Chapter 584: Love

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I want him to be happy, to be with the woman he loves, and to be happy for the rest of his life. Because seeing him happy will make me feel great and fulfill his happiness.

If he is sad, I will be miserable because I have no excuse to help him and can only bless silently. Therefore, the sentence: "Please be happier than me" is not hypocrisy, but the sincere words of a person who has loved deeply.

One of my friends said, "If you hurt me and you're happy, then please continue." I can't help but say: If you feel hurt when you see others happy, it means that your infatuation is sinful.

It is extremely shameless for all men who cheat and raise second wives to be complacent as infatuated boyfriends who are reluctant to give up and ignore love for the sake of love; some women with ulterior motives also help to shoot that kind of extramarital affair TV series one after another, and one day they will taste the bitter fruits they have planted.

If you love, you should want your loved one to live happily ever after. I hope he can be with the person he truly loves and is as good as him. If you want to possess him and prevent him from being truly happy, it means that you don't love him anymore. Love is not possession, if you really love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes a sweet memory in life.

To really love someone is to love him as he is, and you must not want him to become what you want him to be because you love him. You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you will only be happy if you are good to him and you will not ask him to do anything.

Bing'er said that his little prince really loved her, and the little boy who expressed his admiration for me on the Internet also really loved her, how could this be? Including my husband, in order to fulfill their own wishes, to achieve a certain goal of their own, or to make others feel envious, or to reassure their parents, these are all obstacles to love. It is impossible to see love itself.

When I was in college, I was often asked to recite "To the Oak Tree": "I must be a kapok near you / Standing with you as the image of a tree". It's really helpless, not to mention that the altitude difference between oak trees and kapok trees is more than 2,000 degrees, and no matter who goes to whom's side, there is only a dead end, let's just say that the two trees that are really juxtaposed are a gesture of love? I think it's more like love than vine trees.

Because I am a woman, my posture is as weak as a vine, and I hope to wrap around a tree, so that my flowers bloom all over the tree, so that more people can see my save. Originally, I was a big trumpet flower that could be seen by the whole world, but the tree I chose was too small to give me enough space to display. Then I have no choice but to resign myself to my fate, can I move to another tree? I have already missed the flowering season.

And those trees, because of a flower seed flying around them, uproot the bright and open flower vines on their bodies, throw them aside, and let themselves bloom fresh flowers, feel very comfortable? Or let a few vines climb on their bodies and bloom colorful flowers, they are very proud?

Look at those big trees that are entangled in vines, everyone and every tree, there is only a piece of land under their feet, whether it is fertile or not, without vines, the tree will naturally grow taller, only if they grow high enough to clean themselves and love themselves, there is a foundation for flowers to adhere to, and they can only carry the corresponding flowers.

Only the stupidest woman will choose a tree that has bloomed to compete for beauty, that kind of woman is called Xiao San'er and Second Grandmother, even if she blooms her own flowers, it is also a dead vine as a foil, and it is not beautiful.