After talking about the salary problem, I think we should talk about the problem of character.,In fact, I think it's a thing to find a partner.,Whether it's a man's finding a partner or a woman's finding a partner, it's necessary to meet a better standard.,

In fact, we have a precedent for this better standard, and the order of this precedence must be clear.

Of course, people's understanding of this word is actually different, my understanding of this word is that people should be good, and some people's understanding of this word is the problem of this temperament.

There shouldn't be a big difference, the difference is that maybe the problem of the three views is still a little bigger, but I think it should include this temper and character.

So you can understand it no matter what, both of these understandings are relatively correct, and I think that relative to that kind of economy, this must have a very profound or own set of standards.

This standard is still more important, because if there is a problem with the three views, then in fact, no matter how much money you have, you can't get by, of course, if you can give you a lot of money, you can tolerate it and don't mind, then it may not be within the scope of this condition.

I'm talking about some normal kind of object finding problems.

Then I don't need to say more about Brother Yuanzhi's temperament, or I don't need to say more about Brother Yuanzhi's three views, the three views are really very, very dirty, if I am asked to find a person in real life who is out of the mud and not stained with clear ripples and not demons, then my first choice will be Brother Yuanzhi.

In that place for so many years, to do a little deviant thing, it is simply an innocent man, not only are there a lot of women in our work, but there are also quite a lot of beautiful women who go to play with us during the New Year.

Our Brother Yuan Zhi doesn't feel it at all, this really makes me feel very, very proud, this is my special doubt that Brother Yuan Zhi really has a girlfriend, otherwise why wouldn't he be tempted at all?

Now I suspect for a while that there may be some problems with my Brother Yuanzhi, and for a while I also feel as if I am indeed a rotten girl, and only a rotten girl can think about such a rotten problem.

In fact, after the test, I really wasn't a rotten girl, and I didn't know if the result was right anyway, but I searched for a test on the Internet, and after the test, I found that I didn't have the conditions for this rotten girl.

In fact, when it comes to testing this question, I also want to say a funny thing.

I remember a while when I read a test on the Internet, which is to test how much stress the person has, including what messy mental pressure and what professional pressure, to see if you are in line with the average of contemporary people.

At that time, I was still a little interested in seeing this thing, so I tested it a little and found that my pressure was beyond the standard.

Then at this time, an advertisement popped up, saying that I should go to a stress reduction class, so that I could be less stressed.

I laughed out loud at the time, it turned out to be an advertisement, this is what attracted me in, I have to say that it is still a better routine.

But to be honest, I went back and looked at this test again, because they seemed a bit silly, and I don't know if the people who studied this test question were in their heads.

Anyway, even if you choose the best of all the questions, you still need one point to pass the average score, which means that no matter what you do, you need to decompress.

Or those who study these test questions think that they will not look at this thing carefully, but once they have researched it, they will know that this is a very classic routine, or a very stupid routine, and I doubt that those who do not have enough IQ really have that much pressure.

In fact, this is also a more fun thing, to be honest, most of the test questions are not accurate, unless there are really some relevant research institutions, most of the Internet are made by themselves, and the good things are used to lead people in a certain direction.

After the introduction, people feel more happy, and in a way they have succeeded, so most of the test questions do not have much scientific basis.

It's my rotten girl test, and I don't believe it in my heart, and I think it's likely that I'm cheating.

Speaking of this kind of quiz, I think of a scene from a classic TV series.

That's the martial arts biography that our young people like to see, and I remembered the test question that tested Li Dazui again, of course, this test question is actually much more complicated than those test questions on the Internet, and I feel that they still have a little bit of care.

But then I searched and found that this is indeed some American test questions, unlike the ones we read on the Internet, which is very simple and just a simple option and then gets a score.

I think the real thoughts of those test questions are too suspicious, but the answer to the question makes people feel more fun, at that time I felt more fun, I guessed it when I was watching the TV series, of course, none of them guessed correctly, I still feel that I am not very good.

But after the later episodes, I found that I didn't guess correctly as a normal thing for a day, and now I look back on this thing with a feeling of extreme fear.

Because these questions on the Internet are indeed answered by some more perverted people, as if according to other experts, this kind of thing is indeed not something that a normal person can answer.

When I said the quiz, I actually thought of this place immediately.

Continuing to talk about the next question, first of all, I think that Brother Yuan Zhi's money, that is, salary, has passed, and then the problem of three views has passed again. If you can find someone with the same temperament, you will definitely stay together for a lifetime and be very loyal.

At least on the surface, I think Brother Yuan Zhi should have such a behavior, of course, but I just think that on the surface, things may not be so simple.

But I've always thought that Gen Zhi is definitely a good man.

As I just said, the first thing to look at when looking for a partner is to look at the three views, then the second is to look at the money, and the third one I think is also very important, that is, to see whether the opposite family is reasonable.

I don't say whether it is reasonable for women to look at each other's families alone, I also think that men need to look at women's families as well.

Otherwise, it is likely to have some other results, which will be very headaches, and may even cause people to get bored, and finally at that time, even if they don't want to cheat, it may not be enough.

As for what this reasonableness is, I think that as an older generation, you have to tolerate certain things, and if a man or a woman listens to their parents' opinions when deciding on some things, it is basically a mom boy or a mom girl, which is generally not advisable.

Neither the control of parents nor mothers over their children, or the fact that they themselves have no way to decide certain things, are not particularly comfortable.

That's what I mean by reasonableness.

In fact, even in our hometown, it is not uncommon for them to stop going to school after graduating from high school, and many of them are already married, and there are many divorces after marriage.

A large part of the reason for divorce is because the relationship with the parents and mothers is not particularly good, and this relationship is not particularly good, and there may be some favoritism or control.

In fact, I think the most difficult relationship to deal with is the relationship between the concubines, not that the relationship between these two women is not easy to handle, but it is indeed not easy to deal with, but I think it is the problem of this mother-in-law.

Whether or not they can have a bowl of water is actually very important between the two concubines, and the main reason for their conflict comes from the attitude of this father or mother.

In other words, the family relationship must be reasonable, not only the woman's family to the other party's family, but also the man's family to the woman's family.

I don't know certain things in my spare time, but after I have that kind of question and answer software, I found that the contradiction between men and women is still quite big.

Most of this contradiction comes from marriage, in fact, love is a very beautiful thing in life, at this time there is no big contradiction between men and women, and many contradictions are concentrated in some economic relations after their union, and some emotional relationships.

As for why I have this idea, it's because some people ask questions or answer questions on that kind of Q&A software.

Some of the questions raised were still relatively sharp, and the questions answered were also some relatively sharp, and there were many examples of how I could see the essence of this kind of thing.

They must have some subjective attitudes and thoughts when talking about these things, and when we look at these things, we can throw this thing out of the way, and we can see what the real contradiction is in this matter.

As for why I just said that men should see whether the woman's family is reasonable. It's because there are some women who are really Voldemort, and some families are not sisters who are Voldemort, but the whole family is like this.

Now in fact, marriage is indeed a matter of two families, I have also expressed my attitude in the past, young people get married, I think it must be a matter of two people to be happy and long-lasting, if it extends to the problem of two families, I need to deal with too many problems.

People's mental strength is indeed limited, and putting too many things on this aspect does make people feel a headache.

Therefore, I think that if you want to get married happily in the future, in addition to finding someone you like, in addition to finding someone who likes you, you should also pay attention to the fact that you should never marry the other person's family.

It's really a very tiring, very tiring thing, and some people say that men and women just have to take on the responsibilities of the family in the future.

I don't think there's anything too wrong with this sentence, but this family is their own family in the future, and it can't be involved in other messy things.

Messy things include the things of their own parents and the other party's parents, some trivial things can make a family separate and disintegrate, as for some other aspects, it must be helped, not to say that it is completely left alone.

It's just that you can't get involved with each other in this matter, and if you are too involved with each other, the relationship will be very complicated, and it will cause chaos.

It will take a lot of effort for people to solve this matter, so I think this matter is absolutely undesirable.

So the third thing I think depends on whether the other party's family factors are too complicated, if it is too complicated, you still have to think about it, if you feel that you can take on these tasks, then there may not be much necessity.

But there is one thing that I think we must think clearly, that is, we must never overestimate our ability to bear it, and we must never overestimate the amount of energy we have.

In fact, I still remember a sentence in the TV series that Qi Yang told me, that seems to be an anti-Japanese war drama that Qi Yang loves to watch, every time I have a TV series, this TV series means to watch the TV series I used to watch.

Basically, Qiyang doesn't watch new TV series, and I don't know why there is such a problem, but it's really such a situation, so basically when I watch TV series, I'm watching some old TV series.

So Qi Yang told me something that he was interested in, such as some classic lines he saw from that TV series.

For example, there is a line that seems to look like this: A person's mental strength is limited, and it takes ten years to catch up with the war for a year, and I don't forget whether it is ten years or three years, anyway, that's what it means.

In fact, I also particularly agree with this sentence, although I have never been at war, which means that when facing certain things, such as family relationships, some complicated family relationships.

So I think this kind of thing still needs to make people feel more relaxed and happy, after all, it is human nature to play, and it is also human nature to like stability and relaxation.

That's why I think this thing is something that many people are willing to pursue, so since it is something that many people are willing to pursue, it is better to consider this aspect. Considering this aspect does not mean that we cannot endure hardship.

I think it's still human nature, of course, human nature can be divided into many aspects.

After talking about this question, I will talk about the family composition of our Brother Yuan Zhi, not about party members or league members, but about the family composition of his family.

Anyway, I think the complexity of my second uncle's family is even very low, and my second uncle is really a very reasonable person, in fact, it can be seen from Brother Yuan Zhi.

In this aspect of education, I don't think it's simple and crude at all, in fact, both before and now, I have always felt that my parents were too simple and rude.

This kind of simplicity and rudeness makes me feel a little suffocated, of course, the feeling I am talking about is still like this, and other aspects have a certain understanding or certain identification with my parents, so I still have some abnormalities in this aspect of education.

It's been like this until now.

But Brother Yuan Zhi is different, Brother Yuan Zhi can feel it now, there is a kind of open inclusiveness, this open inclusiveness makes me particularly envious, I always feel that Brother Yuan Zhi seems to have a lot of things to deal with by himself.

Now this kind of compulsive suppression actually makes my whole person feel unsmooth, so I just follow the rules in the handling of some things.

It can be a good or a bad, but how can we be sure of it ourselves.

I think my second uncle and second aunt are very reasonable people, and the economic conditions there are relatively good, and Brother Yuan Zhi himself can earn so much money.

I once asked the question of principle, that is, if I get married in the future, will I live with my second uncle and second aunt?

And Brother Yuan Zhi's statement is resolutely no, even if it is two houses in one building, it is resolutely not, because his father's life needs a lot of hidden space, and this kind of hidden thing of course needs to be separated by some walls.

Of course, it's not that I don't honor my parents, I think Brother Yuan's filial piety is still very good, because he often takes leave to go back when he works.

Every time I go back, I am a little scared to live in such a big house, and this frequency is actually relatively high, and I go back for 10 days during the New Year.

Although I don't know how to ask for this leave, but it is indeed this frequency, and there are some usual holidays, which may be due to the fact that my brother will arrange a lot of things, and I can go back by myself when the time comes.

I think it's probably more convenient to go back now, because most of the decisions are made by himself, and to be precise, he has now risen to the point of being a boss himself.

Of course, I don't think this kind of thing can last long, but even if you can't make so much money for a long time, I think you should stick to it for a while.

This kind of thing is also everyone's opinion, and it doesn't necessarily mean that my opinion is very correct.

But I think it's better to persevere.

Speaking of the problem of this family, this problem must be properly solved, it has been able to achieve such a good three views, coupled with the economic conditions are not lacking, there will definitely be very few contradictions.

In fact, I think that there must be contradictions, because two people living together must have some other aspects involved, but once these problems are put aside, these aspects are likely to be a little less.

If there are fewer aspects involved, this contradiction can be less conflicted, and the strength of the contradiction is also lower, some people think that I am not talking as much as a married person, is it not empty words.

As I said just now, I have seen many, many examples on a Q&A software, and I used that classic sentence, have you never eaten pork and never seen a pig run?

There are a lot of examples of these above, for example, some cases of failed marriages, there are man's mistakes and there are women's mistakes.

But I've found that cheating isn't even the most important reason for divorce, or that they don't like to talk about it.

But in that respect, I'm talking about examples of the answers to those questions, and most of the reasons for divorce seem to involve the problem of personality conflicts and family conflicts.

The problem of breakup is also the reason, many things are about to break up when they get married, the main reason is not the reason of two people, most of the reasons are the reasons of two families.

For example, this classic bride price question, this question is really a very, very classic question, and it is simply an eternal topic.

A lot of things are because of this trouble, they are all about to get married, and both parties like it more, and there is a problem set up here, which is an unattainable situation.

In fact, I think this should be divided into two aspects, one of which is because I really want so much money, and the other is to set up an obstacle, I think this obstacle should also be divided into two aspects, one is to see if the man's mood or courage, whether there is any heart in this regard.

On the other hand, I simply don't look down on this man, and the one I'm talking about is not a woman, but a woman's parents don't look down on it.

Basically, the high bride price is divided into these aspects, but I think the test of this thing can be done appropriately, in fact, the test of this thing I think is a big comparison with some tests of human nature.

I used to see some videos on the Internet that tested human nature, but in fact, I hated this way the most, because I thought that human nature could not be tested in the first place.

It's not so much about testing this thing, it's better to make a little more money, people have bad roots, and when testing this thing, they put people into a high-risk or high-temptation environment.

Whoever can withstand this kind of test, I don't think even a saint is possible, let alone testing an ordinary person, I don't think there is much point at all.

There is a funny video on the Internet, which is a test of which child parents love more deeply, and that is actually a funny thing, not a simple domestic verification video.

The funny video looks like this, in a foreign family with three children, and then a gang of gangsters enters the family and takes everyone under control.

At this time, one of the gangsters said to his parents: "You now have two choices, the first choice is to choose a child to let him die, and the second choice is why not choose me to kill all your children." ”

So the parents cried bitterly and chose a child, and after the choice, the gangster took off his mask and said to the chosen child with a smile: "See, your parents don't love you the most." ”

In addition to the funny ingredients, we can actually think about something else, neurotic! How to test this kind of thing? How is the result argued?

If it were me, I'd have to choose a child, I mean, if that happens, even if that happens, the chosen child will be very disappointed or very lonely.

But I think it's a thing that can't be helped, either one will die, or all of them will die.

To test it in such an extreme situation is simply inhuman, and to test human nature with a thing that has no humanity is to test it.

Why? According to some theorems of high school that we have learned, we can know that negative positive gets negative, and some people say that this is not negative negative and negative is positive?

At this time, I have to quote a sketch, this sketch is a sketch of the Spring Festival Gala, and the sketch of that night has such a sentence, and if you use a lie to verify a lie, what you get is definitely a lie.

At that time, I felt that there was something wrong with this sentence, and I felt that there was something wrong with this sentence, and after thinking about it for a while, I remembered that it was a true truth to verify the lie with its practical lies.

Why? It's because the negative is positive!

Then if I want to say that the negative is positive, then it can only be said like this, using a method without humanity to verify something without humanity, then this is a positive solution, and it is a verification of human nature.

And what he just did was to use a non-human method to verify a human thing, then the thing he got must be inhuman.

As mentioned earlier, there are not only some high-risk occasions, but also some high-temptation occasions, and we have to talk about some more disgusting things in China.

This disgusting thing is that he wants to test his girlfriend alone, so he arranged for someone to meet his girlfriend, and vaguely offered to give 30,000 yuan if he had a night with him.

As a result, the woman agreed, so the man was very angry, but the woman immediately proposed to break up, I just want to say two words about this kind of thing, I deserve it.

I don't think it's particularly surprising that this money can do that thing, because some people may do it because of less money, and if you criticize others because of this matter, then it doesn't make much sense to stand on a moral high ground.

Another point is this real situation, in fact, to be honest, it seems to be true if I look at this acting skills, if it is fake, I can only admire the acting skills of these men and women, and I can really go to the entertainment industry.

The main reason why I can judge this is that if a person is under the camera, he knows where the camera is. Being able to control myself from looking at this camera is very, very powerful.

Even though many actors sometimes deliberately look at this camera, so it will cause us to feel particularly awkward and embarrassed in some situations, but there are really no such videos.

So I'm a little skeptical about the authenticity of this video, not that it's not particularly well-made, but it's really good, and it's as if it's real.

But I can't say much about this, in fact, the ultimate goal is not to test the human form.

But the feelings of those parents are actually honest, and I still understand them very well, that is, I want to see if the man has the strength and whether he has the strength to give his daughter a good life.

To be honest, everyone wants to be able to live a carefree life, so I think this is completely understandable, and the appropriate test is also certain, but the only thing that doesn't work is that you don't test it too much.

If you say that you want 100,000 or 200,000 when you open your mouth, it's not people's fault that you scared people away, because this kind of thing doesn't seem to mean that if you say it in advance.

I remember that there is a saying that although it is not the bride price money, although it is said to be 100,000 or 200,000, he will not ask for a penny of these money, he will put it on the little couple, and then he will paste a little money to the woman so that they can live a better life.

This kind of statement seems to be quite common, but to be honest, if you don't talk about it in advance, it will scare away a lot of men.

I feel that this thing should be quite normal, because if one mouth costs 200,000 and other messy things, if it were me, I would be afraid, let alone others.

Therefore, this test does have a certain purpose or certain benefits, but this thing is really too powerful.

Maybe boys like girls a lot and can have the confidence to give girls a very good life, but it's really a bit inappropriate to scare people away because of such a situation.

In the end, it's for my daughter's life.,Actually, I know that there are a lot of girls who actually listen to their parents.,As far as I know, some female friends are really like this.,I didn't say all of them, I just said yes.。

Maybe their parents say how much they want, then they follow how much they want, and when they don't have much autonomy, it's easy to have some conflicts with boys.

Don't think that 100,000 or 200,000 is easy to earn, this is really a special case for me, and my Yuan Zhige's way of earning money will take a few years, and I have to go without eating or drinking.

Even if it is a test, it is easy to scare the courage of some boys, and now boys are very independent and independent, some boys especially do not want to spend their parents' money when they get married, whether it is the situation of this bride price or the situation of this banquet, I want to use my own financial resources to complete this matter.

But in fact, there are too few people who can meet such a standard, and first of all, I think that some women's parents are not too much.

I've heard too many women's parents ask for it, they don't ask for a lot of money, we don't want a bride price, we don't want any mess of three gold clothes and anything, but your family has to pay a down payment.

In the city where there are roots, the remaining installment payments let the young couple pay back slowly, we as parents can help or not, forget it, don't say anything to marry, don't say anything to marry, the two of them are married, that is, married and lived.

I think such a woman's parents have reached a top point, which is really quite reasonable, but I believe that there are many families who can't do this small request.

To be precise, many boys can't do it, not that these boys are incapable, but that most of them in China even say that more than 90% of them can't afford to pay a down payment on a house a few years after graduation.

Even in second- and third-tier cities, it's unlikely, I'm talking about 90% of boys, and if you're the 10% of boys, you don't need to say more, because you're very good, you're not in the industry, and you don't need to get involved in it at all.

However, it is true that about 90% of boys have no way to pass their own ability, and they still need to rely on their families in the end, so it is actually quite difficult to get married now.

Because neither side seems to have done anything too wrong, but the huge pressure is on them.

In fact, some women's parents want a bride price, I think it's also human, because some rural families do have younger brothers, and most of them are not particularly wealthy, if they don't have money, their younger brothers don't seem to have the money to get married.

Although this statement does have a bit of a ruining feeling, it seems that there are really families who have to do this, but there are also many reasons for doing this for a very disgusting reason, that is, simply preferring sons over daughters, that is, simply wanting to make their other child live a better life.

Actually, this is indeed a bit disgusting, and I feel a little disgusting, so needless to say, it must be quite quite disgusting.

At this point, I think that if it is applied to Brother Yuanzhi, this is already a very interesting situation, and my Brother Yuanzhi will definitely be able to find a very good, very good one when looking for a daughter-in-law.

Look at my Brother Yuanzhi who meets the standards of a perfect boyfriend in any condition, and can cook and be proficient in using the oven, and can use the oven proficiently, which means that he can actually cook some Western food that girls like to eat.

This point still attracts the attention of most girls.

Continuing to make my shredded potatoes for the second time was good, but I was still a little dissatisfied, so I started the third time, and the third time I cut the shredded potatoes I tried to cut this shredded potatoes very well, and tried to cut the shredded potatoes very evenly.

Last time I just searched for the general situation of making shredded potatoes, and I didn't think through some of the details, so I decided to figure this thing out before I moved on.

I decided to buy a book on cooking recipes in the future, so that I could cook some good meals for them to eat, and of course they were my harem!

Well, I've read a little too many novels, and sometimes reading that kind of novel is really easy to make me feel a little nervous.

But I have an embarrassing feeling when I buy recipes, why do you have a feeling that you don't believe it, I always feel that secret recipes are difficult to express in writing, how difficult to express in writing, but I think that since it is a secret recipe, people will definitely not spread it, how do you say that, cutting off people's wealth is like killing parents.

And when I read the story of the cooking class, I remembered the classic 12 words, a little bit, oil temperature and salt, if that recipe really wrote like this, I think I would have collapsed.

However, I believe that most of the recipes have now tended to be digital, because only by tending to a digital can more new talents be cultivated.

In fact, some of the skills in China, I vaguely feel that I am pretending to be forced, or I am afraid that I have taught the apprentice to starve to death of the master.

The most accurate reason is that they may use the word feeling when teaching some apprentices, but it feels that these two words are still easier to use when they are suitable for some more intelligent apprentices, but they may not be able to teach some stupid apprentices in a lifetime, and if they can't teach it in this life, then the apprentice can be used as a cheap labor.

So I have an idea that seems a little evil or a little incorrect, and in a way I don't think it's too much of a problem.

For some actions, that means that for some actions, not all such actions.

Another point is that he thinks that the apprentice is smarter, and he deliberately creates problems for him, so that he does not learn his skills so well, and he is afraid that he will rob his own business.

So as far as this kind of thing is concerned, I think most of the Chinese skills are a bit of a pretending feeling, and this kind of pretending experience actually lies here.

It's just to make something fluttering, as if this thing is very profound, but if it is transformed into a kind of digital teaching now, that is to say, how many grams or how many grams to put in this, there is a specific amount, I think no matter what industry it is, if there is a very standard amount, it will be very fast to learn at the beginning, so that most people I don't think they are particularly stupid.

When I put this feeling in the later stage, I feel that it varies from person to person, and I think that feeling may be a little higher on the line, and if there is pure digital teaching, it may be able to improve a little faster.

Each has its own benefits and has its own details, so I like the kind of quantitative recipes, which feel very convenient to make, not only how much salt and oil to put in, but also how much time in between, such as how long to put this thing, how long to put it in after cooking.

These things are also some of the more quantitative things, so I think it's a very good behavior, at least for a very, very stupid person like me, who can learn to cook very quickly.

The third time I fried the shredded potatoes, I thought I had fried them very well, but the not-so-good thing was that the time to cut the shredded potatoes was too long, and this needs to be improved.

I am in a very good mood today, and I am not discouraged at all.