There are three basic symptoms of autism:

Difficulties in social interaction. Some children with autism show avoidance of eye contact and lack of facial expressions as early as infancy. It is easy to separate from parents, sometimes with strangers and with their parents.

They tend to have little active contact with family and friends, and are often passive and uninterested in people and things. Longitudinal studies have reported that they lack social skills after adolescence and are unable to form romantic relationships or get married.

Speech development disorders. Language impairment in children with autism is common and severe. Some of them are silent or rarely speak, some do not talk, cannot bring up topics, often talk to themselves, and do not care about the reactions of those around them.

Some repeatedly imitate and repeat other people's words, even sentences that appeared on the radio or television a few days ago, some speak without intonation and emotion, and some even repeatedly scream, hum or say things that others simply do not understand.

Narrow range of interests and stereotyped lifestyles. Autistic people have fixed requirements for their environment, and changing circumstances often make them uneasy. They are accustomed to stereotyped and repetitive movements, such as repeated running, spinning, and sometimes even hurtful head-banging.

They also have peculiar interests, fascinated by repeatedly observing things that are not interesting to the average child, such as rotating electric fans, and have unique contact patterns, such as repeatedly touching the surface of a smooth object.

In addition, the child may have abnormal perception, either too dull or too sensitive. They are also intellectually flawed, but they may have some amazing strengths. For example, super memory and computing power for numbers.

In the decades since autism was discovered, humans have been unable to find the cause of the disease, nor have they been able to find an effective treatment.

Experts pointed out that after the diagnosis of autism, in addition to targeted and effective intervention and rehabilitation training, what is more important is the degree of social acceptance, opportunities for schooling and employment, and legal protection.

However, the way out given to them by society is quite narrow, from kindergarten to school and employment, children with autism are rejected in various modes and for various reasons.

Therefore, for autism, we should recognize it earlier, and give more love and tolerance to people with autism.

There are two ways to relieve loneliness: one is self-control, and the other is counseling and medication by a psychologist. Once you find yourself with a tendency to be lonely. You should tell yourself soberly. Confines yourself in a cage of solitude and gets only loneliness instead of happiness.

We should be brave and firm in opening the doors and windows of our hearts, stepping out of our personal world, and actively participating in social activities.

Experts engaged in psychological research have pointed out that there are three modes that people can adopt to avoid loneliness.

First, moderately intense work can avoid a certain sense of loss in the psyche. A fulfilling life has a subtle effect on improving people's depression.

The second is to cultivate good hobbies or participate in some public welfare activities as much as possible. The third is to appropriately change the environment. Avoiding inertia, going to a new environment, accepting challenging work can stimulate people's potential and vitality, and change their mood with the change of environment. Keep yourself healthy and uplifted.

In the field of literature, he is a well-known new school of Internet sensual writers with the theme of loneliness - Mi Shan.

With the themes of silence, wandering, and loneliness, Mi Shan's article depicts the thoughts and sensual inner world of the post-80s cleft lip group.

The loneliness in the eyes of the rice shirt always seems to have a sense of mystery, the inner contemplation of the personal world, the words express a kind of emotional loneliness, and the loneliness of reading the articles of the rice shirt is also a kind of beauty. Loneliness, silence, and wandering have always been the eternal topics of human beings.

Singer: Binyang Band, Album: Binyang Different Tone - "That day you decided to go south, I said I could only go north.

You crossed that babbling river and crossed that mountain, and everything for many years went with the wind.

I began to think of the past, whether I should throw away the sins in my heart and wipe away those tears, wipe away all the pain of the tears of the year, and I can't bear to cry helplessly without reason.

I miss you in my heart, nothing can replace you, why did you leave me to make me lonely and lonely, I miss you so much, I love you so much, I really like you, what did you abandon me for, let me be lonely and lonely

When you think that love is not like this, there is no reason for love and hate. If you want me to bear the false love and hate, when you think that love and love are not like this, there is no reason for love and hate, if you want me to bear the false love and hate, it is impossible. ”

Singer: Zhang Chu, song - lonely people are shameful -

"It's the season of love, the air smells of couples, and it's shameful to be alone.

It's a season of love, and everyone should smile at each other and cuddle and hug each other, and that's it.

I love flowers, there should be flowers in the city, and even if they are plucked, flowers should grow.

It's a season of love, everyone should be nice to each other, and it's shameful to be alone.

Life blooms like flowers, we can't allow ourselves to wither, there is no choice, we have to fall in love.

The love of flowers is scattered with the wind, scattered with the wind, scattered with the wind, they do not look for and do not rely on, very proud.

Lonely people, they want to be as beautiful as flowers. A proud heart flutters in the wind and falls at the feet of people, shameful people, who oppose life against boredom, and become withered in the wind in the eyes of people for the sake of beauty. ”

Guo Jingming's poetry, loneliness, "It has rained heavily for two days and two nights, and it is still falling, and it has not stopped." Through the window, we seem to be living in a water curtain hole, which reminds me of a hundred years of solitude.

It had been raining heavily for several years, and the damp room was covered with moss. Schools of fish swim up to the rooftops, and on such a rainy day, we walk down the street with umbrellas, stepping on stagnant water, and we don't know where to go?"

Chen Qizhen sang: "Loneliness is the rain on a winter night, loneliness is a sigh in the morning, and loneliness is the name of a song." Let me call to you softly, let me close my eyes quietly, and I find that tomorrow is as far away as the future.

She hurriedly drowned in the crowd, he searched aimlessly, loneliness was the back of the ordinary strange. Let me follow you secretly, let me greet you cordially, and turn around to find that this familiar expression is my long-lost self. ”

Tong Xiao wrote: "I beg you, don't take away my loneliness, knowing, loneliness, is my dying capital, I want to occupy it perfectly, I can't bear its departure."

Loneliness, accompanied by twenty years, has kept nourishing me and making me thrive, and I enjoy this loneliness until the day of my white head, in the arms of kindness, slowly dying. ”

Find a place where you can live a secluded life.

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People often ignore the feelings and needs of the heart, and only "loneliness" can truly touch the inner world.

When you see "loneliness", what do you think of?

Most of the answers given are negative and negative.

Relationships have always been regarded as the key to happiness, as if we have a good relationship, we can achieve the fullest in life.

British psychologist John Polby also said, "Intimate attachment to others is the axis on which life rotates." It is generally accepted in society that a person who likes to be alone and does not like to come into contact with people has some kind of mental defect, and that an extremely introverted person is more abnormal than an extremely extroverted person.

Therefore, if people around us like to stay at home, we usually encourage them to go out and participate in social activities, and even psychotherapists, without exception, do not include the ability to be alone as a reference in judging emotional maturity.

Anthony and Stall put forward a new perspective on this. He argues that perhaps we should not idealize relationships, and that relationships should not be the only way to achieve happiness.

In fact, "solitude", that is, solitude, can also bring us fulfillment and happiness in life. The book provides a professional analysis of loneliness, using the examples of famous people of the past and present—writers, philosophers, musicians, and even religious saints—to illustrate that loneliness is not as negative and harmful as the traditional wisdom advocates, but in many cases is positive and beneficial. (To be continued......)