Chapter 973: Don't Have Children

I don't feel hungry at all after eating these things, and it seems that not much of anything is a special pressure on hunger.

But the aggro value attracted seems to be a bit big, and when I actually talk about attracting aggro, I think of those bear children again.

In fact, to be honest, we were a bear child in the past, but we didn't seem to have that much patience when facing these bear children, or was we not so skinny before?

Anyway, I remembered a video of a kid pressing all the floors in the elevator.

A young girl couldn't stand it anymore, so she said to the grandmother with the child: "Why do you want him to do this, how can people take the elevator if you let him do this?" ”

The child's grandmother looked at the young girl strangely and said, "What do we have to do with you, and there are quite a lot of things to do?" ”

It may be that this young girl knew that such a situation would happen, so she took out her mobile phone very early and started shooting.

Then the little girl said, "If you let him do it again, then I'm going to do it." ”

The old woman smiled disdainfully: "Whatever, I want to see if you can beat us two?" ”

But the young girl made the next move that made me feel very happy! I guess everyone who watches the video will be able to feel very refreshing!

The little girl took out a piece of ice cream in the winter, and although I don't know why she bought it in her bag in the winter, she took out a piece of ice cream and started eating it in front of the little boy.

While eating, he said, "Oops, oops, it's delicious, it's delicious." ”

So the little boy started asking his grandmother for it, but the young girl definitely wouldn't give it, and the end result was that your little boy ended up crying.

I'm not sure if this video is real, but one thing I know for sure is that I feel very comfortable inside, and I don't know why it's more comfortable than I imagined.

Although the old grandmother has been comforting the little boy, the little boy in Anhui said that it is not delicious if we don't eat or eat, but it is obvious that the child does not know, or that the little boy is used to being pampered, and he wants to eat this thing.

To be honest, I feel like this video should be real, and I'm a little bit like this old grandmother looking at this young girl's expression.

Speaking of this expression, it was when this young girl first started talking about this old grandmother, and that expression was one that I had seen a lot, so I thought it was a real thing.

If it's really acting, then I can only say that the acting is really good.

There is another point that is the little boy, the little boy really cried, and that behavior is also very consistent with the behavior of a bear child, or that sentence, if this little boy is also acting, then I can only say that this little boy's acting skills are really good.

I feel it from these two points, I think this should be a real thing, the current bear children can't say a lot, that's a bit too much.

I don't think I did that when I was a kid, and my living conditions were relatively better.

In fact, not only this one video, but also many other videos are illustrating a problem in this regard. Or it makes those of us who are watching feel very cool.

I remember another video that was an exaggeration not to be kidnapped by outside morality.

But I won't say more about other clips, I'll just talk about this clip about this bear child, this bear child is rowing someone else's car.

And his mother was next to him, but this mother didn't care about the phone call next to him, could it be that this man hurriedly ran over after seeing it.

The little boy was still grimacing at the man behind his mother's back.

The man said to the woman, "Did you see that your child had rowed my car?" ”

The woman put the phone aside and looked at the car, then at the person: "Oh, what do you care about as an adult and a child, do you have any quality?" ”

The man shook his head: "I'm sorry, I really haven't." ”

Then he kicked the kid away and formed a star in the sky.

When the mother saw it, she immediately became irritable: "How dare you kick my baby son!" ”

So the man bent down and said, "I'm sorry I forgot about you." ”

In the end, he kicked the woman into the sky and turned into a small star in the sky.

Of course, it is impossible to do it in real life, but to be honest in life, there are not so many unreasonable parents, and most parents are still more reasonable.

In fact, this is a very exaggerated technique, it seems to be an online drama, but I just watched this video clip on the Internet, and I think I really don't know it very well.

But to be honest, the feeling of being cool is extraordinary, and I especially feel that this cool is not to be wanted.

It is also impossible to kick a child directly into the sky in real life, and it is impossible to kick a parent directly into the sky in real life.

There are many other episodes of this that resemble moral kidnapping, but I feel that this fragment is more memorable, because I saw some crying children on the bus and felt very uncomfortable for some reason.

It feels like a cotton ball is stuffed into the ear, if it is a two or three-year-old child who is still in swaddling clothes, then I will endure it, and the child may not understand much at this time, to be precise, he does not understand anything.

I can understand the crying.

But when a six- or seven-year-old child cries in the car, I feel very uncomfortable, and sometimes the parent will quarrel with the child, and to be honest, I feel that the whole car must be very uncomfortable.

It's just that no one blames them at all.

Originally, I had a lot of expectations for children, but since this incident, I have felt that children's things should not be good, especially children who will reduce their quality of life, or honestly squat at home.

How nice it is to live quietly in a two-person world.

But I didn't tell my mom and dad about this idea, if you told my mom and dad about this idea, my mom and dad would be furious!

If you think about it, you know, how can the older generation tolerate me not having children, in fact, I think that whether there are children or not is like that.

The most important thing is whether there is money, if there is money, there is no need for children to support the elderly, for example, a very loud slogan before, it is good to have only one child, and Zhengfu will support the elderly in the future, and I am embarrassed to say a political slogan.

Don't say much about this, in fact, to be honest, I feel that the problem of pension, I can completely use money to solve this matter, although I don't feel too humane when I say this, but I do feel that entering a nursing home is a more comfortable thing.

In fact, many people have different opinions on this matter, for example, some people advertise on the Internet that there will actually be a chain of contempt in nursing homes.

What exactly does this chain of contempt mean? It's that those who have children despise those who don't have children, and the caregivers also look down on those old people who don't have children, so as long as they don't die, it basically doesn't matter.

That's why those people said that it's better to have a child, at least the caregiver won't dare to bully you.

But to be honest, if I want to establish something in a matter, in fact, there is really no need to find some comfort from others, those people are estimated to have children, and it is impossible for him to say that there is a problem with his life choice, otherwise it will be a slap in the face.

So don't go anywhere else for comfort in this kind of thing.

Of course, I'm not saying that having a child is bad, but I just think it's not a particularly good thing for me now, because having a child now will greatly reduce my quality of life.

At least that's what I think now, and there's no good way to regret it in the future, if this woman really plans not to have children, it's better to make a decision as soon as possible, because a woman's childbearing period is actually like that, and some technologies can't make up for it.

For example, there may be a situation where you and your husband do not want children at the same time, but one day your husband suddenly wants to have children, and you are not the best age to have children, then there are likely to be some family conflicts at this time, such as your husband cheating.

So this kind of thing still has to be solved as soon as possible, most people are ordinary people, that is, most people still have to live an ordinary life, if they really don't have money, it's better to have a child, and then they can't make a certain plan for their future.

I don't mean that I want my child to pay for his old age, or whatever, this child can have a certain involvement, and he has a deeper relationship with his family.

It's actually a very mysterious thing, but I don't know how to describe it, but I don't think there's anything too wrong about it.

That is to say, if you really plan not to have children in the future, you should decide this kind of thing as soon as possible, and if you don't decide as soon as possible, you may regret it in the end.

That is to say, if you and your husband decide to dink, try to make this matter clear, and don't be afraid that a topic may cause some contradictions.

Anyway, I think this way, I don't know if I'm right or not, but in my case, I think I'm quite right.

In the future, I definitely don't want to have children, you mean I don't want to, but it doesn't mean that I won't have children, this matter must be considered in many ways.

Anyway, as far as China is concerned, marriage is a matter of two families, but I always think that marriage is originally a matter of two people, and I will resolutely not involve them in the future!

Although I can't keep my relationship with them financially, I think it's easier to keep some trivial things off with them.

I don't want them to interfere in my affairs, it is my freedom, and I don't need to say more about Qiyang, so even his old man has no way to interfere with Yang's affairs, but to some extent, if the old man who talks about Yang really wants to interfere with Yang, he may only be able to use some stronger means, which are like some economic means.

Now that Qiyang can't afford to buy a house, I think Qi Yang can completely get rid of them.

I don't know why I have a lot of self-confidence in Qiyang, and I don't know where the source of my self-confidence comes from, but I am really very confident, and I am confident that I can make a big career after I take Yang.

I don't know what the standard of this big cause is, whether it's millions, tens of millions, or hundreds of millions, but I always feel that Qiyang can really do something earth-shattering.

This feeling came to my mind, and this kind of thing in my mind is like a woman's sixth sense, and I identify with my sixth sense very much, and I feel very accurate about my sixth sense.

In fact, the issue of having a child is a question of life choices.

I used to have a famous book, and the name means that it was written by some celebrities, and to be honest, it seems that many people have not read it, and they don't know much about it.

This famous book tells the story of a woman who did not want to be dependent on a man's economy, so she decided not to marry.

But what was that era, this era was a 30-year period, and in the thirties, basically everyone had to follow the local laws, and the local laws should be said to mean the local customs.

That is to say, almost no woman can resist the success of this situation,

But this woman really resisted successfully, and I don't know if it's true or not, anyway, that's how the famous book was written.

I forgot the process of rebellion, I want to see that kind of thing that can make me fall asleep, to be honest I really forgot how to resist, but it did succeed.

Her father and mother cut off relations with her, and the people in the village also poked her backbone, to be honest, with the current gaze, this woman has not done anything wrong.

She didn't do anything hurtful, but there was one thing that she didn't have a unified standard with them in front of the master, and I felt that this had provoked them.

It seems that without a unified standard, she cannot be worthy of being called a person, and it seems that she has begun to exclude this woman everywhere and say some bad things behind this woman's back.

It is even said that her father and mother took the lead in saying it, perhaps out of some good intentions or out of some bad intentions.

For some well-intentioned reasons, I think it may be because of these words to stimulate their daughters to return to their so-called right path.

As for the bad intentions, it may be a simple matter, anyway, the woman moved out of the village, because she has no way to survive in the village.

As for where to move? According to the famous book, she moved to a river not far from the village, where there was water and crops, and she also carved out a field, harvested some crops when she was bored, left a little to sell, and built a few thatched huts for herself.

There are more kind-hearted old people in several villages, and they also helped this woman to grow a few loess houses, at least so that this place can be sheltered from the wind and rain.

In this way, twenty or thirty years have passed, and this woman has gone from the age of flowers to a middle-aged woman.

However, the voice of public opinion is very small, and the women who originally pointed to her backbone now began to complain: "Oh, I found that sometimes it is not as good as others, and I don't wait to serve an old one at home and serve a small one, and I see that people are quite easy-going." ”

Of course, it doesn't mean that they have a bad life, but they have their own benefits, and sometimes they can't look at a mountain high, and there is no firewood to burn when they get to that mountain.

But this woman seems to be living a very comfortable life, she has not experienced too many ups and downs in the past 20 years, and she has a good life, saving some money to buy herself some new clothes.

Of course, I don't know why this famous book was written in the thirties.

In fact, I didn't write about the middle 20 years, but I think there should be some things that happened in the middle 20 years, and these things are those anti-Japanese years, so I think this matter may not be able to be written if it is directly skipped.

But if you come directly to the 50s, many people begin to envy this woman's life, because all the money this woman earns is for herself, and some jewelry and clothes are more comfortable these days.

And he is willing to add a few pieces of gold jewelry to himself, and sometimes he will come to the village to sell a little something, which makes people feel extremely envious.

But an accident happened, when she was less than sixty years old, there was a flood in this place, which flooded her home and washed her into the water, so she drowned in the water.

Many people came to see her and moved her belongings, and the burial was very miserable.

But at this time, there is a narrator, who has lived a stable life for decades, and in fact, he probably doesn't care about this last unfortunate thing.

After finally dying, who knows if the scenery is not beautiful, it is actually enough to live very comfortably in the past few decades.

Actually, that's what I'm thinking about too, and I think there's a place where I have the same idea as the narrator of this book.

That is, if you can really live a few decades in style, you really don't need to care about the last point, especially after you die.

If there is an afterlife or a hell, it is fine, but if there are no such things, if you die, you will die, and it doesn't matter what messy inheritance, DNA, and these things are simply indifferent.

Could it be that after he dies, he really cares if his bloodline can be passed on?

Obviously, there is no need to care about this, or even that there is no way to care about it.

Actually, this idea is a bit selfish, and I feel a little selfish.

However, I think that when people come to the world, what they should do is what they want to do, and if they do what they want to do first, it will not be in vain for them to come to the world.

Some people say that if you have come to the world, why not experience what people should do, such as getting married and having children.

This is true, but I don't think this is necessarily what people should do, because people were human beings before there was a marriage system, and it is only said that a marriage system was formulated when there was a certain economic dispute or a certain conflict.

This marriage system is only for the protection of certain people, not for making people's lives better, and I don't think that the marriage system can make people's lives better.

It only existed in a certain era, because there was no way to replace it, and I think that if there is a better system to replace this marriage system, then this marriage system will definitely be abolished.

Although as far as I know, it is unlikely that I will see this situation in all these years.

But I still think that this system will definitely be abolished, there is no system that exists 100%, just because this system has existed for too long and too long, so most people feel as if this system existed when there were people.

The reality is certainly not like this, and if it really makes me particularly selfish, I think I'd better be selfish.

Actually, it's kind of funny to think about. I wonder if this DNA or this gene has ever thought that one day it will not be able to continue.

Didn't you think that one day a person would have a subjective mind that could transform him, or even say that he could not continue it? So is it really a thing that makes people think in their own favor?

When I think of this matter, it is actually because of a text, and I only remember two sentences in this text, one sentence is the above sentence, and the other sentence is that there is no absolute thing in the world, so isn't this sentence itself also absolute?

In fact, I have tasted this sentence for a long time, and it always seems to be a little incorrect, no matter what I think, it seems to be a little incorrect.

Because this sentence itself is a bit contradictory, but I think this sentence should be understood in this way, most things in the world are not absolute.

I think this sentence is probably a little bit true, of course, I say this as if I am talking nonsense, because when I say another sentence, and add maybe or maybe this type of word, there is nothing too wrong with this sentence.

So this sentence seems to feel like a nonsense, but there are other interesting things in this text, but I just didn't say it.

Oops, it seems to be a bit far away, it turns out that he is talking about the problem of bear children.

There is a nephew in my family, and the relationship is like that, not good or bad, every time I start playing with this nephew, it feels pretty good.

That means that you feel good at first, but when you get to know your nephew, you'll find that your nephew is starting to improve.

I don't know if it's just him or if all the kids are like this, the way he has to go in makes me feel like beating him!

What I said, I think he would be much better if I beat him up!

It's a pity that I can't beat him, and if I were his mother, I'd beat him up! Because sometimes it's really annoying.

For example, when it was time to eat, my cousin started calling him to eat, but he was playing games there, so he said, "I'll come over later, you can wait for me." ”

But after ten minutes, I still played games there, and my cousin didn't listen to what she said, and sometimes she quarreled with my cousin, which was just a little scared when my cousin-in-law came.

Of course, when his grandparents came, they were even more unscrupulous, and sometimes they would condone him and say that he should play for a while.

In fact, as a modern teenager, people of my age do not exclude children from playing games, and it is impossible to play with sandpits and the like when children get together now, and I have never played either.

Their entertainment may be mobile phones or other electronic products, I think I can understand this, but what I don't understand is why this kid is so skinny!

Is it born like this, or is his father used to it? But no matter what, I really want to beat this kid!

Especially his mother, that is, my cousin, is reluctant to do it when she is doing this child, it may not be my biological reason, but I think if I go to do this child, I will definitely beat this child to the ground!

When my cousin beat my cousin, he symbolically twisted twice under his legs, sometimes resisted, and had to fight with my cousin in the future!

When I saw this, I wanted to get started!

The most critical problem is that I can't beat it after I can fight now, and I will definitely have to beat it a few more times when I am a child!

But every time I was ready to get started, my cousin would stop me, for fear that I would beat up his precious son, if that was the case, then I wouldn't have a good solution, I could only say that if I really want to do something rebellious in the future, it can only be your own reason.

To put it mildly, it deserves it.

To be honest, this child still feels very good when he first starts playing with her, sometimes sweetly, and then you and he just got acquainted with him and he is also very well-behaved, but there is a little bit of people who feel very uncomfortable, once they are familiar with it, he feels that it is a normal thing to bully you.

He felt that it was normal for him to ask for something, to obey his commands, to obey his orders, to have everything his.

I don't think I will be able to suffer a loss in the future, for example, Qi Yang was beaten, okay, I'm just making a joke, Qi Yang has not been the same since he was a child, although I didn't know Qi Yang since I was a child.

That's Xiaofeng has known Qiyang since he was a child, so Xiaofeng still said a lot of things about Qiyang, and this thing also made me feel very funny, and I also learned a lot about Qiyang before, such as Qiyang when I was a child.

I feel that this uplifting remark should be very beloved when I was a child, not that his father and his mother, father and mother are completely wonderful.

I mean other relatives, because Qiyang is too well-behaved, according to Xiaofeng's description, it is well-behaved and don't want it.

Not only is it well-behaved and can say some sweet words, but it is also obedient to the words of adults, where to find such a child! It's just a child model, isn't it!

But I haven't seen it either, and I don't know if what Xiaofeng said is exaggerated, and I don't know if what Xiaopeng said is artistic.

However, children can indeed feel some happiness and happiness to a certain extent, but it is accompanied by some headaches and discomfort.

Therefore, this kind of thing must definitely be looked at from two aspects, it is impossible to say that everything is for you to occupy, and it is impossible to say that you get all the benefits.

As far as I know so far, most children are very troublesome anyway, and another point is the problem of school, I don't mean that it is more difficult to go to school.

It's just that I feel that today's children are definitely not something that parents can tutor, and watching their children do homework is a very patient thing, to be precise, it is a thing that tests their hearts.

If you have a bad heart, then try not to counsel your child, it is estimated that when you have a heart recurrence or some myocardial infarction, it will not be worth it.

This is not to say that I am alarmist, I have really, really seen this kind of situation, I do not mean that I have seen it in my relatives, but I have seen such a news in the newspaper or in the People's Daily, such a report.

I think there should be a certain amount of truth in such news, and I think this kind of news should be a very, very real thing.

This news is like this, a teacher who is a parent, no, no, it seems to be wrong to me. The sequence seems to be wrong, and a parent who is a teacher feels that he has finally stopped working.

A parent who is a teacher is tutoring his child to do some elementary school problems, and finally is so angry that the child is hospitalized with myocardial infarction.

Of course, I didn't really see it in the newspaper, I was on this online platform, and the online platform also has the verification platform of the People's Daily.

That is to say, the account of the People's Daily on this platform is absolutely true, and after releasing a shocking news, I instantly felt that raising a child is not an easy thing.

He also deliberately expressed what kind of process this process is.

It is to ask the child questions such as 2+3, 3+5, and 5+6, but the child has not been able to answer, so there is another such situation.

Thinking about this situation, I feel a little scary, I used to seem to have this situation before, that is to say, I really can't blame other children's children for not being serious, maybe other people's children's challenges are really just true that sometimes they can't answer.

As a result, a mother was angry with a myocardial infarction, which seems to be a bit showy.

In fact, sometimes, you can't talk about children's thinking according to adults' thinking, especially if you can't say something similar, for example, why can't you do this question at all!

I don't think you can say such things, because it's easy for your child to have a disgusted emotion, and I don't want to do these questions, but now there are so many disgusted emotions, so it's not so difficult to finally get angry with yourself into a myocardial infarction.

Some people say that counting fingers is not enough, and counting fingers will not come out, but to be honest, if you stand in the perspective of a child, it is really not that simple.

It's like when you were learning a very difficult math problem in high school, and the teacher kept saying that the problem was very simple.

And I gave you a little hint, but you just looked confused, and you just didn't know how to ask.

In the evening, when your child is facing this kind of problem, you are facing the same concept as when you are facing those difficult math problems in your senior year of high school.

Maybe the math teacher thinks you're a fool.

Counting his fingers, maybe he thinks it's right, and because he is stricter, he doesn't dare to say it when his parents are stricter.

There may be a situation like this, but in any case, I think this mother is a little pitiful, and at the same time, this child seems to be a little pitiful, if this child knows that he has a heart attack on his mother, it is estimated that he may also feel a little guilty.

So don't be too anxious on both sides, I think especially on the parent side.

Of course, anyone can say cool things, for example, I am now, and I can also speak cool words, but unfortunately, if I really reach this stage, if I become a mother of a child to tutor him in math problems, I may also have such a situation, or even more than that.

I might say something like that, which means that I might have said something that shouldn't have been said just now, and maybe I'd put those words on my lips.

So for the safety of my life, I decided not to have children, even if I wanted children, I resolutely did not tutor him to do his homework, because I didn't have my parents to tutor me in my homework when I was a child, and now I haven't come over?

I'm not like that now, and I don't think I'm so depraved.

So this kind of thinking still has to look at the long term, okay, I'm starting to talk about it again, so let's not talk about it.

In fact, I think there is another point in the current school, to be precise, the current school and the current parents have a corresponding problem.

This corresponding problem is combined with each other, and it does not mean that a single person can become this problem.

The problem is that some parents feel that their children are not treated very well at school, so they require teachers to tell themselves truthfully about their children in WeChat or QQ groups.

For example, physical health, such as grades, etc., such things are too intellectually curious.

But some teachers are not particularly good, and some teachers like to let parents take care of some things, such as checking homework and parent-child interaction.

To be honest, some of these things are completely unnecessary, such as checking homework, anyway, I won't do it in the future, no matter how the teacher asks for it, I will never do this thing.

What I mean is that if I really have children in the future, maybe I won't even be in the WeChat group, as long as the child doesn't behave so badly in school, I really don't have much requirements for grades.

Anyway, my parents don't have much demand for my grades, I think I'm still doing well, and don't do to others what you don't want to do.

Do unto others as you would have done unto you, and I made it up myself.

What I mean by this is that if my parents are very happy and happy to do this to me, then I should do it to others, to my own son, to my own daughter.

Of course, I don't necessarily mean parents or to their own daughters and sons, I mean somebody else.

Let's summarize that sentence, it's for your own health or a good life, don't make so many messy things, I especially like that sentence, and Sun has his own children and grandchildren.

If the environment allows, I really want to be the woman in the famous book, but unfortunately the current environment seems to be a little unallowed.

In fact, I don't think it's that big, I just want to live a two-person world with Qi Yang, about a few decades to be able to get along with two people, even if I have children, I try my best to let the children live in a more comfortable environment.

But I think there is one point, it is time to fight, it must be played!

I have to play hard when I fight!

If one of the two of us has to sing red face and white face, then I'd rather be a red face singer, and I will never beat him because of his grades when I beat him! But when I beat him, he must have done something wrong, such as being rude, such as arguing with an adult.

For example, if he insists on saying something wrong, or like my cousin, I call him to eat and he will play his own game if he doesn't come to eat, then I will drop his game console on the spot!

When will I be obedient to eat, I'll buy a new one, otherwise I won't play in the future!

In fact, there is one thing that children are afraid of, and that thing is going to school. In fact, most children are still afraid of not going to school, and some people think that what I said is a wrong thing, but I think what I said is quite correct.

Some children are just afraid not to go to school, because when they go to school, they can be the same age as their own children, and sometimes if you threaten him to never go to school again, he may be afraid, as if he dropped his game console, and I think these two words are similar in nature.

Anyway, that's what I'm thinking about now, and I'm not particularly sure what I'm going to look like in the future, but I think I'm quite right now, and I think I'm quite right to some extent.

Suddenly I want to live with Qiyang now, do I feel a little unreserved?