So this kind of thing is really a small thing, but it can still tell us a lot of truth.

I feel a little bit bitten at the sound of this, and it feels like people are going to laugh at us.

But it's true, sometimes the more you care about something, the easier it is for you to lose it, in other words, the easier it is for you to lose.

Some things can't be rushed, like my hives problem.

The more I scratched, the more he got worse, but I wasn't annoyed and I couldn't cure the root cause, I just said that if I didn't take this thing, I might be fine soon.

Of course, this may be temporary, but what I want to say is that I can be happy and comfortable for a few more minutes.

To do things, you still have to look at some essential things, in fact, I am also some essential things, if you want to completely cure this thing, you must find some allergens.

Hives are mostly caused by allergies, so it's much easier to let the doctor help you find the allergen.

But I felt as if this doctor was not treating me, and I felt like this doctor was a trust from my father, just to be able to explain a good reason to me.

Now I understand a little, but at that time it was very difficult for a parent to reason with his child.

Actually, it would have been a difficult thing for me a year or two ago, but now it's probably because I've experienced too much that I'm gradually understanding it.

However, for a parent, how to reason with a child is indeed a very complicated matter, because if he talks too much about a thing, he seems boring, and it is easier to cause dissatisfaction with others, and this other person is not someone else, but his own son or daughter.

It's really easy to cause dissatisfaction, basically the son or daughter will say a sentence, that is, you don't say it anymore, it's been said many times, and at this time the parents don't know whether he understands or not.

If you want to say that he understands, why would he still do such a thing, if you want to say that he doesn't understand, he is so old, I have said it so many times, how can he still not understand.

I believe that at this time most children should understand, because they understand but they don't want to do it, they feel that if you do something according to your ideas, they will feel shameless.

That's right, of course such an old child understands something, let alone said it so many times.

But if there is less of this truth, it will definitely not be listened to, when you are young and vigorous, you will go in the left ear and out of the right ear, and then continue to do your own thing.

This is the way most young people think and practice, and there is no criticism to mean that this is the case, in fact, often at this time, if others say a word to themselves, they listen even more than their parents.

That is to say, other people's meals are fragrant, and in the same way, other people's reasoning is the most correct.

One of my favorite stories is a story in a textbook when we were in junior high school, of course, I didn't particularly like it at that time, and I didn't feel that much truth without that deep feeling.

The story is about a child who went out because of a quarrel with his mother, and after going out, he felt very hungry, but at this time he didn't want to go home for the sake of face.

Then an old lady next to her saw that this old lady was selling wontons on the side of the road, and after seeing it, the old lady was also kind-hearted, so she gave the little girl a little rice to eat and gave her a bowl of wontons to eat.

And then the little girl was also very moved, and said some inconsequential things, and then these inconsistency words were how her mother was, but what happened to one of your strangers, and so on.

This kind of talk is actually quite normal for our age.

Then this old lady said that your mother cooked so much food for you, why weren't you moved, and you were moved by a bowl of wontons given to you by an old woman.

When she said this, the little girl understood, and then she came home and saw her mother at the door eagerly watching her home, in fact, I believe that most of the time children of that age have some disdain for this story.

In fact, what I see in this story is not that this mother is for a daughter, in fact, I see another truth, which is what kind of thing is good for others.

That's a good sentence, it's delicious but dumplings, it's fun but saozi, but although this sentence says a little bit of that meaning, I have to say that this sentence actually expresses a truth.

And it is the second half of the sentence that expresses a truth, I feel that my wife is good at someone else's house, but in fact, no matter how rough other people's wives are, no matter how delicate my own wives are, what I haven't used is always the best.

Of course, I didn't say it myself.

In fact, there is a more real case to illustrate this truth.

In fact, I sometimes met this when I was working, my previous job was not only night hotel KTV, but also some other salaries that I didn't want to say.

It's just some logisticians, of course, this logistician is not particularly tired, although it is said that there are some things but there are professional means of transportation.

It is even said that you don't need to carry it on the car, and you can carry out the work of loading and unloading directly on the car, which is actually a very simple job.

But one day, after the work is done, to be precise, when there is no workload between work.

I stood at the door of the warehouse with a buddy I knew, but he wasn't really a buddy, he was ten years older than me.

But this guy is very funny, very humorous people and I like to be friends, and I also like to be friends with humorous people.

You feel that life is really fun every day, even if you don't have fun and find a fun to show you every night, you can actually laugh from morning to afternoon when you tell jokes every day.

People are just trying to do this, who wants to live with a bitter face all day long.

So although I've only known this buddy for a month, the relationship is very good, and he is also very righteous.

Of course, I'm not the kind of person who doesn't know anything, but I can still do the other way around, and sometimes I can share something delicious with him.

This is what I admire most about him is not that he is the point, in fact, most people can still have it if they want to have it, I am talking about this humorous and grateful and righteous atmosphere.

But the one thing I don't have is kindness, and he actually makes me feel guilty.

In fact, I can say that I am a very selfish person, to be precise, I am the epitome of this modern society, that is, if I really meet someone who needs help on the road, I will roll my eyes and pass.

I don't even have the mood to see it, but I don't even have the mood to see it.

What kind of person in need of help am I talking about?

I don't need to say more about the people who need help when I talk about people who are actually begging on the streets, but the people who beg on the streets in the city are often liars.

I'm definitely not talking about cool things, pulling a stereo in the supermarket with a small board with wheels, and then begging along the street in the supermarket are basically liars.

You look at his leg and you see her hand gone, and they always have some trick up their sleeve to get you to see these things and make you believe them.

I'm talking about people who need help, but people on the street who really need help, not necessarily who need help money. Sometimes it's just a sentence.

Let's take an example, if there are two people quarreling on the street, in fact, most of the quarrels between two people on the street are noisy emotions, and they are all quarreling face.

On the surface, no one is convinced, but in fact, both of them have the meaning of termination in their hearts, but neither of them gives anyone a step down, and these two people are actually very embarrassed.

Of course, this is only relative, to be precise, they are embarrassed by themselves.

In other words, passers-by don't care about them, the most important thing is that they don't know who you are, and you don't know where to put your face.

At this time, if someone goes up to persuade one or two sentences, there is almost nothing to do, there is nothing big in the first place, but in the end, because of the problem of face, they have to fight each other with fists and feet, and even talk about swords and arrows.

Everything cannot be blamed only on the indifference of passers-by, but even more blame for the poor self-esteem in their own hearts.

But if there is persuasion from passers-by, it is easier to solve, and I am the selfish passerby.

Basically, when I saw this situation, I wouldn't look back and leave, I was just a normal person, I admit it.

Of course, I have to say that most people basically behave the same way as me when they see this situation, and first of all, I'm really not criticizing anyone.

Secondly, I am also one of them, so there is no need for me to criticize such people.

That's my buddy, it's different, in fact, I should call him uncle.

But one thing I've found is that when you get to work, especially in modern jobs, some of the generational gaps will get smaller and smaller.

Sometimes you will call someone whose son is older than you to call her brother, to be precise, brother, but if you really see her son one day, you will still call her brother.

The two people on the other side will not feel embarrassed at all, and if it is an interesting person, they will ridicule it, because this is what it looks like, this concept will become weaker and weaker, and then you will drag a random passerby now.

If you ask him to tell me what the seniority of his next three generations is, I don't think he can say it, but of course he can really say it.

I'm just saying that most people can't say it.

In fact, people's concept of generation has lasted for thousands of years, but because of the changes in life and technology, it will always slowly fade, and then fade to a level of forgetting.

As for whether it's a good thing or a bad thing, it's up to you to think about it.

That is, the buddy I should call uncle, he would never do it if he were in such a situation.

He will definitely try to persuade a word or two, in fact, I don't know what kind of human affairs my buddy experienced in the past.

Able to interject a word or two in the middle of a quarrel with passers-by.

And the effect is very good every time, and basically everyone goes down this step.

And I believe that most people are missing a step, almost 90% of people are missing a step when they quarrel on the street.

And then my buddies basically give them a step down if they see this, and that's where my buddies are not selfish.

That's why I admire him more.

And sometimes, if he tried to persuade me, I couldn't stand by and say nothing.

I'm going to at least be a joker, and then I'll echo what he says next to him, because I'm quite familiar with the character of a joker.

Although I am not a professional compromiser, I have spoken cross talk many times in the past three years of high school, whether it is at the school's art performance festival or in the class performance, I have said cross talk and talked to Yun Ci.

The two of us have really talked a lot of cross talk, although I am not a comic person, but I am quite familiar with the role of a friend, of course, I am not particularly able to master this role.

Then I will be a joke for this buddy, and sometimes I can even be a joker, and then I will persuade people to open up in a few words.

Basically, the people who can quarrel on the street are some grassroots people, and sometimes they are just angry themselves, and then someone happens to touch their own anger.

So this fight began to quarrel, I guess I felt bored arguing and arguing, but because of my own face, there was still no way to stop.

It's actually quite funny to say.

Then it turned out that after the two people went up, I guess both of them regretted it in their hearts, and the two of them quarreled without getting any benefits, and let passers-by watch a good show.

When I said this, I remembered a humorous and reasonable joke again.

This paragraph is told like this, about a rich man and a rich man eating in a restaurant.

Then one rich man said to another rich man, I will give you 10 million, can you run naked around this hotel?

Another rich man was thinking, of course I want to do this kind of good thing, wouldn't it be nice to be able to reach 10 million after running around naked?

So the rich man took off his clothes, ran around naked, and then got the rich man's 10 million.

The rich man who gave the money at the beginning felt a little uncomfortable, thinking that you got my 10 million after running around naked, and I began to regret the decision I made at the beginning.

The rich man who ran naked was also a little uncomfortable, and felt that he was quite embarrassed, because he was a rich man and went around naked for 10 million, which was really a bit embarrassing.

So both of them felt uncomfortable at this time, and then the other person proposed, I will give you 10 million, how about you go naked for a lap!

The first rich man thought to himself, of course that's a good thing, streaking can make my money back, of course it's a very comfortable thing, so I agreed.

Then this matter came here, and the rich man also came back naked, and he also got the 10 million he just gave away.

At the beginning of my heart, both of them were beautiful.

But it's not right to think about it, both of them think like this, and in the end, I didn't get anything and I went to run around naked, isn't it worth it?

And then both of them were particularly distressed.

At this time, an economist came over, and after hearing about such a thing, he happily said to the two rich men, this is not a loss!

The two of you ran naked twice, but you brought 20 million GDP to the country.

In fact, the original intention of this story is to ridicule the way this GDP is calculated, of course, I can't comment on what is ridiculed, because I really can't bear this specific ridicule.

But since I dare to tell this story to illustrate this story, I don't like that.

Actually, I don't want to talk about why the rich start to run naked for 10 million, maybe the richer the more picky.

But the thing I want to talk about is this thing, which I think is actually quite a loss, like a quarrel between passers-by, and in the end nothing is gained, nothing is gained, but such a thing happens.

The rich man ran naked, was ridiculed by others, and then lost face.

Then passers-by quarreled, it must be acting for others, and then they lost face and lost time.

Because maybe it's too late to do anything you want to do at this time.

Of course, this is the time to tell about my buddy's heroic deeds, but at this time I still want to tell this story.

This story actually shows that there are things that should not be done, so don't do them, because such things really don't make any sense, and in the end, it's yourself who is delayed.

And even if you say you hate this family, have you won back face?

The result of course is obviously not? You didn't earn that face back at all.

The premise of face is that there are people next to you, to be precise, there are people next to you who know about you, care about you, and watch you about this.

In fact, to be honest, basically if there are passers-by who are busy with work, they will not care, basically those who care about things are small, and you definitely don't want such people to win back your face.

It's almost impossible for anyone to bother with it.

Therefore, the final result of you doing this can only be like this, the person who can make your face recover is not on the scene, and the person who can't make you recover face is always picking things around, so there is no benefit in doing this thing anyway, unless you really want to practice your eloquence, then I don't care.

In fact, it turned out like this, and I didn't mean to say some big things to keep some people from quarrelling.

Of course, some fights should be quarreled, but some are not necessary and are indeed stupid to do!

It is even said that there are people who have lived for forty or fifty years, seventy or eighty years, and can do such a stupid thing! It really makes me feel a little ridiculous!

But I still won't persuade them, I think even if I persuade them, they will still be like this! It's better to let them suffer some ruthless losses, and definitely remember it for a long time!

What a person this is, and he has to coax like a child! Such a person really deserves to suffer some big losses!

But my buddy obviously didn't think so, and of course I wasn't necessarily right, maybe people usually do this way but because of a moment of anger that led to such a situation.

The buddy of mine persuaded him, and the persuasion was also very good, and the two of them broke up with each other scolding.

They are scolding on their lips, but only they know what they think in their hearts.

Then again, when we were at the warehouse gate that day.

Because our warehouse is on a small road in a high-tech zone, there are passers-by passing by, not in an unfinished building.

This guy doesn't like to smoke either, and like me, he doesn't particularly like to drink.

But people in their 30s and almost 40s always have a hobby, and his hobby is actually a very simple hobby, playing chess with others.

Playing chess with a master is one of his favorite things, and obviously I don't meet his qualifications, and I can play chess as well.

But as for what the technology is, I don't need to say much, I can't say that it's particularly bad, but it's also near the middle and lower reaches, because my hobby is not such a thing.

If you have different hobbies, the depth of some things is not so strong, but if you want me to explain some tactics of League of Legends, some players, then I will talk to you for two hours without repeating the same.

Or is it that hobby, which determines one's own thoughts, but also determines one's behavior.

She doesn't particularly like to play with mobile phones, but in fact, he's nearly 40 years old and still working as a warehouse transporter, and there is a reason for that.

I won't go into detail about what this reason is, because it doesn't seem to be a matter of discussion here.

But that day actually increased the level of my adoration for him.

When we were at the door of the warehouse that day, we closed the warehouse door first, because the things in the warehouse were more afraid of the sun, and then the two of us sat outside.

Enjoy the sun outside.

Because it was cold during the winter vacation at that time, the inside of the warehouse was also shady and shady, and we all knew that the top of the warehouse was made very high.

It's a little cool to stay in such a room, but it's actually cool in summer, but it's cool in winter, and the air conditioning is straight to the bone marrow!

So I don't want to stay in there, and if the two of us are basically out there when we don't have anything to do.

Then that day passed and there was a child, and the deprivation of the child was led by his mother, and then at this time his mother was coaxing the child.

Because the kid was crying, he had to ask for something.

Then his mother kept convincing her, you can't just ask for anything, or someone will come and grab you, and then sell you to the mountains, and you won't see your mother.

In fact, the general meaning is like this, the general meaning is that you have to be obedient and obedient, otherwise someone will abduct and sell you, that is, we often hear those parents coax their children.

And at this time, in fact, one thing we should think of is not to think that children are not smart, some methods will not work if they are used once, and if you use them with means, you should actually use them several times.

It is estimated that this child has also produced an immune effect, hey, the virus can be immune, let alone a child with a brain.

The immunity of the virus I am talking about here is also the immunity of the virus to the drug, of course, I don't particularly understand biology, maybe what I am talking about here is also the immunity of bacteria to drugs, or the immunity of diseases to drugs, anyway, you just listen to it anyway, that's what it means.

After the child is immunized, the way to continue is to cry and fuss, anyway, I just want to get what I want.

And then once the mother's words don't work, in fact, the mother especially likes to be uncomfortable, because the child has a special headache when he quarrels.

I am very touched by this, I am particularly annoyed by the child quarrelling, as soon as the child quarrels, I feel like there is a group of aunts in my head screaming in my ear, and then they have different opinions, saying a point of view in my left ear and a point of view in my right ear.

It's almost going to blow up my skull!

So at this time, the child continued to make trouble, and I was a little annoyed after hearing such a cry, and I should have been playing with my mobile phone.

But after hearing the little monk's crying, I also put my phone in my pocket, ready to plug my ears and wait for them to pass.

But that's not what my buddy did at this time, my buddy did something that I had never done before.

In fact, at this time, I don't know how to help this mother and son, of course, I don't mean to help, even if I ask to help, I will choose a way to coax the child.

But my buddy didn't do it the way I thought it would, and then my buddy pointed directly to the kid and said, of course, the kid's nose didn't point to his own nose.

He pointed to the child's nose and said, "What is the matter with this child, you are crying again?" It just so happens that I am short of children here, wait a minute, I will sell you to the mountains, that Yangyang, you help me get a rope and I will tie up this child, and we will sell the crying child! ”

At this time, he said something very funny, of course, it should be very real for that child, and then the child was so scared that he stopped crying and looked at my buddy.

My buddy doesn't call me Yang like my friend, he calls me Yangyang, yes is the ocean of the ocean, because I was introducing himself to him, he didn't hear clearly, so he kept calling this nickname, to be precise, I never had this nickname.

Then I was only able to be a slapstick, and then I was ready to open the warehouse door and find rope for him.

In fact, it seems that this behavior is very fake in the adult world, but I deeply realized that the world of children is actually really simple, or very stupid, and the scenes that are not very real in their eyes actually look very real.

Just like when I was in elementary school, I thought junior high school people were handsome in fighting, when I was in junior high school, I thought people in high school were handsome in fighting, and when I was in high school, I thought people in society were handsome in fighting, and that's basically what it looks like.

I always feel that my high-end level is more appealing, and I always feel that the high-end level is very powerful and powerful, in fact, when you really reach this level, you will find that it is actually just that, and a very simple truth may also be able to be applied to their level.

The meaning of this sentence is that if I get to the level of my dad, I will find that doing business and communicating with other people's big bosses is actually like that.

And now I can deeply implement this truth in my heart, so when I meet any big directors and big bosses in the future, I won't think how good and powerful they are, and even when I meet some big officials, I think I should be like this.

Saying that, at such a time, I guess the child should have believed it at the beginning, and then the child was even more convinced when I was about to open the warehouse door.

At this time, as a mother, she is also going to get off the donkey now, and then this mother also smiled gratefully at my buddy, and then began to get off the donkey.

So he said to his child: "Don't want anything, don't want anything, let's go quickly, don't let him tie you up, remember not to cry, the more he cries, the more he will tie you."

Then the two of them were stunned for a moment, and then immediately stopped their nonsense tears, and then followed in their mother's footsteps and quickly followed.

The child's feet are relatively slow, not that they want to be slow or they are lazy, and the size of the steps is relatively small, so the frequency of the child's footsteps at this time is particularly high, which almost makes me laugh to death.

Quickly keep up with his mother's footsteps, and look back from time to time.

Of course, the mother also looked back from time to time and smiled at my buddy.

Actually, what I want to talk about is my buddy's ability to perform, and the other helpful feelings.

Our teachers have taught us to be helpful and helpful since we were young, in fact, if I can still be helpful at my age, I believe it is not very much, of course, I am not particularly helpful, to be precise, I don't like to be helpful at all.

This kind of thing feels like the kind of thing that can only be done by an old monk who has already comprehended the world, and such a thing will be similar if it is not a middle-aged person who has a deep understanding.

That's why I have a special admiration for my buddies.

He didn't do anything particularly big about me, but to be honest, he was someone I had ever seen who could take his teacher's teachings to heart since childhood.

Although it is said that the teacher who teaches the teacher may not be able to do it, then it should be said that my buddy is the only one who applies the teachings of the ancients to real life.

A lot of people say that this is the right thing to do, and this is the right thing to do, but there are a lot of things that they say but don't act like that.

So when I came to this, I realized that I may also like to help people, but I don't say that.

I may need a big introduction to help people, and this shadow can be understood as the introduction of firecrackers, which is the legendary *.

I can't explode myself, and if you want me to explode, you have to let me light a fire, or I need someone else to set me on fire.

In fact, this kind of thing is called icing on the cake, why is it the icing on the cake, in fact, what others want to do may be to ignite something.

His chosen approach was to light it with *, but he had a fire in his hand.

He could have clicked on this thing right away, and then this lit thing might have detonated me, so I was just icing on the cake.

I might be able to make the fire even stronger, but to be honest, sometimes I might blow it up all at once, it's impossible to say.

These are all very normal things.

So that buddy's helpfulness is not like we usually say and play, which is also what I admire him more, the worship of not mixing any impurities.

Speaking of this, I am still a little ashamed, the good or bad of a person has long been determined in my heart, but I can't release the things in my heart.

That is to say, I dare not say that I am a good person, I may become a good person, and I only dare to say this to myself.

In fact, I didn't feel cool when I went into the warehouse when I was working that day, because the whole guilt had my own heart, and I didn't know why I became so guilty.

Maybe it's because if I was the only one at the door of the warehouse at the time, I could only watch the mother and son arguing farther and farther away, and when the sound was inaudible, it seemed that this kind of thing had not happened again.

Then I went to do another thing with peace of mind, and I was not wrong to say that I started to do another thing with peace of mind.

I didn't feel like I was doing anything wrong.

I guess after finishing my work, I have long forgotten what happened during today's break, and I may remember chatting with others on QQ.

You may remember that you swiped out a funny news on Weibo.

I may also remember seeing a wonderful detail in the novel.

But in two days at most, I guess I've forgotten about this scene.

The cold outside the warehouse that day was nothing, I was talking about the corrosive effect of the cold on my skin, and I wore a lot, but in fact, I couldn't stop the cold of the warehouse.

It's just the beating of their own hearts, and the heat generated can slowly fight against them.

But when a cold feeling starts to emanate from the inside, I don't know what kind of heat can make me resist them.

I don't know if I'm going to become an iceman, so I don't really care about anything anymore.

The mood of that day lasted until the night, and I was not even in the mood to sleep at night, and I was very sleepy after work.

But I really didn't snooze that day, although my hands and feet were numb, of course, I was tired and not frozen, but I really didn't snooze anymore.

To be precise, I may not be able to sleep because of some mental matters, but sometimes I really can't figure it out.

Why doesn't my buddy usually feel this way when he is helping people fight on the street, but suddenly a small thing touches me a lot?

I kept thinking that night, I wondered why I was in this mood?

I'm still wondering what if I happen to this next time?

Am I going to help others like my buddies? To help others in a better way?

Or will I just be like I used to be, and I won't even know what happened?

I've been condemning myself, and of course it's not to a very deep level, but I still have to say this sentence a few more times, after all, it's really sad.

After all, this kind of thing is really hard to talk about, especially for people like me who have a lot of inner thoughts.

The next day, I still went to work as usual, and I don't know why I was looking forward to two people arguing on the street at this time, and I especially expected that the two people were arguing because of some trivial matters.

So of course, I know very well what I want to do, and I must be thinking in my heart at this time that I want to relieve my guilt.

At this time, I must have thought in my heart, if you quarrel, I will definitely go up and persuade you to say a word or two.

I am very good at his affairs, and if you believe me, I will be able to persuade each of you to go home and find his own mother.

And then nothing showed up, and it didn't show up for the whole winter break, and it was only a few times that I saw it.

Today is the few times I held it, not only did I not show up when I was there, but I didn't show up even when I was with that buddy.

My buddy may have never understood my feelings, and he may have never understood my heart.

But I was really uncomfortable that day, although I said that after a few days, my mood became much better, and I went back to the days when I told a few jokes every day, and some funny things would happen without jokes.

But the events of that day have always been hidden in my heart, and I should say that I have not forgotten it until now, and I have not forgotten it little by little!

In fact, it's rare to see two people arguing on the street now, and one thing I'm not sure about is whether I still have the courage to do that at that time.

My courage was very high during that winter vacation, and my courage was very enthusiastic during that winter vacation!

But it may have been forgotten slowly, or it may have slowly retreated, in other words.

Even if there are really two people who quarrel, I think I will most likely still be cold-eyed, and I will most likely still be the one*.

If no one ignites that primer, I still can't light the fire, I still can't burn.

In other words, I will still be like a useless person who is icing on the cake.

Although I remember this very well.

But things can be remembered clearly, in fact, emotions can be slowly forgotten.

In other words, I am still the one who praises, and I still need the support of others.

In other words, I'm still the same Liu Adou.