Chapter 389: Count the money well

(16) Count the money well

It seems that my financial tips are all about frugality, and a popular saying at the moment is: money is not saved, but earned. There is a conversation between a man and a woman like this:

Male: Men should earn money outside, and women should count money at home.

F: Where does the woman's income come from?

M: Men give.

Woman: Won't the man become the woman's boss, won't the woman become the man's subordinate, shouldn't the woman look at the man's face and get paid, what if the man is not willing to let the woman count the money?

M: Then count the money!

So, the woman who is a psychologist and best-selling author concludes:

So, a woman must have her own job, no matter how rich or powerful her husband is. Even if the salary is small, it is a sign of your independence and your connection to society. Modern women study hard like men, and work hard in society, not to get married, but to realize their own value.

"In order to survive, to prove our worth, to make ourselves more mature, and even to seek a kind of fun, we strive to do all kinds of work, and work is everyone's life's work.

"Perhaps, you don't like your current job, and you even want to marry a rich man and change your destiny and run away from your job, but once your dream comes true, it may be the beginning of some kind of miserable life for you. ”

Here is a man's so-called concept of "counting money" is completely misunderstood by this woman who is a psychologist and writer, and the "counting money" that men say is not the number of index money, let alone "spending money", but refers to - please pay attention to all women, it refers to - financial management!

This "counting the money well" means that the money he has given you is well managed, so that it can be counted more and more, and there will be no more!

If you are unfortunate enough to really spend all the money he has given you, then even if you are beautiful, peaceful, filial and considerate...... He will abandon you too!

The reason why I emphasize frugality is that if you can't double the money your husband gives you in the stock market and property market like I do, at least you should be frugal and save some of it for emergencies, which is the minimum requirement for a housewife.

Don't just count the money and spend it, except for dressing up, beauty and health care, nothing else, that kind of day will be boring. Because of boredom and making some red apricots out of the wall, it is really "the beginning of some kind of miserable life"!

No matter how much money we make, if we don't know how to manage our money and can't make money, we will still depreciate, and we will even become nothing in the event of a financial crisis.

Remember the rural proverb: "Men are rakes, women are boxes, not afraid of rakes and no teeth, but afraid of boxes without bottoms." "No matter how much a man earns, a housewife who keeps money will live her life in an orderly manner, while a woman who leaks money will only make a man anxious and physically and mentally exhausted.

Let's learn to listen to the outside of the strings, and not to take it for granted to others.

Let's learn to count the money well.