Chapter 35 Loneliness is the king, and loneliness is the only one

After reading it in recent months, if this book had not been voted by Tang Fei'er on the readers, the ranking would have at least dropped a lot. It is inevitable that the author will have to take a look at it to show that he is free to do so and respects the position of the organizers. Thank you, those who voted, let the author stay in a passable world in any environment.

The author saw that Huang Yi's physical book Sun and Moon was empty (Volume 13) and immediately ran to buy it. I bought Mu Xin's literary memoirs. Jiang Xun wrote Dream of Red Mansions, "I don't know how many versions of Dream of Red Mansions have been bought, and I have only turned a few pages so far, I am ashamed and not elegant."

Bought Shi Jingqian's turbulent empire (from Qianlong to Deng Xiaoping's China and the world). Mark and Nepo's awakening every day seems to be a hundred times more boring than what I wrote.

The author will go to Keelung tomorrow and Hsinchu the day after tomorrow. Keelung doesn't really want to go, but, my friend Hongyi's birthday said that I want the author to go, and I have refused many friends' parties or dinners, and I am always too lazy to go, and I have no interest, and it is a waste of time to chat or anything.

Such behavior, such thinking, ha! Could this be the fatalistic character of a lonely thinker?

"Loneliness" Chinese words, mental illness, literary creation theme, Russian Mark, Chagall oil paintings, South Korea 2002 Liu Chengfan starring in the TV series, 1997 Latin pianist music album, Binyang Band singing songs, Guo Jingming poetry, Tong Xiao poetry

Loneliness, as explained in Chinese characters, is the king, and the only one is unique.

The unique king must always accept loneliness, and he does not need to accept anyone's approval. There is no need for anyone's mercy, and the king can definitely walk alone in a very calm environment.

Loneliness does not appear when you are depressed or in love, that feeling is just emptiness and loneliness, and it cannot be called loneliness.

Loneliness is a state, a state of harmony, true loneliness is noble, lonely people are thinkers, when a person is lonely, his mind is free.

He is facing his true self. Everything in the human mind originates here. Loners. No matter what kind of environment he is in, he can make himself quiet, he can enjoy himself.

Loneliness is sometimes a kind of wealth, and only when people are lonely can their hearts be truly quiet. will be very sensible. Loneliness is not bitter. It's a very high realm. Loneliness≠ loneliness.

Xu Gan's "Treatise on the Law and the Image": "The simplicity of human nature is subtle, and the neglect of human affection is lonely. The Husband is a faint one. The lonely is also the end of seeing. It is the old gentleman who respects loneliness and prudence. ”

Song and Su Shunqin's poem "Sending Han Sanzihua Home": "Send farewell early and say goodbye to the second part, and comfort loneliness." ”

Ming Li Zhen's "Book with Zhou Youshan": "I have neither the joy of family nor friends, and I am lonely." ”

Lao She's "Camel Xiangzi" 14: "Although the tiger girl can entertain him, he suddenly feels lonely in his own house, without an old wife, only a daughter, and looks like a man. ”

True loneliness is not the disease-free moaning after food and clothing.

Loneliness is the radiation of the soul, the loneliness of reason, and the height of thought, the realm of life.

It has no sound but thoughts, no extension but connotation, loneliness is a profound interpretation, and it is irreplaceable beauty.

The lone traveler in the hustle and bustle is also lonely. Perhaps the more complicated it is, the more empty it is, the more lonely it is, the richer it is. A person is not necessarily lonely, and when there are many people, it may be even more dazed.

There is only one moon, but there are many stars holding it, walking in the sea of people, I don't know who understands. Therefore, there is a sigh in the noise and a cold view in the warmth.

When you are alone, you have time to think, and when you meditate, you have the opportunity to feel.

If you can concentrate, you can go deeper. Endure loneliness and loneliness, maybe there is a miracle to be born. Those advanced theories and theories are often realized and understood by later generations after a long period of suffering.

Many scientific inventions have also gone through painful struggles before they are recognized and promoted. What kind of loneliness should that almost dark burial be?

When you blend into the hustle and bustle, you can't escape the distractions, and you are often physically and mentally exhausted and haggard. For fame and fortune, for the sake of fame and fortune, for love, hatred, hatred and vicious competition, how much does not harm others, and how much does not harm others? As everyone knows, only by treating others well can we treat ourselves well.

In a community, the deeper you are buried, the harder it is to find your true self. Only one can truly reveal one's living self in the world realm.

If you don't enjoy loneliness, you won't enjoy life.

Learn to be busy and quiet, in order to enjoy the lonely time, silently feel the loss and gain, and reminisce about regrets and beauty.

Squeeze in a little time, drink a cup of tea, and think about it, how kind of pity?

To be able to free yourself from busyness, to be alone with your soul in the quiet night, to be able to think about the future in the morning light, that is a kind of mystery that cannot be expressed.

In the dark night, I keep a heart lamp alone, gaze at the desolate and boundless night, there is no pain, no depression, and quietly savor the loneliness of the emptiness and openness.

Walking in the spiritual journey of the self, the restless heart in the usual day into the tranquility of water, in the reminiscence and reflection of life, in the deepest part of the night, touch the flying soul, let the nothingness become rich, what kind of enjoyment is this!

With the development of urban life, the term "autism" has become more and more familiar, but people may still have misunderstandings about autism.

True autism, also known as autism, has been recognized by the medical and educational community in China as a mental disability, which is a congenital disease. What we usually call "senile autism" and "white-collar autism" are actually two completely different concepts from autism, and they both refer to psychological syndrome caused by loneliness.

The nightmare of urban life – loneliness and syndrome. The number of lonely people in the city is increasing, and some people call it 'urban loneliness', from teenagers to the elderly, from successful white-collar workers to ordinary migrant workers, and people who are suffering from the crowded city, the ubiquitous pressure of survival and competition, and the increasingly indifferent interpersonal relationships, are all facing the danger of being swept away by the 'loneliness syndrome'.

Innate defect - autism in children. Visually sensitive but unwilling to look at you, verbal but difficult to communicate with you, hearing but always deaf, behaving against your arrangement, these children are annoying but inexplicable, they are all victims of autism.

Loneliness is often followed by unhealthy states such as low mood, depression, anxiety, and insomnia.

Psychiatrists point out that patients with a tendency to loneliness come to the clinic without knowing that they have a problem.

Their insomnia, anxiety and other clinical symptoms seriously affect their normal work and life, and as a result, when they seek medical treatment, they are found to have suffered from severe loneliness tendencies, that is, the loneliness tendency directly or indirectly causes the above symptoms.

According to the research of common disease rates and high-incidence families, genetic factors are a factor that cannot be ignored in the onset of autism in children.

In addition, neuroanatomical and imaging studies have suggested a correlation between the development of autism and structural abnormalities in the brain.

There is a great deal of individual variation in the syndrome of autism. The isolation and negative personality are the internal causes, and the congestion of modern cities, the intensification of social competition, the increase of survival pressure, and the flood of information are the external causes. In addition, the professional role of wearing a mask, as well as the single-door, closed-door modern house, are also the causes of urban loneliness. (To be continued......)