Chapter 52: Dreams (10)

(10) Necessary conditions for a happy marriage

There are many people who can post countless articles in a day.

I woke up in the middle of the night and entered a space from the Yahoo homepage, full of women's topics, from virgins to female corpses! I also built a reposted document, copying a lot of passages that seemed interesting at the time.

But when I look at it a few days later, it's not like that at all. It's mostly a confusing cliché.

Probably because women's pursuit of happiness has always been very strong, those articles occupied the rankings for a long time later. It also forced me to look at my own happiness.

I think one of the necessary conditions for a happy marriage is that you have to love this person!

The people we love in our lives are like a marquee, and when we feel mature and can fully appreciate happiness, most of them have already entered the palace of marriage. Many people feel dissatisfied and unhappy.

This is a very helpless thing, in fact, it feels like it can be controlled. is already married, fate, it is more difficult to change fate, most of the changes are getting worse and worse, and the more unlucky they become, it is better to accept fate.

Firmly say to yourself: This is the life I have chosen, and I recognize the person! Every day, I say "I love" in my heart countless times, and after a long time, I say "I love" countless times a day, and after a long time, I believe it and form a habit. Happiness will quietly fill your home.

Because no one is a fool! Turning a blind eye to love from the heart, and going around looking for flowers and willows or watery poplar women are a minority. The key is whether you have really been cultivating your love, whether you really only love this one person!

Xueyou sent such a text message during the news last night:

"From the eyes that meet each other when you and Mr. are talking, you can see the harmony and tacit understanding between you, and you are middle-aged

A lot of the good things have come to pass, and it's a blessing that you still have that look at each other like that. ”

In fact, it's never too late, and from now on, make up your mind to fall in love with your husband or wife!

Don't sue others about your unhappy marriage, that's tantamount to saying that you're a big fool!

In fact, my Mr. Bei cheated on me ten years ago, and my happy marriage is just a symptom, I just know and ignore men's affairs because I have gone through 800 years of ups and downs.

I just want everything to go according to its own laws, and I don't get involved, I don't interfere artificially.

Those who know, such as Zhenzhen, wonder why I am still living so nourished and happy. Actually, it's not like I haven't cried. But after crying, I knew I was going to do my own thing, not to be like them. There is always only one person I love, and that is the one who marries me. If I get divorced, I am liberated, and I can love only myself - I love what I love and I love myself, and I don't have to worry about the so-called lover's affairs anymore.

It's not that women can't live without men, and don't think that their men won't cheat, and if you don't cheat, it's just because you're too ugly and too poor to show off. Men, like all male animals, are in their instinct to be kings and take possession of all the females in their flock.

Acknowledging this fact, marriage becomes much simpler. A woman only needs to regard her husband as the emperor, and his Jiangshan Sheji and the three palaces and six courtyards are not things that women should manage.

Once a woman becomes a wife, it means that "the mother is more precious than the son", and it is much simpler to think about it this way. Enjoy the joy of family brought by children, and enjoy the comfort of self-cultivation when your husband is not around. Why do you have to rob it with other women, whoever wants it will take it. Knowing that there will be a cold palace after being favored, it is better not to compete for favor and settle into a life of peace without worrying about food and clothing.