Chapter 46: Dreams (4)
Chapter 46: Dreams (4)
(4) What is the proposal used?
I proposed with cauliflower, did you say yes?
I couldn't help but laugh when I saw the heat map of that big cauliflower. Let me think about what my husband used to propose?
The first gift he gave me, which I remember very well, was a kitchen knife!
Some people may say that I am grandstanding, but this is the case, others or in the movie hide their hands behind their backs and suddenly present a handful of roses, and Mr. Peijia presents a kitchen knife, but the knife is still covered with a paper shell.
He had just bought it at the Fragrant Hills Department Store, and his first sentence was the same as every time he walked up to me: "Don't tell anyone that I came here to see you!"
The second sentence is different, saying, "Don't tell anyone that we have kitchen knives!"
At that time, I was in the writers' class of the Shanglu Academy. The writer who studied in the senior year of his roommate went to Xiangshan to rent a house to write, because his girlfriend is from Beijing, lives in a hutong, and wants a room that is completely her own, and she is a fan of Cao Xueqin, and she looks very hardcore by living next to his former residence.
When I visited, I asked to share the rent with her. I didn't go to Cao Xueqin's former residence to pay respects, and I couldn't write anything every day, so I learned from those old men and old ladies to get the mineral water from the first spring in the world to drink, and ate in only a few restaurants.
Later, the landlord gave him a stove, so he made a coal fire to cook porridge and used canned jars of kimchi to accompany the meal. When Mr. Pei saw it, he went to buy a kitchen knife and gave it to me.
When the senior writer of the same school saw it, he called me over and talked about it, some of which I still can't figure out.
I only remember him saying: Women are flowers, and they need to be watered by rain and dew every day......
Now that I think about it, maybe he thinks that the boy who delivered the kitchen knife doesn't have the financial strength to make me shine!
Unfortunately, I didn't understand it at the time!
My prenuptial agreement with my husband included the clause "I love you as a question". It's also what I value the most.
Because "I love you" is a question, the person who hears it must answer: I love you more!
Of course, before marriage, men are more dizzy, and they dare to agree to any sword, not to mention a mere answer.
In fact, many times, I didn't pay attention to what the other party was thinking, and I didn't know how to answer, so I said "I love you" to prevaricate the past. It's not a deliberate attempt to make people answer: I love you more!
After a long time, my husband thinks that it is more difficult to say "I love you more", so he often says it first when he thinks that he wants to say "I love you", and then proudly looks at me and answers "I love you more", and then says "Be louder, I can't hear clearly!"
Even in front of his parents, he couldn't change this habit, and he had to come out with a cold "I love you".
Fortunately, my parents-in-law just laughed, and at most said: Look how much my son loves you!
In fact, he was stingy, so he was afraid that he would love more and suffer a loss. I'm not afraid to answer "I love you more", it's a trap I've designed a long time ago!
During the meal, I wanted to say something but forgot it, and my husband hurriedly said "I love you" when he saw it, and then he played a round and said: Say what you want, buy it for you!
In this case, I couldn't hide from my son's ears, so my son came to me and said: I am your handsome guy Xiaomi, love me more!
Then spread out his hands and shake: "Rooster (salary) Oh, increase Rooster (salary)!"
Just "I love you" really can't be used to propose, you have to have the sincerity to cook and eat together and the guarantee of having children.