Chapter 47: Dreams (5)

(5) Do you know your lover?

Most of human interaction is not to listen with the ears, but to speak with the mouth. This is a big misunderstanding.

Everyone wants to express their opinions, defend themselves, elevate themselves, and scold others. There are very few people who know others.

This situation is reflected in the husband and wife, and they gradually look separated, sleep in the same bed and have different dreams, followed by a series of failures, and then the threat of divorce, which makes the chicken and dog restless.

So, what about trying not to use your mouth but your ears?

I remember seeing a set of photos of **and** on the Internet not long ago, which made my opinion of ** this woman change dramatically.

In the photo, the two are very compatible. The chairman wears a padded jacket, she wears a padded jacket, the chairman wears a military uniform, the chairman wears a military uniform, the chairman's clothes have patches, and she also wears a tweed skirt when the chairman puts on a tweed coat after liberation! Such a woman, if the chairman falls ill, she chooses the right person to follow closely, not Wang Zhangyao, and she will not end up committing suicide.

She's the one who knows how to use her eyes and ears!

In the cave in Yan'an, whenever the chairman spoke, she ran to the center of the first row, facing the chairman, watching intently, listening attentively!

In real life, who among the husbands admires their wives, and who adores their husbands? Even if they appreciate each other, under the influence of subtle and introverted traditional ideas, no one will show their admiration in front of outsiders.

Although I don't like to say good things about my husband in front of Mr. Bei, but behind his back to his colleagues and friends, I said very seriously: I think my husband is more handsome than Andy Lau!

I say it so sincerely, sometimes I even believe it myself.

Mr. Pei was very strange, saying that you are not good-looking, why do they say that they are looking for you like this?

In fact, men want to marry a woman who adores them.

As for women, they want to marry a man who is not their own!

Knowing this, what else is there to quarrel between husband and wife?

Quarrels won't solve problems, but if you want to create problems, you have to quarrel. Otherwise, who would have thought of divorce without having quarreled?

Learning to quarrel seems to be a skill that I urgently need to master at the moment, and it seems that it is unrealistic to want to divorce Mr. Pei calmly, and I really envy those who leave without being cold. And I, who used to be used to hypocrisy, didn't know how to make him angry for a while, so as to completely throw away the disgusting burden of serving men all my life, and by the way, abandon the green hat I had worn for ten years.