I see that many junior high school and high school students are also in this situation, and some people say that our current junior high school and high school students in China are also showing on the outside.

But I don't deny this sentence, but there is still a certain gap, and this gap lies in a gap that feels right or wrong.

I think most of the high school and junior high school students in our country are still relatively shy when they fall in love, and a small number of people who don't shy away from it also make people feel very uncomfortable, as if they are just for the show and not for the thing itself.

Some of their junior high school and high school students in foreign countries have a normal feeling when they are in love, and I am not saying that the moon in foreign countries is relatively round, but it is a very natural feeling for them in relation to their overall situation.

And this very natural situation, most of the things, is a sense of being part of their culture, as if they identify with it.

But I think as a father, I definitely don't want this kind of thing to happen, especially if my child is a daughter, and I think most parents are the same for this matter, whether it is a Chinese parent or a foreign parent.

Of course, I'm talking about the students above, and the main thing is that they like to go straight, and the people on our side actually like a kind of euphemism, and of course there is no pejorative meaning.

But to be honest, I don't know why this culture has appeared in me, maybe it's because of the situation around me that has made me a subtle change.

I remember watching a documentary about World War II, and I didn't know how it was reviewed at the time, but there was a particularly interesting detail in the middle.

This playful detail is to say that before the French battle, they had a ritual that encouraged the confidence and morale of the soldiers, and at that time there was a fragment of a country that was simply impossible.

This clip is the dance of some women, and this dance is the upper body or something, I won't say much about what it is, anyway, it's such a situation.

And I saw everything on it, it just made me feel very excited, in fact, I know that men are all the same, men are big pig's trotters, I like to see such a situation.

But to be honest, I'm not sure why it exists, it's so long that I didn't look at it very carefully when I reviewed it, but it was actually a thing that lasted about five or six seconds.

But don't ask me where I am? You can just go and see it yourself, anyway, it's a video software in which you search for World War II documentaries.

Of course, what I want to say is not this, but at that mobilization meeting, many French soldiers had to take the train to go to the war, and some of the soldiers had fiancées and started kissing next to the train station.

In fact, even if it is China now, there is a high probability that there will not be such a large-scale situation, this situation has already appeared on a large scale in France, I don't know if the documentary expresses a right or a mistake, anyway, this is what the shooting situation was like at that time.

No wonder people say that France is a romantic country, and it can be seen from this place that China at that time was absolutely impossible.

It was only 1930, and China had only opened universities for a few decades, and I remember reading in an article that universities were still separate for men and women at that time.

As for the fact that this is not particularly possible in a large-scale public place, it is not possible even now.

It's not that it's worth adopting, it's not that it's nobler than ours, I'm just talking about it.

This question is why we think that foreigners are more open than us, that is, their system has changed dramatically, that is, their marriage system has actually been in practice for one or two hundred years, and I don't know the specifics.

In fact, I think this kind of thing is in a way that the longer it is, the more it can show this essence, and when they begin to slowly show the essence of this human nature, in fact, it is likely to be slowly displayed in our country, but the time is relatively short, and some concepts are still more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Therefore, this change in perception still needs to be adjusted by this generation, in fact, I think this matter of the country is not necessarily a bad thing.

By providing us with some experience through the development of others, we can learn a lot of things in a short period of time and avoid many detours.

Why is it that our country has just begun to develop science and technology for twenty or thirty years, and why is the number of years I am talking about?

But to be able to develop to such a modern point, in addition to being inseparable from the efforts and struggles of this generation of people, I think to a certain extent, we still learn from the development of many countries, and provide us with a certain amount of experience, so that we can innovate and transform ourselves, so that we have followed the process of others for hundreds of years in a few decades.

In fact, some people feel very disdainful of our country's subway, and some people say that they have been developing for hundreds of years.

But I want to say have you ever been to the subway of that kind of foreign country?

Some subways in those countries are very dirty and messy, so when you have been there, you will begin to miss the subway environment of our country very much.

Another is the problem of the network, because the subway in many countries was built relatively early, so there is no way to build the network, that is to say, you can now play mobile phones in the subway, a large part of the reason is that we can rebuild these things because we saw the subway relatively late.

I hate it the most, when those people say that they can't talk about one aspect, they start talking about another aspect, and when they say that they can't do this, they start saying that they can still use it after hundreds of years of cultivation, which shows that they are strict about this quality.

I just want to say, if you have money, why not renovate it, why can't you renovate it if you already have this structure? I guess it won't cost much.

According to my understanding, most of their money is spent on this labor, and when they repair these things, a large part of the money needs to be spent on these labor costs.

It's not easy to put the money allocated elsewhere, and even the money for cleaning may not be there, if this is the case, do you think that the project they built is more powerful?

In fact, to be honest, they have been able to run for hundreds of years, which shows that their work or attitude is actually quite good, but I don't think this kind of thing makes much sense.

If we really talk about the subway, in fact, we are the people who can feel the biggest benefits of this subway, anyway, the subway in my hometown from the south to the north costs less than 20 yuan.

This distance is almost a distance of two or three cities, and now you can't reach this distance so quickly, I mean in the case of a car, and if you take a car The cost is relatively high, and the comfort is not much to say.

But if you go to Hong Kong, you will find that they spend a lot of money on the same journey, but Hong Kong is not that big, so if we go back and forth on the same distance, you will find that you can spend a very high level.

I won't say much about the specific figures, maybe some people's opinions are not particularly the same, but I can say very responsibly that it is definitely an exponential increase.

So I think we enjoy the convenience of this transportation should be very strong, in the past, I felt that this amount of money is a very normal amount of money, that is, the country provides us with this cheap subway and cheap bus, I think this is what the country should do, but now think about it, if it really runs according to this cost, then the promotion may increase even more.

Of course, it may also be the reason for the demographic dividend.

In fact, when talking about the demographic dividend, I remembered one thing, a whole and a single problem, I remember that I have already talked about this whole and a single problem earlier.

I also forgot which documentary I watched, anyway, there is such a sentence in the documentary that I remember.

That sentence I have said earlier is that the overall progress must be accompanied by the pain of the monomer, and another thing can explain this situation very well, that is, this demographic dividend.

Demographic dividend may be a very good word for an individual, but it may not be a very good word for an individual, because it comes with cheap labor.

The very nature of cheap labor is a painful itself, and the pain itself means that he has put in a lot of labor but has not received much in return, and the excess reward is contributed to the whole.

And this whole has made great progress, although I may understand that this demographic dividend is not particularly correct. But it's basically a situation like this, and I don't think it's a particularly good thing for an individual.

However, if an individual uses a lot of returns, then it will be difficult for the whole to make progress, and there will be no eggs under the nest, so it will be difficult for the individual to progress, and the difficulty of the individual to progress may be accompanied by contradictions with other individuals.

So it's a very contradictory thing, and I don't know what kind of state the whole and the individual should be in order for both parties to progress, but it always feels as if there will be a big deviation from this point at any point, and finally go back to the range of what we expected.

For example, when we want to do something, we want to make it better, but there will always be a little bit too much, and there is always no way to balance the relationship in between.

But to be honest, most of the cases are huge contradictions, whether it is like this demographic dividend or non-demographic dividend, this contradiction exists in their behavior, but the two contradictions are different.

One is that the whole is in an advantage in the process of fighting against the individual, and the other is that the whole is in the advantage of the individual in the process of fighting the individual.

Going back to the original topic, in fact, when I do something, it is because of this subtle cultural influence, when I care about others, it may be really because of friends, because friends need to care about each other, so I send such a message.

But I always want to avoid this matter, and it feels as if letting others know will always make others gossip, so I still find a proper reason, not just to deceive others, but also to deceive myself in some ways.

But Dieyan didn't reply to the message, and now I feel like I'm going to start deleting the chat history, because Yun Ci will be here tomorrow night, and if you go to this place, I can't stop showing it to me if you want to look at my phone.

So starting tomorrow morning, I will set an alarm clock, set an event for myself, and delete some chat messages with Dieyan tomorrow morning.

To be honest, there are really a lot of message records of my chat with Dieyan, and I don't know how the two of me chatted about so many things.

But sometimes there is still some feeling that I can chat with her, and she is also a top student, in fact, sometimes it is very comfortable to chat with some more knowledgeable people.

Because I said a lot of things, in fact, Dieyan can understand, I think this point is slightly better than Yun Ci, of course, it's not that I like the new and hate the old, as if I dislike the wife of the chaff, I'm just talking about this thing, in this respect, I think Dieyan makes me feel really good.

I've set up an event now.

When we were about to go to the library, we happened to meet Dieyan, and we were very suspicious that it was not intentional, but we also wanted to know what Dieyan had done in the afternoon.

Before I could ask this question, Mo Xiang had already asked it for me, so I still felt more comfortable.

However, Dieyan's answer made Mo Xiang and I both feel very shocked, I'm not sure if it's true, and I'm not sure if Dieyan is deliberately bragging.

Bragging is not a man's patent, it's just that men brag a lot.

I don't know where the statement that men brag a lot more comes from, but in fact, I think men are really prone to this kind of bragging, compared to women.

As for why men have a problem with bragging, I read an article, if it is likely that it is because of the struggle for reproductive rights of ancient humans.

Because in order for a male to gain the favor of a female, he must assert himself in his own group, so at this time he needs to compete with other males for the right to mate.

In fact, it seems that this is the case in many primates nowadays, and I remember a gibbon monkey that also appeared in such a situation.

But now the whole situation of the struggle may have undergone some huge changes, but the genes of this struggle are still in our bones.

So I can only show my status by bragging, maybe the man himself doesn't know, for example, with a big gold chain or something like that, which shows that he is very powerful, you hurry up and do that with me.

This is probably why men brag a little more than women, of course, it does not mean that women do not have impulsive problems, in fact, I feel that this primitive gene is disappearing more and more.

The more it disappears, the less it will be revealed in the end.

Dieyan said that she was making shredded potatoes in the afternoon, and she made a lot of shredded potatoes, and finally made this very skeptical.

Actually, I have a very strong understanding of Dieyan, because the two of us are also colleagues, in fact, to be honest, in the kind of environment of the night club, even if you don't want to flirt with some girls, you will be attracted to this kind of behavior.

And there are actually quite a few girls in that place, and I don't mean to say that it is those guests, but I mean that our colleagues, including Dieyan, and other women are indeed very numerous.

So we usually make fun of it, which is also one of the biggest pleasures of those single dogs.

So I talked to Dieyan about a lot of topics in my usual days, and when Dieyan told me about the previous things, I still felt an admiration from my heart, first of all, I didn't say whether this thing was right or wrong or until it was not.

I think the first thing that should be said is a woman's heart, and this new sex corresponds to this event, I think this little girl is quite powerful.

I remember that I have said many times before, Dieyan, this little girl is not a particularly strong woman, and being able to make such a decision is not only the persecution of others, but also the role of herself in fueling the trouble.

Of course, if there is no brother of her Yuan Zhi, it is difficult to imagine how she will spend her life here, this place is really not so easy to mix, and there are very few female characters who can get out of the mud in this place without being stained with clear ripples without demons.

It's not that there aren't, in fact, there are absolutely yes, but there are definitely very few, and there is no doubt about that.

Generally speaking, some of the people who come to work on this occasion are basically cornered, and of course, some of the things they say are by no means correct, that is, most of them will actually make up a more beautiful lie.

It makes some people sound sad and think that you are actually a noble being, but of course you are not like this.

Anyone who can put in it, basically can expect their own future ending, the ending I am talking about is not a tragic ending, I mean that it will be that in the end.

Actually, except for Butterfly Smoke, I'm just talking about those who are excluded from Butterfly Smoke.

What are some of the lies made up by those people, such as paying tuition fees for younger brothers, such as having a serious illness in the family, if this is the case, it is actually understandable.

But to be honest, I've seen a lot of them, but most of them are definitely not because of this, and the main reason is that when they don't have enough money to spend and can't meet their luxurious life, they can only do it this way.

In fact, this way is to be honest, if it is not for the sake of morality and law, there is nothing too much to make people feel that it is not good, there is no murder or robbery, but the behavior makes people feel a little unhappy.

As for the destruction of the family, this is not the main reason for them, they are just a lead, and it is the people themselves who really point them along.

That is to say, there are already signs of this, even if you don't look for these women, you will find other women, basically the same ending, but I didn't mean to wash them, I just said that they do have a certain responsibility, and this is the biggest responsibility definitely not on them.

Actually, I've done a lot of work in this place, and I know it very, very well.

I also finally understood one thing, whether a woman is a normal woman or a woman on this occasion, after having the first time, she will become more and more indifferent to the future.

What I said about not caring is not that normal women may cheat, what I said is not caring is that this kind of thing is highly respected and mysterious, but some women are to one of the men, that is, their husbands, and some women are to many people.

Because I've seen all kinds of things in the private room, if you say this kind of thing, you may not believe it, a group of people, this kind of thing doesn't need to be said.

In other words, if you can exchange money for something you don't care about, then it doesn't matter.

In other words, you don't care about your hair, and even say that you want to go bald, and if at this time someone says they want your hair, and they can give you a little money.

At this time, will you give it to him or not, you can get rid of what you don't want, and you can make a little money.

Therefore, this kind of behavior cannot be conquered by critical thinking, we can only say that it is a different way of behavior, but if I stand on a high place, it is indeed a bit abnormal for me to use a moral high ground to criticize others.

I don't like to do this kind of behavior, and it's a bit of a sense of righteous indignation when I first came into contact with this kind of thing.

But gradually when I started chatting with them, I understood that these people, they actually earn more and spend more, and when I was free, I thought that this sentence was made up by some people, but after really getting in touch with them.

I began to find out that it seems that what some people say is true, they spend no less than 4 figures a month, and of course I'm talking about some more high-end places, and some more high-end people.

They spend no less than four figures, well, I'll be accurate to say that they spend five figures, which I didn't have a sense of identity with when I first started.

Because it seems that they are still wrapping up, although the living environment may not be so good, but in my hometown can save a lot of money, this big money can really let them do whatever they want.

At the beginning, I really believed that some of their families might be short of money and some people were sick, so they had to work in this industry.

But after knowing it, I knew that I was still a little disappointed in my heart, and some of the words I said to the guests were basically the mood of winning the guests, and the tip would not be less after winning this mood.

I'm not sure if they all made money, but I was sure that there was one more thing than I did, and I remember three years ago, when it seemed like the currency was quite valuable.

But at that time, some people were able to tip me up to the level of 100, because we belong to everyone at the door of each room, so we can serve 1-to-1.

In the end, if you want to give it, if you don't want to give it, you can pull it down.,Those girls are estimated to give all of them.,Basically, they won't give us young people as waiters.。

But if you meet one or two people who play relatively high.,Rich.,Want to show your rich financial resources in front of the girl.,In other words, you want to take it away.。

This kind of pretending is actually essential, and at this time it can reflect the benefits of a better relationship with those girls, if the relationship is better, be a little coquettish, and then say: "Brother, this is my brother to take care of." ”

So this money came, as for how much it was, it was basically different, because they were younger and they played more openly, of course, it was not the one you imagined.

So the most I get is more than 500, even if I meet some people who are not particularly rich, I can get 100, in this case, it is basically the minimum 100, that is to say, the minimum is an old man's head, otherwise people may feel a little unclassy.

I may not have so much face in front of my sister, anyway, the most I get is 500, that's happy, I just can't do it.

Mainly because that person is richer, and my relationship with that girl was indeed much better that time.

In fact, the reason why I have the best relationship with my sister is that I can help them work hard, and I don't understand anything at that time, and I will do whatever you ask me to do.

If the girl shouts inside, who is who, will you help me move a case of wine? Normal people will basically do it, but some people may feel uncomfortable, anyway, there will be that kind of verbal conflict on the surface and private contests.

Of course, to be honest, it is not as dark as some articles say, in fact, most of the articles exaggerate the meaning of the ingredients, and some novels also exaggerate the very large components of them.

In the past, there may have been a lot of fights and brawls, but now it's basically civilized, and to be honest, fights are not very popular, so I don't think there's really much need for a process.

Because this kind of thing is harmful to others and not to yourself, if there are people behind everyone, I will go directly to the legal process, you better pay me money, and there is no great need for you to receive stewed oranges.

Generally, the current practice is to come in the dark, and even if some people say that they don't have a backstage, there is no big problem in opening some small fields.

Continuing with the previous question, that is, most of the girls and I feel better, and they will take care of us when the relationship is better, which is still more touching in this aspect.

In fact, each class has its own good and bad, and it is not possible to deny all of them, of course, at the beginning, it was still full of righteous indignation.

I was able to get a lot of tips every time, but basically it was only one or two groups of customers a night, because that kind of place is very different from the mass marketer in that it is not that expensive.

To be honest, he is basically the same as the mass merchandiser fee, and even cheaper, which may allow them to come directly to play all night.

If you play all night, you will drink more alcohol and eat more, so this cost will be recovered, and you can still make a lot of money.

So we basically serve once or twice, and the basic salary is not particularly low, and that job is actually relatively easy.

It's just that it's really easy to pollute people's minds on that kind of occasion, and even I think of some weird ideas in that kind of place, and of course some more evil ideas.

But there's a very clear rule in that place, that is, waiters aren't allowed to have anything to do with that, so you can understand the problem yourself.

If it happens, it's basically a penalty, if you're willing to work here, then you don't want to work here, and the salary for this month is gone, and there are different methods in different places, anyway, that place basically follows one such method.

Of course, this kind of thing is not a big deal if it is not discovered.

Most people have such an idea, and these people include me, don't say that I don't have any idea at all, I believe that no one will believe it when I say this.

I definitely have a certain idea, a man is not a man if he doesn't have such an idea when he meets that kind of bewitching crowd on that occasion.

I still want to say that sentence, yin people don't care about things, and there are no saints in their hearts since ancient times.

I even think I'd like a few to come together, I'm sure most men understand.

It's just that I didn't do it, the main aspect is that I don't dare, there is a big problem in the mentality, one of the reasons for love is that I am too young, and they really treat me as a little brother.

In the past, I may not have seen any difference between me and them, but every time I look at my phone or look in the mirror, I feel that I am not much different from them.

But now, when I look at my previous photos, I just feel that I was relatively immature at that time, and that's very, very certain.

Even if I had that understanding or need, I guess they would have laughed at me after hearing it, so I'm glad I didn't say it at the time.

Let's talk about why there is no way to be alone in that place, and it is too difficult and difficult to be alone in that place, just say a word, what kind of thinking are the men who go to that place.

It is even said that a lot of business activities are negotiated there, and a woman knows a lot of customers, and if one day a customer says, I may bring someone tomorrow, and if you help me get it, I will give you as much as I want.

This amount of money is likely to be a very large amount of money, a month's salary or even a month's salary.

Wouldn't it be tempting?

I'm sure I'll be tempted, of course, my body can't do that, so it's hard to be alone, and when I don't have money, I still believe in that sentence, money can really buy most things.

If one day you don't think you can buy something that money can buy, it's often because you don't have enough chips, not that money can't buy it.

Most people feel that this sentence is actually not suitable for educating people, and most people also feel that this sentence may not be a positive word and should not be spread.

In fact, I think this sentence is a neutral sentence, and I think this kind of statement is quite suitable for educating a person.

And the kind of people who have already come in have expected this situation, which is what we commonly call half-pushing, has basically accepted it.

So this business model may circulate, of course, not all business talks are here, but I have seen talks here, and I have seen quite good talks.

But I think honestly, since they were able to be brought to this place. In fact, I already have a general positioning, that is, I can accept this family, and I am willing to cooperate with this company.

The last thing is just a little sweetheart, after all, I am a snake who knows all kinds of situations, and it is actually a good thing that I can make myself comfortable.

If you haven't experienced these things when you first go in, most people will still push it half-way, and finally have a result like this, but after getting the money, they feel pretty good.

But I absolutely don't mean to slander women, I'm just talking about one such issue.

I even said that I have seen some summer students, as for why summer students, because they are high school or college, they come here for three months.

Of course, these female characters are not admired by the original female characters, in other words, they are very annoying to these people.

Because of these people, their level of innocence, at least the level of innocence that it seems, is very attractive, in other words, it has a selling point.

Well, this sentence seems to be a bit discriminatory, so in other words, it has attracted the attention of some people, and it is a good person.

Excluding the intermediate expenses, the amount of money they can earn in a summer vacation is actually beyond the imagination of us ordinary students, but it is only a better place on some occasions.

But because they are temporary, the cost of this middle is also quite high, and why I understand it so clearly, because I am very familiar with these young ladies, and they will tell me some things.

Anyway, I'm not their competitor, and basically anything can be said to me.

If I were to name one place, you would get nosebleeds with excitement, and that was their lounge, which I often entered, not to rest, but to be called.

The place also had another task, another task being the dressing room, and they didn't feel too uncomfortable when a male character occasionally went in.

It's still relatively xiangyan for me, especially when I haven't seen much of the world, to be precise, when I was still an innocent little boy.

Every time I go into that place, I can feel a fiery breath.

Of course, some people are really not particularly good-looking, because they seem to be really thirty-four years old, plus they have been drinking for a long time, anyway, every time I am at the door, I can always see them drinking and vomiting.

Well, in other words, it is actually a youth meal, and this kind of youth rice is relatively cruel, because they use the function of the stomach and liver in exchange for their wealth. And this wealth was also spent by them,

As for what messy feeding of blood liver dysfunction is really a common thing, in some cases it is also felt more pitiful, but poor people must have something to hate.

Most people are not because of lack of money, but because they don't have enough money to spend, and the more popular saying is that their own strength cannot support their ambitions.