Chapter 1347 1354:
In this world, not all parents will love their children unconditionally.
Some people treat children as their own property, let them inherit their own will, think that I gave birth to them, and I have the right to decide anything. Including career choices, future path development, and even marriage matching.
I was born, so I have to do what I say.
There are also people who use children as a tool to show off, how my children are, so as to gain the envy of others, and then be complacent in private. I don't know how much pressure parents have brought to their children by doing this.
There may be people who just want to live simply, without being rich and rich, just be safe and happy.
But parents compare with each other, whose children are more powerful, whose children are better, if their own children are not doing well, they will take other people's children as an example, so children can only work harder, so as not to be compared, lest they be nagged, lest they do not do well, as if they are useless and useless......
I was born, I am for the good, what is more than necessary, I hope that my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix, and how much is it really for the good of the child, not for the glory of the child after the birth, add glory to my face, and take the glory and honor that the child has worked hard to obtain as the pride of my own nothing?
It seems that raising children has become a matter of self-interest, and innocent lives have thus become victims of utilitarian vanity, as if more children exist only to satisfy the selfish vanity of their parents.
Some parents think that it is right if I don't beat or scold, and I care about eating and drinking and going to school is the right love, but shouldn't these be?
Isn't it right to be born and let the child come into this world, and bear the child's living needs before the child becomes an adult? And when the children grow up, the parents are old, and the children provide for their parents, isn't it also repaying the parenting grace?
However, more people often hurt in the name of love. This mental injury is far more unbearable than physical pain.
Parents are self-controlled, and children cannot resist, because this is a rule passed down from our ancestors.
Filial piety comes first, parents will never be wrong, even if there are really a thousand mistakes, it is not considered a mistake. But the slightest negligence of the child will be infinitely magnified, and if it is the so-called "unfilial piety", it will be pointed out by thousands of people and will not be tolerated by the world.
But no matter what, the above situations are relatively good, far luckier than the Liang brothers, and much better.
People say that children are debts owed by their parents in their previous lives, and they were born in their parents' homes to collect debts in this life, but here in the Liang family, who is whose debt?
The sun is shining, the morning sun is shining on the hills, and the breeze is gently blowing.
In front of the house, the man rested on the woman's knees, and the woman gazed at her tenderly.
The sound of shallow footsteps sounded, and Yi Xuan took a piece of clothing, unfolded it and draped it on his wife's shoulders.
He asked softly, "Is it cold?" ”
She shook her head.
Yi Xuan glanced at the eldest brother, who was sleeping very deeply. He thought for a moment, "Do you need me to call the third and fourth brothers over?" ”
What he meant was that he could let Shujun and Haoming get the eldest brother into the house. Although it is summer, it is still cooler on this land after all.